Am I attractive?

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I'm getting mad because I know what you all say isn't right.

Wtf, why is there so much self-improving when it comes to guys dating, but alls girls have to do is act helpless and they get someone? IF a guy has never been with someone and has been treated like s**t to all the women he's ever met, he's going to have a low self-esteem. I'm so sick of all these girls being like "Oh you just gotta be confident....don't let us smell your fear...blahblahblah BS". If it's so f*****g easy, then why not do it yourself? If you have low-self esteem and your a guy, HA good luck finding someone. It's apparently feminine. Oh but when girls act like guys, guys find that attractive as hell.
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Man shut the hell up with all this "Protection" s**t. It's not the stone ages anymore. If a guy walks up to you with a gun pointed to you and your 6'7 strong-willed boyfriend is next to you, what's he gonna do differently then a 5'11 passive boyfriend? Not s**t, exactly. It's women like you that make me sick to my stomach.

My point exactly.

Looks don't matter fortunately. Perhaps not bothering with dating anyway? It's usually more intended to be in the male pack for males. Since males and females live in separate packs and therefore generally feel awkward around each other, you can be happy in the male pack. I mean, since it's even harder to be with females, you should be able to be with males just the same. Also the reason girls can be mean to your if anyone's wondering. It is important to note that contrary to the popular belief, people don't judge others unless offended.

Covered sex and gender in my psychology class today. Made me think about how pointless relationships are.

I have no idea how you carry yourself,but if you come across as angry or hostile, you may seem intimidating to some women.

Women intimidate me. Can I really be blamed?

I don't know why women intimidate you,shyness or negative experiences?To a certain extent I find all strangers intimidating.

cause they pretty, and I've been rejected by hundreds , so I expect failure and rejection from all women. I use to be unable to approach guys or women but now its just women. that's why they intimidate me. There's so much pressure, stress and fear when it comes to approaching a woman. Its ironic that people including women tend to find me fun, at least the ones at work and some I've dated. the less pretty and thin the less intimidating to me, though I find almost all women beautiful. Doubt theres any way to fix this matter

so i don't know if his is similar but that's my reason

Seriously, every girl I meet is either screwed-up, scuzzy, stupid, or all three.

The people you hang around with seem like a bunch of winners. Find different people to hang out with.

Giftorcurse, listen dude, I am going to be straight up with you. You may or may not be the one to blame. However, you are the ONLY ONE that can fix it now. I used to be like you. I even looked like you. I had the same attitude as you. Girls crushed me in high school and I could barely get the time of day from any of them. I had no idea how to interact with females and they immediately picked up on my awkwardness. Always rejection. I was constantly depressed and I desperately wanted a girlfriend.

It took me a long time, too long in my opinion but I changed everything. I realized my life was headed straight to depressive hell if I didn't do something. I'm night and day compared to 4 years ago. I've lost 80lbs since high school. I went from watching anime with my 240lbs of greasy fatness self to going out on a date last week with a beautiful USCB girl.

It's totally possible for you to turn your life completely around. I realize I left out "the how" but I don't want to do the AS thing and ramble on about myself unless the story wants to be heard. This is your thread. I'm just telling you that you can do it if you want to.

pretty much word for word the exact same thing that is happening with me. It's up to the OP to change. You don't necessarily have to lose weight but change your views on women in general would be a great first step (judging by your posts, your energy of "all girls are whores, b*****s, etc." gives the vibe off to them and scares them off). Heck, I was getting hit on by one of the hottest girls I've ever seen, no way in heck that would have happened in high school. All due to my change. I was even the same weight as your mentioned. I feel like I've found my long lost twin. Good post daydrinker

You actually have some nice facial features. You don't seem to like women very well. Why should they like you? What have you developed in yourself to make yourself attractive to other people? What do you mean by scuzzy? Why even use the word stupid? What do you have to offer? Nothing? What do others have to offer? Go get some of it.

Well, we have not met and I am a woman not a girl.

I dated my first boyfriend at 22 years of age, before that not one guy had any interest in me but I was not bitter.

In fact I have only dated three people in my entire life, the third one I am happily married to today.
I never blamed the male race for rejecting me or blamed myself for not finding someone, what I did was realize that I have not met the right person for me. There is always somebody for someone out there, the world is full of humans.

My first two dating experiences are learning experiences, I learned what I didn't want in a relationship and what I needed to make one work.
My third was just what I needed, he is a kind man, a good father, and a devoted husband. We both love and respect each other completely.
There is no games, no lies, no mundane and petty behavior. I did not meet my perfect match until I was 30 years old, and I met him on the internet, he lived on the other side of the world.

Maturity does wonders for the soul. Once the blame game stops and you just realize that sh*t happens, people suck, and it is very hard to find one who doesn't suck (be it male or female) but it is possible, only then you will feel differently. You need to let that hostility go, the only person you are hurting is yourself and man that is a heavy burden to carry.

I am not into the games people play, I have never been able to comprehend that behavior. Women who judge men and men who judge women, sh't life is hard enough on it's own.

The only thing that attracted me to the men I dated in the beginning is that they were kind to me, they made me laugh, they showed interest. I have never been into pretty boys, money, status, none of that hogwash, in the end all that mundane crap will just wither away. It is realness, devotion, kindness, and understanding that really counts. It is a shame my first experiences didn't work out, but that is life, you live some you learn some.

I am not the only female who thinks like this, sorry you have yet to meet one yet. But it's not just a female thing, it is a human race thing, all humans have the ability to be total A-holes!