The other woman does not like him anymore. Their encounter was 6 months ago. I believe due to his akwardness and lack of experience sexually she broke it off because they were never officially together and it was the day after they were physical. She is with someone else now and the sad thing is she told me she liked "the chase". The fact he didnt respond to her advances made it more of a challenge and game rather than actually caring about him. I would not go after a guy another woman was all over. Ive known james for over a year but i stayed away from getting to know him well because of her. I dont like games. Im beyond that. I wouldnt be here unless i genuinely want to be with him. Im just having a hard time understabding but i would like to.
Last edited by suzieqq on 01 Apr 2013, 4:40 am, edited 1 time in total.
Ok. I planned on holding off to kiss him only because i dont want to scare him off. After hearing about his nervousness and ackwardness from this woman i sense he may be affraid i wouldnt be understanding or patient with his physical comfort. Just the idea i asked if he was attracted to me and he said yes but immediately wanted to end the conversation tells me he was nervous about me approaching the subject further. What im having trouble knowing is if he likes that im attempting to push the friebdship towards more and his natural reaction is to be bervous or if he wants me to stop. I also think its important to say ive been trying to help his comfort level with me by telling him i like being around him and that i like talking to him. I hope its helping. This is so difficult because he has no idea that i bellieve he has aspergers and i feel like if he knew that i dont care that he has it and i am a very patient understsnding person that he might not be so afraid.
01 Apr 2013, 3:58 am
