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namaste
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14 Jun 2013, 7:46 pm

My husband is ideal enough but i would have preferred some changes

Age: he is 4 yrs elder to me
Height: he is tall enough then me
Eye colour: black
Hair colour: black
Personality: he is extrovert
Hobbies: he watches lot of TV ( i would prefer if he was nature lover like me)
Nationality: Indian
Non-smoker - but he smokes :cry:
Moderate drinker- he drinks beer :cry:

I want him to be careful with money
and not be gullible and fooled by people


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14 Jun 2013, 7:47 pm

auntblabby wrote:
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my ideal women is a woman who would have sex with me.

wouldn't you want her to love you as well?


yes, that would be good too.



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14 Jun 2013, 8:37 pm

Ideal partner:

Girl.
Age: around mine.
Height: shorter than 6ft.
Eye color: does not matter (but prefer blue).
Hair color: does not matter (but prefer blue hehe).
Likes color blue and black.
Personality: quiet, serious, smart, introvert, RATIONAL... Someone like me... too much to describe...
Religion: atheist (but tolerant).
Hobbies: be with me, researching, programming, digital designing...
Does not have many friends.
Non-drinker.
Non-smoker.
Non-innecesary drugs use.
Interests: technology, neuroscience, universe.
Music: not cumbia or reggaeton. Decent musicians
Work/studying: somthing related to medicine, engineering, neurosciene (or formal or natural sciences)
Wants a Border Collie dog.
Asexual (ironic).

And blah blah blah :)



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14 Jun 2013, 10:10 pm

I'm gonna post anime characters since I don't like real people. Also it gets pointless posting a ton of random requirements and this is fantasy anyway.

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Noah Izumi from Patlabor. She's a bit of a tomboy, but she's super cool. She can cook well, pilot a mecha, and is good at drinking. I think we'd have loads of fun doing all kinds of cool things together like gardening, finding monsters in sewers, going to the Chinese restaurant, piloting mecha. Maybe she can even work on car engines or something, too. She doesn't seem like she'd hide how she felt and communication with her would be nice and straight forward. Overall the anime character I'd want most for a wife.

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Yukiko from Persona 4. She seems really cool. She really pretty but she's actually really lonely just because like, she's so repressed emotionally. In many ways I feel the same way as her. Also, in the game she does things like trying to learn to cook on her own, with her goal being self reliance. I like that in a girl, a girl that shows initiative like that and will ask me for help to try to learn something but not just to have me or someone else do it for her and thinks of self reliance in somewhat the same terms as me (though I'm more of a mega super ultra quasi survivalist) and likes working towards that.



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14 Jun 2013, 11:09 pm

my ideal partner would have the following

Age: 21-32 years old
sex: female
personality: sweet, caring and compassionate
hobbies: likes travelling, food, meeting different people, trying new things



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15 Jun 2013, 1:25 am

Well my ideal partner has the following traits:
-Smart
-Funny
-Happy
-Easy to please
-Smart
-Understanding
-Patient
-Empathetic
-Smart
-Cares about weight
-People person
-Smart


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15 Jun 2013, 9:16 am

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Age: 16-19
Gender: Female
Nationality: British, Australian or European

Appearance:
Hair: Long brown hair
Eyes: Brown eyes
Height: Close to my height (172cm)
Body: Neither over or under weight
Complexion: Fair

Details:
Personality: Kind, loving, thoughtful, happy and laid back but can be serious
Interest: Computers, science, space, software, music, acting, anime, gaming, PIZZA
Hobbies: Singing, making music, watching anime, programming, sleeping

Extras:
Non-smoker
No usage of drugs
Asperger's or Neurotypical

Sorry, I went off topic.. This girl wouldn't be ideal - She would be perfect.


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15 Jun 2013, 1:14 pm

Sparrow40k wrote:
Main:
Age: 16-19
Gender: Female
Nationality: British, Australian or European

Appearance:
Hair: Long brown hair
Eyes: Brown eyes
Height: Close to my height (172cm)
Body: Neither over or under weight
Complexion: Fair

Details:
Personality: Kind, loving, thoughtful, happy and laid back but can be serious
Interest: Computers, science, space, software, music, acting, anime, gaming, PIZZA
Hobbies: Singing, making music, watching anime, programming, sleeping

Extras:
Non-smoker
No usage of drugs
Asperger's or Neurotypical

Sorry, I went off topic.. This girl wouldn't be ideal - She would be perfect.


