Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List
Name: Erika, but you can call me Sinnie
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Location: Connecticut (UGH. )
Orientation: Who knows? Labels suck. I've been attracted to certain particular women, over the years, but I've only slept with men. I also call myself a "gay boy trapped in a woman's body." I'm not very girly, in the traditional sense. I *heart* androgyny.
Hobbies: Sporadically playing World of Warcraft; reading; researching anything I'm currently perseverating on; fantasizing about learning to play my bass/starting a band/improving my singing voice (instead of actually doing anything about any of them, ho-hum... ); fantasizing about moving to Scandinavia; etc...
Description of corporeal shell: 6'1" (185 cm) tall; fit; pr0n-type body (all natural); hazel eyes; long "auburgundy" hair (I dye it with mehndi-grade henna); flawless light olive complexion; a couple of tame piercings. My usual non-work "uniform" consists mostly of jeans, band t-shirts, Chucks, and nrrrrdy glasses. Boring, 'tis true, but I'm kind of restricted by a). what fits (almost nothing) and 2). what I can afford (again, almost nothing).
Enjoys: Sex; music (g*th/industrial/electronic/old New Wave/drone metal/etc.); art; architecture; Medieval history; research; body mods; photography; zombies; weird freaky s**t; abnormal psych; fetishes; looking at things; thinking about things; making things; finding things; fixing things; the details.
Relationship experience: I didn't have a boyfriend or a real relationship until I was 28, which is when I lost my virginity. I spent 7 years with my first bf, which was about 3.5 years too long. I thought I'd never have another relationship, so I stuck around in that virtually-sexless near-marriage out of fear. He was an absolute gentleman, respectful, meticulous, hard-working, socially-awkward, horribly shy, probably asexual, a computer/3D graphics whiz-kid, and probably on the spectrum. Only we, of course, didn't know that then.
I've had a few 6-to-9-month "relationships" in which I thought the respective guys and I were bf and gf, but the guys in question viewed me solely as a f*ck buddy. Surprise! I've had a few one-night stands, as well as a one-weekend stand. At least I got to see Toronto in the process!
I broke off a 2-year relationship in September 2012; we'd actually been engaged for part of that time. He's a violent, unhygienic, self-mutilating, sex-addicted LaVeyan Satanist and self-described sociopath with a serious and dangerous alcohol and substance abuse problem. He also cheated on me with his psychotic ex-gf about 2.5 months into our relationship. Surprise! (Actually, my first bf is the only one who never cheated on me. Surprise!) I took the self-mutilating Satanist bastard back, though, because I didn't want to have to be alone or celibate again. Also, he's beautiful, and the sex was plentiful and readily available. And I'm an idiot.
Seeking: A much-younger, modded (piercings/tats/etc.), dark-haired (preferably long), light-eyed guy who's bright, very open-minded, respectful; brutally honest; ethical; fit, spontaneous, on the tall side (I messed about with a much-shorter guy years ago, and it was just a bit too awkward for my liking), sexually adventurous, more pretty than handsome, and not overly masculine, with a filthy mind and a clean body.
Note: Many of the desired attributes on this list are subject to change without notice; I'm currently crushing on a co-worker who fits very few of them. Go figure.
Really, though, all I'm looking for at this juncture is a friend and playmate. Something exclusive, committed, and long-term would be icing, but I haven't experimented enough yet to want something like that again for awhile.
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Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
LachlanW
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 30 Dec 2011
Age: 38
Gender: Male
Posts: 63
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Name: Lachlan
Age: 26
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Orientation: Straight
Picture: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp5107787 ... t=#5107787)
Physical Description: I'm 178cm tall, broad-shouldered but not bulky or fat. My fitness is alright but there's room for improvement.
I like ginger beer and ginger bread. I have a ginger beard and a ginger head. This part doesn't rhyme and I don't have a ginger mo. By the way, only a ginger can call another ginger ginger. Don't be prejudiced
Occupation: I've recently completed 2 Diplomas (Software and Website development) at TAFE. Starting a degree next year (Software development) at Swinburne Uni.
Interests: Science (especially psychology, evolution and outer-space related subjects), philosophy, movies, TV dramas, fantasy novels, amateur theater, bike riding, computer games and board games. I am currently dipping my toes into learning Spanish and teaching myself to play the piano, it's slow going on both so far. I'm a big cat person .
