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frohman2
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18 Mar 2013, 2:01 am

1. Slightly overweight, but I'm working on reversing that.
2. I get somewhat depressed about a lot of things.
3. I don't have a job and I live with my mother. (working on getting a job though)
4. Sometimes I'm a bit withdrawn from others to a serious extent.
5. I can be clingy.



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18 Mar 2013, 5:07 pm

I'm not a fish!! !! !! :p



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18 Mar 2013, 5:14 pm

  1. I'm not really 'man'-looking (no facial hair)
  2. I don't like going out to parties, dancing.
  3. I seem uninterested to many thing and people (yet sometimes I'm not)
  4. When I'm around a girl I like, I get really nervous and sweaty
  5. I'm bad at sensing emotions


And probably some other reasons



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18 Mar 2013, 5:24 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I think some people here try to make excuses for themselves instead of trying to fix the problem. The first step is admitting the problem.

I'll start:

I am a bit overweight
I can be negative
I have a liver problem which makes me get annoyed at everything
I never bother with my appearance half the time
I have a terrible attention span.

Possible fixes: Excersise, stop eating cake, take swedish bitters, do something to fix my ADD, get in the sun.


I think you're rather hot, from the pictures I've seen of you.

Here's me:

I'm fat from anti-psychotics and anti-depressants
I have Asperger's

That's all I can think of.


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19 Mar 2013, 1:58 am

In no particular order:

I am clingy and need too much from a partner.
I have horrid skin.
I am over-weight (working on it) and my fat is deposited in a very unattractive way.
I have severe sensory issues. I have to ask for them to be accomodated aka be rude and demanding.
I'm very emotionally damaged. No self-esteem, can't take a complement, cynical.
I can't work so I still live w/ my abusive parents. Since I am open about the abuse, I get accused of exaggerating once someone finds out I live w/ them even tho I am "free to leave".
I have a digestive disorder.
I don't like to leave my house, but can't bring people home.
I giggle a lot, especially when nervous, hyper, or embarrased.
I am too blunt. I point out people's flaws and hurt their feelings.
I have trust issues.
I am not-independent, semi-childlike.
I have moods swings.
My functioning level varies wildly and can change in a split-second.
I over-analyze.

Solutions: (watch out for sarcasm)
Keep on track w/ weight loss. Then get lipo for the deposits.
Find a type of therapy compatable w/ my AS logic.
See a dermotologist. (Already have an appt)
Wait for a cure for my AS and digestive disease.


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19 Mar 2013, 10:09 pm

1. I have a tendency to hold grudges/I also like to run away from friends who confuse me.
-work on forgiveness and stop being judgmental and start to ask questions.
2. I'm too sensitive for some people
- Display emotions in more appropriate manner
3. I'm intense and stressed out at times:
-Eat well, sleep well, and relax.



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20 Mar 2013, 2:49 am

I'm too forthcoming with my feelings/emotions
-work on trying to keep them more to myself

I demand the same from my partner
-I cannot "demand" anything from anyone

I'm an "I can't live with you, can't live without you" dichotomy
- need to find a balance

I'm too generous
-This opens me up for abuse



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20 Mar 2013, 3:28 am

bad or just unreeled? im wondering where the pun is behind this..

im not into merging science and maths, coercing with the enemy unless dangerously provoked and maybe i cant talk 'proper enough' . is that it or should i also worry about a tax rebate?