Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Name: Jesse
Age: 21
Location: Houston, TX
Physical: I'm a big guy, I wear glasses, I have short hair, 5'11"
Education: In college
Sports: I play none, but I like to watch American Football
Music: Anything except country
Interests: Music, video games, photography/photo editing
Personality: Quiet, laid-back, never excited, caring, kind
Dislikes: Rudeness, dirtiness, fast-paced work
Religion: Christianity

Name: Jon

Age: 28

Sexual orientation: Heterosexual

Location: Palm Beach County, Florida, USA

Physical description: 5'6", average body type.
http://imgur.com/RBWdw3Y

Education: BBA-Finance with Minor-Accounting and an Executive Certificate in Financial Analysis, plus some professional licenses (finance is my profession and my obsession)

Sports: I'll watch just about anything but I am a HUGE Miami Dolphins fan! I run some, scuba dive, used to surf... I'm very water oriented but sand averse, lol

Music: Everything except gangster rap and pop. Favorite music includes: House Music right now, top 40... whatever.

Other Stuff: I'm heavy into video games at the moment; they are my release. I like to cook, I love going to green markets and fairs. I like going to the pool to read a book or the beach to do the same. I like to people watch. I also like to watch sci-fi shows and read the corresponding series of books. I LOVE documentaries and could spend many hours straight watching them

Personality: very outgoing (that's where i'm most NT) except i need a very prolonged decompress after heavy exposure. I am funny, incredibly smart, and love to help people.
I don't like to eat in front of people so I sometimes don't do so well at parties where the booze flows heavily
I am deeply passionate about what I believe in.

Religion:Christian. LCMS - Lutheran Church - Missouri Synod.

Things or people I don't like: Men. I don't like to compete with other men at much of anything. As such, most of my friends are girls. That's also why I have a very hard time meeting women; I get put in the friend zone way too frequently. It also causes jealousy but I would never cheat. I sometimes don't like physical touch (hugs, people touching my back) and I really don't like people looking over my shoulder. I can be very affectionate, though; I just have to be in the right frame of mind. I am picky about my food. I have a lot of quirks, but hey: what aspie doesn't!! !

Strengths: Anything business related! I am pretty handy around the house, and I can grill like a boss.

Weaknesses: correcting people when I think they are wrong, being brutally honest (to the point of offending or insulting), starting things and not finishing, withdrawing, poor phone communication, showing a girl that I am romantically interested in her, and other general aspie traits.

BUT, I AM AWESOME AND YOU SHOULD TOTALLY CONTACT ME IF YOU DIG ME! I WILL ACCEPT FRIEND ZONE IF YOU ARE COOL AND DON'T LIVE CLOSE (since there is no chance anyway!)
-edit: I recently moved to the area and have zero friends beyond my internet gamer friends, so, totally contact me. I'll chat your ear off lol

I'm finding it really difficult to date. Does anyone know any dating sites I should try?

What the heck, I'll do this:

Name: David
Age: 29
Location: Milton Keynes, UK
Physical: Average (although I'm getting a little beer belly.
Interests: Gaming, game development, computing, electronics, all that kind of nerdy stuff.
Sports: No real interests, besides the Olympic athletics, and sometimes Formula 1.
Personality: Dry sense of humour, calm and shy (although I am more talkative after a few drinks), can cope with stressful situations, tries to keep a smile.
Music: I don't actually actively listen to music, but I can appreciate most music, besides talent show winners, and artificial pop stars.
Guilty pleasures: Eurovision
Smoker: Definitely not
Drinker: Occasionally
Religious: Nope, although I do accept others beliefs, if they don't interfere with my own.
Looking for: Female (either aspie or nerdy NT) of similar age and interests, fairly local (I don't drive a car, making travel slightly difficult).

Age : 38
Location : Copenhagen, Denmark
Physical : Average/lean build, average looks, 170cm tall
Profession : coder / biologist
Race : mixed
Interests : Coding, making graphic art (especially photography), making music, science, politics, gaming, coffee.
Personality : intense, curious, distant to most people but very open to friends
Relationship status : open marriage
Likes : Intelligence, honesty, fairness,
Dislikes : Shallowness, preening
Pluses : Very well traveled, a bit of a pleaser, dry dark sense of humor, built-in therapist
Negatives : Concentration issues, broody and moody, codes too much
Religion : none
Pets : cats
Seeking : one (1) female as long-term lover/hookup/whatever-you-want-to-call-it. Friendship essential, intelligence (emotional and mental) a big plus.

