Do AS girls date AS guys?

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Heh. Appears as if a sexist comment of mine was deleted.
A'right.
I think a lot of jaded guys (By the way I've never been rejected or even tried to go out with a lady or have been hurt by a lady) are jaded because of this Alpha male attitude women have that's just well...It makes me not want to even bother. Not because I'm not an alpha male either, it's because of how shallow women appear to be. It's just upsetting, I thought it was just a myth spouted by guys that can't get laid and only a minority of women adhered to that s**t. But this thread has made me think otherwise by the amount of women lovin' dem alphas, even the AS ones.
I think a lot of it isn't to do with "f**k WHY WON'T WOMEN LOVE ME?". But genuine pain over how women are. Being sold a lie from age 0.
Like finding out your idol is a monster. There. A perfect analogy. Your idol turning out to be a monster.
You either have desperately lonely guys or asexual guys around here.
I think I know why they're asexual.

Yeah but they'd only date aspie men because there were no alpha as f**k guys around.
To me it seems as if women prioritize the alpha thing over everything else. What I mean is, if there was this geek who liked the same things she did, and a manly man. She'd go for the manly man. Maybe that's wrong of me, and if I'm wrong, well that's all good. Maybe it's wrong of me for a different reason, and this is the world we're living in and I'm just still living in the world of my 13 year old self of everyone's "different" and the world is made out of different types. I wouldn't be so upset if I didn't just see the same template over and over again.
Everywhere around the world I just see cookie cutted shapes of people, with just trivial differences like, some like x, some like y. But at the heart they're both Z.
I want a world with lots of difference. It's like if you get a videogame and the advert says "A BAZZILION GUNS". When in fact there's only 100 types of guns, with different textures to make 20000 other guns. I'm not thinking of any game inperticular, but I hope you get my point.
Hell, I am a shut in, maybe that's what's caused this bizzare view. For instance, I suppose you view butterfly to be all the same and their differences are only trivial and they're just butterfly afterall.
That's what humanity boils down to basically.
Damn. I don't think I'm sexist.
I just, I think all women I've seen, (and most men mind you) I don't approve of their behaviour.
It's like, if you have some guys doing some weird BDSM stuff in their basement. You wouldn't approve, you wouldn't exactly be against them though (unless you're into that, or a fascist).
But if the entire world is into bdsm s**t, and it's all you've ever seen. Well, you're not going to be very happy living with people, and would it be fascist to want something that's NOT just bdsm and people doing weird stuff?
Women have told me it's sexist to not want a woman, and to want a special type a woman.
I don't think it's sexist to not want something you don't like.
....I lost what my point was a lot of sentences ago.

I guess I'm sexist.
I blame the media, and the things people say on the internet.
Tell you what is my downfall. Perfectionism.

Oh but tell me this, what are the chances of ever meeting a girl at the age of 21 who's AS and has never had a boyfriend?
But the chances of a guy is higher.
Sexist world.

Is the average Christian going to stop believing in god just because someone said there's no proof?
Oh and also, that's a bit, bollocks.
Men and women don't have the same chances.

I know. I was using analogy to make a point.
I sure as hell don't like my view on the world. It's not a nice view and it doesn't make me happy. Now why don't I just stop believing in it?
Surely if it was that easy I would have stopped by now.
But you're asking me to change my morality, which isn't an easy thing to do.
Wait.
I want to know, how am I sexist? If I don't know what I'm doing wrong then, well, can't not be sexist.

Kay

I like guys who are like me, so I tend to go for men with more AS qualities. In my area, very few adults actually have awareness of adult AS, so it's not like I can just ask a man if he is or not. NT men are overwhelming for me because they expect me to act in ways that I completely do not understand. I tend to stay single longer and have much shorter relationships for this reason.