Music: I have broad tastes in music. Classical (including: Beethoven, Schubert, Bach and others), Frank Sinatra, Elvis, The Eagles, The Beatles, Simon and Garfunkel, Queen, Elton John, Yanni, Enya, Green Day, Linkin Park, Nirvana, Jeremy Soule, Ludovico Einaudi, Armin Van Buuren, Guns N' Roses, Pink Floyd and U2.
Personality: Analytical (big surprise huh), curious, inquisitive, dependable, affectionate. Somewhat dry sense of humour. I enjoy poking fun at silly things in life. I like socializing, but only one-on-one or in small groups of people I know or would like to know.
I have experience with relationships but by NT standards I'm inexperienced for someone my age. I'm OK with women 21-35.
If you would like to know more, send a PM
Newly single !
I'm recently separated from a long term relationship.
I'm Dave, 45 years old from birmingham UK, I'm looking to meet & makes new friendships with within Birmingham & surrounding area's.
Male or female for social times, I'm hetrosexual but I'm not really looking for another girlfriend at the moment, but who knows what may deveolpe from friendships.
I'm a car owner & my interests vary from household DIY, to urban exploration, walking, map reading & building scale models.
I only consume alcohol rarely, social occasions etc.
PM if interested
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Can someone tell me how to apply my signature to my posts ?..., as my pen scratches my PC screen !
PM me anytime for advice, chat or just to say hello.
FireoftheStorm
Raven
Joined: 28 Dec 2012
Age: 31
Gender: Male
Posts: 110
Location: Knoxville, TN (Home) or Pittsburgh, PA (College)
Name: Eric
Age: 19
Location: Varies - College is in Pittsburgh, PA. Home (and potential property) is around Knoxville, TN
Orientation: Straight
The Face of Book has my Picture
https://www.facebook.com/eric.summitt.1?ref=tn_tnmn
Physical Description: 5' 10". Built like an oversized dwarf (broad shoulders). Brown hair. Trimmed hair outline (Lincoln-esc).
Profession: Freshman at CMU - Engineering (Took a gap year to learn more of the world outside of books, things like falconry, horseriding, sailing, develop my interests, and learn to play an instrument)
About myself: Naturalistic spirituality/religion. My interests have few limits. History, Mythology, Space, Mechanics. Electronics. Nature. Martial Arts. Sailing. Carving. Smithing. Calculus/Geometry. Nuclear Research. Art. Et cetera.
Dream - Inventing/research (Primarily for a green world or space colonization) while living on a self-sufficient strip of land (green energy powered, and self grown food, observatory) and going to a nearby town to play with the town's children and tell them the forgotten stories of yore. A bit like Santa Claus, giving handcarved toys and art as well. Would love to have a family one day, but that's all 10+ years down the road.
Personality: Someone put Leonardo da Vinci, Saint Nick, Edgar Allen Poe, Thomas Jefferson, Jules Verne, and a Native American/Druid in a blender and out came me
Reserved, Full of Wonder, Melancholy, Creative, Loyal to a fault, Overthoughtful. Romantic. Clumsy.
Music: More limited: New Age, Folk/Folk Rock, Classic Rock, Chants, Before Common Era Music, and Classical. Hate Rap.
Bands: Omnia, Damh the Bard, Beatles, Simon and Garfunkel, Faun, Lindie Lila, Lisa Theil, Kate West, Celtic Tunder/Celtic Woman. Don't know them, look them up on youtube, and you can arrange a witchunt for me later.
Never been in a relationship before, and would like to be in one. Have few expectations except to get along with someone near my own age.
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"Weren't you banished to Foodcourtia?"
"Oh, I quit."
"You quit being banished?!"
...Everything is insane.
200+ pages of single aspies
Has anyone made ANY connections?
ME
I'm a 5'7" 145# m from upstate New York, 49yr old,
divoriced and broken hearted disconnected father of 3 with no family or friends
I have 2 cats
bla bla bla...no one will respond .....caus I'm old
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"I feel as if I am walking in the rain, everyone else has an umbrella,
but I do not. I am soaked to the bone and shivering from the cold."
