Women always try so hard to ignore me and look away from me?

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True. but it is on the negative side of encouragement. ie. Stay at home and do nothing, because even trying is making it worse.
Your sentiment is of a defeatist tone.

Interrogating strangers about their failure to interact would be weird to say the least.

Social interaction is self betterment, and really need not require justification.

This thread asks the question of negative feedback from women in public settings.
For a start, the women don't 'know' why they react, as they are most probably just reacting from instinct. There may not be a rational reason in them to give. There will be excuses if pressed, but the heart of the matter is not about them.
Asking them for rational reasons for their intuition and instinct is like asking the mirror to justify its reflection.
But this is all theory.
So to take one step toward reality, one must open one's mouth - without any expectation.
It is no great social faux par to say "Hi" to a stranger. It is no big deal for that stranger to say something positive or to smile back.

Please point out where I said "stay at home and do nothing".

If you constantly look for or try to engineer a certain reaction off other people it's doomed to failure as other people pick up on the false dynamic of the interaction and it puts them off

You sound like you're constantly looking for a specific reaction off these women but they are free agents who aren't put on the planet to flatter your ego

People with Aspergers are not good at non-verbal, body language type stuff so I'd say it's better to give it a miss and just concentrate on the actual face to face interactions, where you get far less ambiguous feedback from others.

Find a woman who is ovulating and put on some pheromone calogne! Then bam you win!

I do and feel the same exact way as you and am also perceived the same. The only thing is people stare at me instead of look away and I try to look away!

Yeah. Same thing with me. I'm treated like the plague...

Let me put it this way, If I was on a bus and their was me and an empty seat and the rest of the bus was full, a girl would rather stand up and get smashed around the bus than sit down next to me.

I really envy the OP if it’s actually hard for women to ignore him. I’ve never seen them try hard to ignore me, because ignoring me isn’t hard at all for them

I didn't read the whole thread, but I read the first page, and I think it sounds like the women you thought didn't like you may have been flirting with you. Doing darty stuff with their eyes is a way that women flirt. Or if they are very nervous they could use the phone as an excuse to fidget with something. Or maybe they felt intimidated and didn't feel like talking.

I wish I had a girlfriend who was going to move in with me.

She's probably in a relationship. Or she could be shy and was already checking you out and like the comment mentioned above. My only recommendations is you speak what you want. You straight up say: I think your beautiful & I would love to hang out with you some time,may I have your number? She will answer ,I'm in a relationship,No I'm sorry (&her excuse),or yes of course.Which ever answer you get the results are quality because you get an answer and you know the deal.Another suggestion I recommend is search for real clues before popping the question for her number. Look for a ring, look for a boyfriend, if you see no signs of another Alfa go for it.If she has a man, well you probably made her day and you don't have to worry about the "what if". And if she gave your her number and you call to discover she has a man better right away than after a first date.Remember not all eye contact makes sense. If I see a hot guy I won't look at him.Weird I know but he's just so hot,the only way something will happen is if he makes it happen,hence the reason I refer to men as Alfa.

Whatever he and she were, they were three years ago.