my pickup lines,and why no women ''hates'' me

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You've been using pick up lines this whole time?
I'm sorry, if they are laughing at you, I have to say they will spread the laughter around, there isn't any stopping it, especially if you keep doing it at the same place! Try getting yourself interested in what they do instead of using pickup lines, and somewhere else than the gym!

you TyriOn are cold as ice

Wow OP, you say these lines to girls at the gym? do you at least wait till they're done their set or no? looks to me like you're lucky you haven't had a plate or 2 fall on you. Harsh words yes they are. Strong first post, yes it is,

Here's a suggestion from a girl who is a gym rat. Try talking to them like they're people and not objects that need to be picked up, ask politely for a spot or a simple smile and nod works. Little tip for ya to, most, if not all girls at the gym are there to train not get hit on.

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamen.

Compliment these women on something relevant to them. For instance, tell them they have pretty eyes. Since you don't know them that well, and you just met these girls at the gym, you can't give them compliments on their personality or achievements, really. Stick to things relevant to THEM, though. People like to hear good things about themselves. They don't like to hear crappy pick up lines. What makes it worse is that the pick up lines are all about you. Girls don't go for that. It's time to rethink the approach, I'm afraid.

they are gym employees,not gym clients.

@billiscool You've said that the employees at the gym are around 19-20 years old? No offense but more than likely they HAVE to be nice to you or get fired. Speaking as a 19 year old girl I would be more than creeped out if a 30 year old man used one of your "pickup lines" on me. If none of the employees have taken you up on your, um, "offers," do yourself and them a favor, take a hint, stop wasting your time and leave them alone. It's possible that if one were to tell you to leave her alone and you didn't, or if she just got fed up with your creepiness, oshe could report you to her supervisor you could be asked to leave or she could begin working behind a counter to avoid you - the Occupational Safety and Health Administration has laws requiring workplaces to make accommodations if any workers feel it is a hostile working environment. This includes all forms of harassment.

Also: Don't use that "how about you date two guys" line. EVER again. If someone tells you they have a boyfriend it means they're NOT INTERESTED. Again, take a hint! Not to mention most women find the idea morally reprehensible and take the very proposition as a show of entitlement - you think you're so great you're going to steal her from her boyfriend.

haven't talk to the 19 year olds for a while. in last 3 months, the gym employees I hit on have been around 22 year old or so.
there alot of employee that come and go. some of the 19 years old are from summer programs.

no, no,no I said she could have two boyfriends, not just me.
but techinaly I did nothing wrong, there are women that do live a open swinger type of lifestyle, where they do date 2 guys at once ( or more)
so, it was worth a shot. maybe a very very bad shot I give you that. but still a chance. ( 1 in 1000 women will openly date 2 guys at once)

That's still not a smart thing to do. Most women would take offense to that. 1 in 1000 is not good odds. 99.99999999% of the time it means they AREN'T INTERESTED. Got it? That's NOT a smart thing to say. The likelihood of offense and being labelled a creep or a predator is NOT worth a .0000001% chance.

Not to give you any more ideas but I can't tell you how many times I've lied and said I had a boyfriend just so somebody would leave me alone.

yeah, your right. odds are not in my favor. fine I will go to plan B.

uh, being called a creep, really has no meaning anymore. it been overuse. If these women aren't going to date me, then why I should care. If they want nothing to do with me, then it really don't bother me, what they think about me. I have my own life, they have their own life, so it makes no difference to me.

Sorry to be so harsh but I'm currently in the process of gathering evidence to charge a um, "persistent" guy with felony telecommunications harassment.

well. let put this way. Once a women tell me she not interest in any way or shape, I stop hitting on her. so, I don't keep asking them out
and hitting on them over and over again. I do still talk to them, but in a ''friendship'' way.


well, good luck on your case.

Hey can I be honest with you for a moment?

I don´t get deppressed.
Why?
I make a point to have fun whenever I approach a male or a female about something and just enjoy myself.

Last woman I "picked up"(was trying to impress someone else but stuff happens when you are on a group) apparently works with famous people, or so she told me yesterday.
Met her on a group situation twice this month, whenever I pass her by she stops me for a second and lets me know that she still remembers my main joke from a month ago.

The fact that a woman who works with people I see on tv still makes a point to thank me for approaching her in such a funny way, considering i wasnt even approaching her in the main place, itself makes up for any rejection I may get(close to none because I dont approach random people that are working but that is another story altogether)

Don t ask me for lines or whatever because I try to improvise, otherwise they see right through me in no time

You take a woman rejecting you to mean she isn't interested right? Because that's what it means..

yes.