So what if she doesn´t have a fair complexion and has blue eyes?
And what if she's not from Europe, but from North America, or Argentina?



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15 Jun 2013, 1:55 pm

Here's a bullet point list of my ideal woman's characteristics:

* Dark-skinned African
* Slender (a full backside wouldn't hurt though)
* Intelligent
* Compassionate
* Affectionate
* Faithful
* But not too prudish
* Non-smoker



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15 Jun 2013, 3:55 pm

My boyfriend!

- my biggest supporter and cheerleader (other than my parents)
- loyal and always has my best interests at heart
- kind-hearted and polite, a real gentleman
- generous, giving and empathetic
- really understands and appreciates ASD
- extremely intelligent and witty
- one of the most hilarious people I know, always makes me smile
- very affectionate, just like I am
- fairly introverted with a small circle of friends
- relishes the real me
- does a countless amount of adorable things
- passionate about things he enjoys and has "special interests" (despite being NT)


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15 Jun 2013, 4:37 pm

Small, cute, at least knows how to use her brains, open-minded, lots and lots of humor. And I need to be (sexually) attracted by her.

But even these aren't all that important. It matches or it doesn't.



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15 Jun 2013, 5:42 pm

Feminist, similar political outlook to me(not identical), etc.

I guess I don't have an ideal. I've found a ton of positive traits in people after I realize I'm attracted to them because that's how lust works, I guess.


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15 Jun 2013, 6:00 pm

I don't have a list for what ideal is. I'd have to meet them first



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16 Jun 2013, 12:38 am

Cafeaulait wrote:
Sparrow40k wrote:
Main:
Age: 16-19
Gender: Female
Nationality: British, Australian or European

Appearance:
Hair: Long brown hair
Eyes: Brown eyes
Height: Close to my height (172cm)
Body: Neither over or under weight
Complexion: Fair

Details:
Personality: Kind, loving, thoughtful, happy and laid back but can be serious
Interest: Computers, science, space, software, music, acting, anime, gaming, PIZZA
Hobbies: Singing, making music, watching anime, programming, sleeping

Extras:
Non-smoker
No usage of drugs
Asperger's or Neurotypical

Sorry, I went off topic.. This girl wouldn't be ideal - She would be perfect.


So what if she doesn´t have a fair complexion and has blue eyes?
And what if she's not from Europe, but from North America, or Argentina?


I would be fine with that.
All the above is like a #1 preference. Realistically, I am fine with anyone that is a kind and thoughtful.


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16 Jun 2013, 8:56 am

I generally find that the girls I like can be quite varied, but thought it would be fun to play along and pick the stuff I think I would value the most.

Female
Age: 25-35
Height: 5’9”-6’2”
Hair colour: Brown
Eye colour: Doesn't mater
Personality: Adventurous, interested in unique things, different, intelligent, quirky, laid back and fun-loving
Weight: Looks after herself, but nothing too serious
Habits: Moderate drinker, non smoker, no drugs
Religion: none



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16 Jun 2013, 4:08 pm

Gender: Preferrably male, but open to other possibilities
Age: 30-50
Height: Taller than I am (ie over 5'1)
Hair: Don't care
Eyes: Yes
Ethnicity: Any, though I seem to have a bias towards caucasian. :oops:
Build: Preferrably skinny or athletic.
Personality: Geeky and/or nerdy! Calm, patient, kind, caring, understanding, smart, funny, inquisitive, open minded, independant, adventurous, loyal, wields honesty with kindness....
Hobbies: Must love dogs and cats and horses and all sorts of animals. Enjoys reading, watching movies, table top roleplaying games. Must have intrests of their own to persue, or I will go crazy.
Religion: Atheist or agnostic, or very open to discussions and explaining their belief.
Political: Any that allow all people the same rights, priviliges and responsibilities regardless of nationality, gender, sexuality, religious beliefs, political opinion, socio-economical background, preference of cats over dogs (or vice versa), etc.
Children: Does not want any, or is content with the ones s/he already has.
Drugs: Occasional drinker, does not use tobacco or other drugs. Caffein in moderate amounts, must not be a tea-fanatic, but will enjoy a cup of tea once in a while.
Diet: Don't care, but must respect my vegetarian choice.
Music: Don't care, as long as they use headphones.
Other: Must find it easy to laugh and love, must love animals.