Do you miss someone right now?

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I do... and I shouldn't.
But I can think of worse people to miss than them.

I've been seeing a girl off and on for about 7 months, not serious. First girl i have ever met who i just clicked with straight away. Our sex life was amazing, we have each others measure in that regard 110%.

i had to move state for a couple of month to find some work. I'm due back in a week and i don't think i'll make it on time, I miss her heaps. Been talking to her a bit recently about possibly seeing if there is something serious and going forward from there. She's 11 years younger than me (i'm 37) I dont know if i love her or not. but i can see myself being in love with her down the track.
We started as a no strings thing and its developed, but both were anti commitment at first.

See what happens in a week i guess...

I miss the guy I've just started seeing. He lives about four hours away, so it's tricky to get to see him.

kind of but most of them were crushes that never turned into a relationship. Honestly I have moved on but I do think about them sometimes. It is sad. It seems I only ever experience unrequited love, well not exactly love but it felt like it was. lol. I have such a yearning for love it hurts a lot sometimes. I feel so damaged though so I am not sure anyone could ever love me. I am looking for the understanding woman maybe even one who has Aspergers herself. Maybe then they will accept my flaws. I am a rough jewel that has beauty underneath. I think there is beauty in the roughness though. It is real not plastic or fake.

Yes. And I don't really want to. :/

I miss a fellow I met online in a game. We have a lot in common, but as I've gotten to know him better over the past couple months we are very different in many ways as well. I enjoy our conversations but he's very busy. He's NT and has a demanding job - not to mention living far away - and he travels a lot for work too.

Long story short, while the attachment is mutual I have a lot more time on my hands than he does.

It doesn't help that a lot of the friends I have in "real life" (as if people on the internet aren't real, ha) don't tend to stick around very long. I also rarely let someone know so much of the real me so quickly. Of course, I'm terrified I've invested myself in someone who finds me unbearable; although I know that's not the case.

So, yes. I miss my friend.

I miss my boyfriend terribly this evening

And, as Alycat's picture reminds me yet again, I have already started missing Terry.

Preemptive though it may be.

Yes.... so much that I keep chasing after any girl that vaguely reminds me of that person, to my own detriment.

But is it really chasing if it's all in my head?

Come to think of it, have any of my relationships been real or were they all imagined?

Such are the problems I deal with daily. Maybe eventually I will learn to be normal and say things girls want to hear, in a way they want to hear it, and with a girl who is actually available to me.

Yes. The girl that initiated conversation with me at the gym the other day. I was blown away and tried to make a good impression. We will see.