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06 May 2013, 9:12 pm

Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.



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06 May 2013, 9:16 pm

if you could get pregnant, you'd be picky, too.



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06 May 2013, 9:17 pm

It's quite amusing the contradictory messages about gals one being that gals make sex oh so difficult and the other being gals are such sluts.

Perhaps gals only make it difficult to have sex with them when they don't want to have sex with said guy. Every gal I know makes it quite easy for the guy when they want to have sex with him.



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06 May 2013, 9:20 pm

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Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.


And the entitlement attitude that you have will always ensure that you get nowhere with them.


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06 May 2013, 9:28 pm

Ratae wrote:
Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.


If the tables were turned and women had to make the first move, men would be equally picky. Speed dating experiments have shown that this is the case.

P.S. As far as pregnancy goes, a 30-something woman who feels that her biological clock is ticking, is usually NOT picky. Sure, she may still care about looks--but many women who just want to get pregnant don't give a damn if you don't get along or not.



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06 May 2013, 9:30 pm

Well, “making sex with them as difficult as possible” would involve not having sex ever, unless raped. Do you mean this is the case?



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06 May 2013, 9:31 pm

Mindless bickering and wining.

Wow the immaturity and judging here are on levels this particular post are ridiculous.

Oh you're gonna be alone forever because you feel entitled.

I'm calling horseshitt.

Most men feel this way. A lot of women play cat and mouse because they like to keep you interested but are seeking other prizes. Its a cruel joke.

Its a way of inflating their own ego.

I am in no way saying that all women do this. I'm just saying this fellow has a right to post here and he shouldn't be persecuted for posting the way he feels about a particular topic.



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06 May 2013, 9:32 pm

Perhaps you're doing it wrong?

I mean, with THAT attitude, I can't imagine why you aren't swamped with offers.



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06 May 2013, 9:38 pm

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Mindless bickering and wining.

Wow the immaturity and judging here are on levels this particular post are ridiculous.

Oh you're gonna be alone forever because you feel entitled.

I'm calling horseshitt.

Most men feel this way. A lot of women play cat and mouse because they like to keep you interested but are seeking other prizes. Its a cruel joke.

Its a way of inflating their own ego.

I am in no way saying that all women do this. I'm just saying this fellow has a right to post here and he shouldn't be persecuted for posting the way he feels about a particular topic.

I didn't see anyone persecuting him though it's telling how often a guy makes a negative generalization about gals then when others say anything remotely negative about said guy other guys leap to his defense with the whole don't persecute him. If he can post the way he wants then others should be able to post the way the want as well.



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06 May 2013, 9:38 pm

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Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.


Nope, we only make it difficult for guys we do not want to have sex with. Nobody is entitled to have sex with anyone else and nobody has to have sex with somebody they don't want to.

It's your attitude that's causing this, like I said several times. If you don't want to take the advice from me and other posters here then keep going like your going. Cause nothing will chance until you do.

Bitter......party of one?


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06 May 2013, 9:44 pm

Kjas wrote:
Ratae wrote:
Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.


And the entitlement attitude that you have will always ensure that you get nowhere with them.


Again I'm calling Horseshitt.

This guy is being harassed clearly.

Some people just like to complain on the internet. It helps them clear their minds. Attacking him so just isn't productive. In fact its probably just going to make him upset.

If you think for a minute that you are able to judge the entirety of any of the peoples here characters/persona and then able to criticize them and tell them what they are and arent doing wrong without taking the time to get to know them and their particular scenario: Then you're full of horses**t.

This guy who made this post is probably having a tough time with his personal life and his goals regarding sex/romance.

This freedom of speech thing is worse then all of Batmans villains being locked up in Arkham.



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06 May 2013, 9:50 pm

Uncertainty wrote:
Kjas wrote:
Ratae wrote:
Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.


And the entitlement attitude that you have will always ensure that you get nowhere with them.


Again I'm calling Horseshitt.

This guy is being harassed clearly.

Some people just like to complain on the internet. It helps them clear their minds. Attacking him so just isn't productive. In fact its probably just going to make him upset.

If you think for a minute that you are able to judge the entirety of any of the peoples here characters/persona and then able to criticize them and tell them what they are and arent doing wrong without taking the time to get to know them and their particular scenario: Then you're full of horses**t.

This guy who made this post is probably having a tough time with his personal life and his goals regarding sex/romance.

This freedom of speech thing is worse then all of Batmans villains being locked up in Arkham.


Having a tough time is understandable. Everybody goes through tough times. However, so many people have either given him advice about the one thing that we notice that he's doing wrong, and so many people have said that his looks, height, not being a big buff bodybuilder, etc are not reasons not to date somebody and he still just keeps on and on saying how bad we all are and how we all are unfair to him.

I haven't seen him really post anything about the tough time he's having or very much about his personal situation. I've only seen him make threads trying to lump us all into one category. So if he wants to put us all in one category, and that is perfectly ok then it's perfectly ok to put him into one too.


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06 May 2013, 9:53 pm

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Again I'm calling Horseshitt.

This guy is being harassed clearly.

Some people just like to complain on the internet. It helps them clear their minds. Attacking him so just isn't productive. In fact its probably just going to make him upset.

If you think for a minute that you are able to judge the entirety of any of the peoples here characters/persona and then able to criticize them and tell them what they are and arent doing wrong without taking the time to get to know them and their particular scenario: Then you're full of horses**t.

This guy who made this post is probably having a tough time with his personal life and his goals regarding sex/romance.

This freedom of speech thing is worse then all of Batmans villains being locked up in Arkham.


Commenting on his behaviour and attitude is not a personal attack. A personal attack is saying something about him as a person. Clearly you fail to understand the important but subtle difference, one is acceptable, the other is not.

And it's not harassment either by the way. I have never posted in a topic of his before. Disagreement is not harassment.

Said OP has made other threads, all with the same tone and attitude, has received countless amount of help, advice, sympathy from others on here - and has not done anything to change his situation. I am not making an uninformed judgement from one post - I am stating an informed perception after seeing many of his posts. I highly doubt you understand the crucial distinction between a judgment and a perception either.
I myself have never posted in any of his topics before, simply watched others do so.

Maybe so - but most of us here have trouble with that aspect of our lives and it hasn't stopped most of us from making an effort and improving. He hasn't bothered to do that.

I'm not going to bother to discuss the concept of freedom of speech with you here - if you want that - go to PPR. You'll soon find out what a personal attack is there, and you'll also find out that you need to be more consistent and logical in your position if you want to get anywhere before others will take you seriously.


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06 May 2013, 10:06 pm

Uncertainty wrote:
If you think for a minute that you are able to judge the entirety of any of the peoples here characters/persona and then able to criticize them and tell them what they are and arent doing wrong without taking the time to get to know them and their particular scenario: Then you're full of horses**t.

So the OP is full of horses**t since he clearly thinks he's able to judge the entirety of a group of people criticizing them and telling them what they are doing wrong without taking the time to get to know them and their particular scenario as I doubt he met all or most of the gals in the world.



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06 May 2013, 10:16 pm

Ratae wrote:
Women do everything they can to make having sex with them as difficult as possible.

It's a classic sales technique; you make it very difficult to acquire your product, and people think it is rare and special and will pay much more for it.


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