I decided not to try and get a SO because God gave me AS.

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EXCUSE ME PEOPLE. THAT IS ALL A COMPLETE LOAD OF B.S. B EFFING S FOR THAT MATTER.

I'm also the resident pastor around here.

So what if you've gotten screwed over a few times in a relationship and you wanna blame it on God. go ahead, but doing that ain't gonna help you one singluar bit. not now, and not ever, and not certainly in your future.

God does not hate anyone, he loves us all. It's only the single minded, half witted, dense, dim, and dotterel people out there who don't think they have a chance, and its usually those people who are the majority of the sucide/homicide cases in the United States and the world each year, not counting elsewhere such as Japan/china/S.Korea which is a bit different.

Now I don't mean to be that much of a jerk, but have any of you who do suffer from this ailment ever thought of maybe seeking help? counciling, psychatiric advice, whatnot?

You wanna know why your single and you think that the Supreme creator hates you? Its because your lackluster enough to think so. No I am not insulting you, I am telling you to get on with your lives, make something of them and do some good.

Trust me. God doesn't hate you. Take a look at me, I'm in college, and you never find me complaining.....come finals that's a different story.

I've had two girlfriends, and I didn't get my first one til I was 17. So I don't know what your complaining about, but stop it.

You people who try and create threads to get sympahty are annoying.

Yessh.

heed my advice.

do something with your lives.

do a sport
get a hobby.
BE SOCIAL FOR GOSH SAKE.

I'm makign a real effort not to swear up and down the board right now.

Ugh.

Good night.

Rev Doc Gamester.

KenM opened a can of worms.

A can of ticked off worms.

Blaming someone else is just avoiding the problem, not solving it.

Things work when you put in 100% effort and commitment, and step outside your confort zone. You've just given yourself an excuse to hide behind.

I have NEVER said I follow a religion. I belive in God. But I belive God is pure evil. God has the power to stop evil and he does nothing. That makes him just as evil. God lets evil things to happen so we pray to him. Thats how god stays in power.

I think you need to take resonsibility for yourself rather than continuously blaming it on aspergers and "god". If your life is s**t, pick it up. The world owes you nothing.

I agree with hale_bopp 100%. You are responsible for you. As has been said a few times in this thread, trying to pass the blame to something else will only make you feel even more miserable because you'll feel you don't have control of your life, as well as how bad you think it is.


I've always thought of God as a concept to help people try and make sense of things, to give a hope of something higher. I tend to think that our belief in God comes down to our upbringing and experiences - i.e. people who have had "miracles" happen to them are more likely to believe.
What you're suggesting is God is an actual physical entity of some sort and that he is evil and that he hates you. Keep in mind that "evil" and "hate" are relative words meaning you need something to compare them against.
If we plug some logic into that: We do have free will. We have choice. I can call you an as*hole or I can call you a nice chap. Notice how I wasn't stopped from doing either?

I'm often shocked how many times people say the two lines "If God is so good why is there war/famine" etc.
Here's my thing. Think about humans. We are, by nature, greedy, arrogant, rude, power loving. Lets say God decided to change the world tomorrow. Got rid of all war, hunger, everything that people consider bad. You think we'd all live in perfect harmony? I don't believe so. We'd find something to get riled up about - maybe not a full war but there are millions of little conflicts everywhere from neighbour disputes to civil wars.
The alternative is for God to change human nature. But then, we wouldn't be "human" anymore, would we.

But then in the end it doesn't matter what I believe, or anyone else believes. Your life is your own. If you think God is controlling you and being "evil" with you then presumably you believe there's nothing you can do about it and I'm not sure what type of reply you're expecting.
If you're just passing the blame for bad things then as I said earlier, you will only make yourself more miserable.
One thing you haven't said (in this thread) is how old you are, how many relationships you've had end badly, and why they ended badly. It may be that you can look at each of them, isolate the bits that didn't work and see how it goes. And keep in mind that the other person lost the relationship too.
Oh and there's one more thing to remember: Sometimes, people -just-don't-get-on. It's not that either of them are worse, it's not that one is lazy, they simple have too many incompatabilities and don't get on. In those cases, no one is to blame.

A can of ticked off worms indeed.

LETS DROP THIS SUBJECT.

NOW!

we need a theological debate forum on WP, then I can shine in all my glory.

I would say you just haven't found the right one yet......such a cliche answer, but so true. I just recently hooked up with a girl who's basically....almost become obsessed with learning about AS and why I am the way I am. Whenever I have a hard time saying something she grabs a piece of paper and pen and has me write it out and then she writes back to me. You just need to find someone who will take the time to learn more about YOU and YOUR condition. You also have to work on yourself as well. You can't just blame everything on AS. I've been working damn hard with this girl I like and have over came some barriers that i've NEVER been able to before. Its a never ending battle man, but you gotta work at it. Don't lose hope.

Nice Geistman. very nice.

How? I would love to know.

Yeah, it's totally pointless to try and impose beliefs in some God that the poster doesn't hold. If you don't have his particular faith (or something close) you are not going to understand.

And they are jumping about.

calandale! Be the early bird! Eat the worms now!

CHIRP!

I don't like worms. More seeds and young birds.

CHIRP!! !! !!

I don't see what's so bad about a can of worms in a forum.