A fling with a celebrity

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"Hot vampires" of the "blade kind" are usually that, right? Do I make the cut? I can go beat someone up first if you need!

That was a terrible time for an English fail. I can't believe I just did that.

Yeah I couldn't tell what you were saying for a bit there . I knew it wouldn't have been mean anyway.

Of cooooouuuurse I'd make the cut for the gorgeous club, I just don't see myself being chummy with it's current founding members

First of all, I've never talked about you to Wolfheart (or anyone else for that matter). I'd rather be kept out of any disagreements the other members have between them.

Do I find it flattering that this Finnish guy is attracted to me? Of course. Do I seek flattery with this thread? Certainly not. I wanted unbiased perspective which I received and I think it's much easier for me to take my course of action from now on when it comes to this matter. I may have less problems in certain fields (and probably more in others) in comparison to a lot of members here, but you can't conclude based on that that I would be arrogant. We're all unique. I have my faults just as anyone else. I think you seeing me as special has more to do with your own issues.

Thank you, Max... I appreciate it.

That pretty well sums up how I feel about it all. It's a major ego boost, but when rationalizing everything in it, he doesn't respect me at all. Right now I'm feeling a lot more pulled down than excited about the whole situation.

Your hotel bill must be mounting up.

I have this impression ....for a reason.

And it's not "based on who wants to f*ck you" but based on the quality of the guy you f**k (not the whole self-esteem but a good portion of it).

Oh, I didn't mean that. Everyone does typos.
Seriously though, I don't think there is a "cool club" here. I'm certainly not in it if there is.

The jacuzzi, the champange, the red candles.... all for nothing..

Boo - not all women are going to be like that.

A good large majority of the percentage of them are, yes.
Is Lil one of them? Yes. She has admitted as much.

But there are exceptions to every rule.
I don't happen to be part of that percentage.

So maybe you can see why blanket statments tend to annoy people?




Everyone keep talking about this "cool" club and these apparently "popular" members.
I have never met one yet.
I'm being to think the exsistence of such is like the abominable snowman - purely a connoction of paranoia and other weird things.

It is just normal for you to feel some affection with the celebrity. Yet you must know where to put yourself to avoid being hurt at the end.

Yep. Best post ever! Who wants to be like him?

I just want to say something to some of the people in here. A person's problems *are* relative. I personally don't see how someone like Lilya could have self esteem problems or insecurities. She's everything I wish I was. But I am NOT her - and people have different problems, and just because you, me or other people seem to wish they were that cool or popular or interesting, it doesn't make the person's problems in question less real. It took me a while to learn this. But it doesn't matter if you're an aspie guy on here with no friends who can't get women, the problems of others are just as real and painful.. TO THEM.

I was having a waa waa the other day for a problem that was very real to me. Other people may look and scoff and say "you don't have any problems in that regard" but it simply isn't true.

I have learned a lot over the last few years, and more recently been able to empathise with aspie males who are lonely when I couldn't before. Trying to "get" people on a general level/see things from an unbiased way is a good thing for a lot of us, including me, to aim for.

I confess that when it comes to dating you have more experience than the typical Aspie girl (and guy), but I don't really see you as special. To me, you're just someone online whose posts I happen to read like any other member here. You have your own uniqueness (as do others), but I neither think so highly of you to the point of worship nor do I think low of you.

You seem to be taking what I'm saying a bit too personally, and I think my motives have been misunderstood. I don't feel envy or jealousy or awe. My feelings are neutral concerning your dating life. What I'm saying is, based on how you don't have a clearly defined tangible problem in this thread that would make me want to give you advice or just feel sympathy for you, and based on at least one other similar thread (that in which you actually do clearly come off as bragging about how you interacted with another celeb and came out as the superior person in the interaction and declaring some form triumph or victory or whatever), the thread is just about puffing yourself up and puffing up the celeb you're talking about here. It's being done subtly, but I seem to be able to spot it easy, that is all.

As for your man, he's nothing special character-wise, it seems. I can think of normal average non-celeb men who are more charming and good with the ladies than he seems to be (based on what you say).

Right i don't see your problem exactly but i think your wondering if its just casual sex or if its something more and how you react to ending up just "another notch on the bedpost".
I think sub and perhaps evenconsciously you feel that this is just a casual sex thing, perhaps if you yearn for more you should cut it off as i don't think it seems it will go that way, and you may end up hurt. However if you are up for a bit of casual sex then go for it like that, but know its unlikely to ever be anything more/sustainable.

As for celebrities they are normal people, elevated by status of course, however if you idolise this guy ( i am not saying you do- common pitfall) you may end up getting "used."

Anyway basically from what ive read, if you wanna be sex opponents okiedoke
if you want a proper relationship id suggest elsewhere

There's nothing sinister going on or any great conspiracy against other members but it is about keeping things on a respectful level.

I have quite a few members on my Skype and keep in mind, I have organized meet ups and personally met people in real life from the forum. Anyone is welcome to come along to the meet ups or have a conference chat, personal chat or personal meeting on Skype or in the UK as long as people remain polite, treat each other as equals and don't start judging high horse.

My private messages are always open but I seem to receive more fitness related questions than relationships questions these days. As I said, anyone is welcome as long as the right type of attitude is upheld.