I have never posted in one of these before (not an aspie one, anyway).
I am 35, live in Australia .. it's hard to say what I'm good at without it sounding arrogant, I feel. I have skills relating to both sides of the brain, like say I have studied in the sciences but have musical training also.
The best things in life are not spoken, so I don't believe I can say more and make the chance of finding love any more probable.
I'm not sure how to get a photo up here but I am a Leo and I look like one.
That is all.
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.. one day
in murky water mild,
where Wednesday lay
A Thursday child ..
Has anyone made ANY connections?
Yes, I have a few times, so it's not completely hopeless. In my case, nothing has worked out long-term, but sometimes short-lived happiness is better than nothing ...
I haven't yet from this site, but have on regular dating sites. Even my dates or past short term gfs often remain good facebook friends and that can lead to other friends as well. There is no need to go back more than 40 pages on here as that will be over a year. You can try these two facebook pages also: http://www.facebook.com/groups/ASPIEDATING/ and http://www.facebook.com/groups/546852655325679/ (for friends).
But I recognize some of you are already on those!
My name is Ryan Ashley. I'm 23 years old and I live in Scottsdale, Arizona. I enjoy science fiction novels, samurai lore and stories, Warhammer 40k (game and their novels), video games, and a wide variety of music (ranging from classical, classic rock, metal, and even country...more Johnny Cash and Hank Williams Sr. country). I'm 6' 2" amd 285 lbs, I smoke tobacco semi-regularly, and I'm very shy. I'll be honest and say that humans, by nature, are visual creatures and all judge on some level based on that. This being said, a girl doesn't have to be absolutely perfect physically for her to fit my bill. All that glitters is not gold and all that mess xP I'm looking for a local gal who doesn't mind imperfect guys, is sweet, and doesn't make drama where it doesn't need to be made. Tattoos are an incredible plus. Love gals with tats. If this sounds like you and you like how I appear, hit me up
Allen
43
6'4" 220lbs - my current narrow focus is working out - I go six times a week, but holy sh$% I'm not that roid rager screaming like he's in a prison shower every time he completes a rep. I do it because I feel great after and I like the end result and increase in confidence - at one point in my life I was 6'4" and 165lbs, so yea - big difference . I still eat like crap and consume lots of stuff I shouldn't so I'm not a total health nut.
I am the opening coordinator of a new restaurant concept in Atlanta - I may also being moving to Ft. Worth to help open a new theater complex there - I've been in hospitality management since, well, forever.
I love nature, movies, animals (dogs mostly - dogs and I get along famously), sarcastic stupid humour, writing and am a sexual person.
I'm looking for someone who's not a complete tosser, who treats people with respect and kindness even if they don't know how to express themselves fully or the best possible way like me. Someone who can relate to me and is utterly imperfect as me.. That's it.
My name is Matt
25, PA.
body type: average to skinny-ish. 5'11" about 150 lbs. (even though my diet is somewhat awful I never seem to gain much weight. been trying to eat better and exercise more though, because why not? might as well not risk getting the "beetus")
Don't think I'm an aspie, but I'm sure I have some kind of mental weirdness going on (but not in a bad or creepy way, i hope). I work as a 3d modeler/animator. I don't get to spent as much time with my friends as I'd like to, so I'm mostly looking for a female buddy to do stuff with like watching movies, video games, finding where the bodies are buried, or just misc derping/joking around. If that develops into a more serious relationship, great, if not, I love making new friends.
(also I should add that I enjoy just about any genre of music, but if you like chiptunes I will love you forever)
My phone just deleted my post, so I will have to start again.
My name is Kaitlyn, and I am fifteen.
I am a diagnosed Aspie (I know some males are particular, as I am) and I am looking for love here in Northern Virginia. I am originally from New Jersey.
I have a high intelligence (IQ of 123) but I am not all about intellectual matters. I like to make jokes but tend to take things very literally.
I am slightly heavier with short, dark brown hair, thin black glasses, and blue-gray eyes. I am 5'9".
I love history and writing. Ancient Egypt is one of my ongoing special interests.
I would like to find an older Aspie guy that is no older than 17 and lives in my area.
I do apologize for my high standards, but I would like to find someone that will work without the heartbreak of finding all the wrong ones first.
Please message me if you are interested.