Well, here goes!
Hi, My name's Christian, age 23, and lives in Northern California.
I have been single for so long I thought no one would love an Aspie like me, so here's my shot.
I'm kind, nice to be around, friendly, always loyal, and a Christian (The religion, not my name).
I love to do many hobbies, Toy collecting being one of them.
The only goals in life I wish to succeed are the simple things: Having a decent job and a girlfriend. (Being famous and living in LA are optional XD )
I hope someone will love me as is, and won't betray me.

http://imgur.com/MAE0peq <--- me a few weeks ago.

My name is Rory, I'm 17 years old.
I live in County Durham, England.
I'm pretty funny apparently, In a wide range of ways, I love puns :I
I enjoy reading, but I enjoy Gaming much more, the proper kind not CoD crap.
I'm quite intelligent, Until Anxiety issues came into play I would get A's and B's and I was once 3rd in the year Academically.
I find it easier to talk to girls than guys, online or offline. I enjoy helping people with problems, Sometimes too much so.
I'm not Religious but I do enjoy religious Values over the "Must have sex and get drunk" Ideal going around people My age.
I'm not fit but not unfit either, Very broad shouldered.
While I like socializing I don't enjoy going out, I haven't really had the chance as my friends started drinking at 13-14 and I didn't want to touch that.
To be honest, I'm only in the process of being diagnosed, but I'm 100% sure and so is my family and I think the specialist agrees aswell (Who has Asperger's himself.)

I'm looking for Friends first. NT or Aspie, I don't mind. Though I've never talked to another Aspie and to be honest, I'd really like to
I like the Nerdy shy type, But I don't particularly mind
Love is literally the only thing that matters to me, everything else is a means to that end, Ofcourse I have other interests, I enjoy science.
Currently not in College, re-joining this August to finish.

Likes:
Nintendo, myPad, Cats, Sunshine, Boys, Multi-tools, Feet, Food, Quiet, Clean, Routine, Privacy

Activities:
Video Games, Cooking, Exercising (Walking, Sit Ups)

Food:
Burgers & Fries, Pasta, Cheese, Crackers, Cake, Iced Tea, Smoothies, Popcorn, Hot Chocolate, Cereal

Television:
The Simpsons

Dislikes:
Noise, Music, Girls, Bugs, Dirty, Homophobes, Smoke, Abbreviations, Fat People, Religion, Socialites, immaturity, sports

Other Information:
I am homosexual. I have Autism and Tourette's Syndrome. I am honest and open about my feelings. I do not talk very well, however I am good at typing. I am very spacey especially later in the day.

Body: age is mid-20s, brown eyes, brown hair, 5'8" about 150 pounds. I eat healthy and exercise daily with 90 minutes of walking on the "dread"mill and currently 1,500 sit ups. I would love someone to walk outside with, especially in the spring.

I live near providence rhode island
Looking for a boy around my age with my body type and is also into video games and exercising.

Ugly, fat, poor, toothless, bald, one glass eye, no car male of 56yo looking for female with sense of humor for online syllable exchanges.

Just the perfect man that every girl is looking for.

Thanks for your attention. I will be handing out free cookies at the door when you leave. Thank you

OK, I’ll try this.
Gender: Female
Location: Uk
Age: 25
Looking for: Anyone i can connect with. Friendship, romance, whatever. not fussed about age, gender. im up for just talking online if you live in another country
Reckon I’m going to start by listing some of my asperger traits as these are what prevent me from having a relationship with most people. The relevent ones are:
 
Long rambling trains of thought about my  interests that can last for hours
Liking to be alone most of the time.
Odd dress sense and lack of grooming.
Having to live in either complete routine or complete and utter chaos.
Uncertain about intimacy.
Dislike of social situations and public places.
 
The other side of me is that I am highly intelligent and independent and can usually pass for normal among strangers.
My main positive attribute is that I am extremely kind and thoughtful. I also have  a great sense of humour (although I am quite shy and don’t talk a lot).
Interests: Computers, human behaviour,  aspergers.
PM me to find out more.

Why is it so many aspies are from England and Australia?