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BenderRodriguez
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28 Jun 2013, 7:27 pm

Fnord wrote:
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When you meet a new girl, establish kino up front. Touch her. Don't friendzone yourself.
And hope she doesn't carry pepper spray. :wink:
Well you need to be confident. You can't do it awkwardly or she will think you are creepy. Take a look in a bar or nightclub when the guys seduce woman. Physical contact is a requirement.

A 19-year old virgin is giving advice on "Love & Dating" to people who have already dated, married, and become parents ... :roll:

That's like a person who has never even stuck his head inside a parked car giving advice on how to win the Indinapolis 500 ... :lol:


So I'm not the only one who finds these posts incredibly hilarious...



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28 Jun 2013, 7:55 pm

ForeverAloneVirgin wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
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When you meet a new girl, establish kino up front. Touch her. Don't friendzone yourself.


And hope she doesn't carry pepper spray. :wink:


Well you need to be confident. You can't do it awkwardly or she will think you are creepy.


Sure, going around groping women is the best way to not be creepy :lol:

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Take a look in a bar or nightclub when the guys seduce woman. Physical contact is a requirement.


This is done by experienced guys, very adept in reading body language and subtle cues, they can figure out with the speed of light if they're being encouraged.



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28 Jun 2013, 11:14 pm

Never.

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29 Jun 2013, 4:05 am

There is probably an uptick in the 30s when one's social group becomes more mature and the mildly autistic individuals may find themselves tolerated for the first time. But other than that weak pattern I think there is no age as mentioned before.



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29 Jun 2013, 9:39 am

BenderRodriguez wrote:
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Take a look in a bar or nightclub when the guys seduce woman. Physical contact is a requirement.


This is done by experienced guys, very adept in reading body language and subtle cues, they can figure out with the speed of light if they're being encouraged.


Yes, how do you think those guys got expirenced?
You need to go out to the clubs every week and approch as many sets as you can. You skills will improve over time.
There are many Incels who learned PUA and understood the social dynamics of dating, body language, and psychology and completely changed their life around.



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29 Jun 2013, 1:29 pm

Look, kid, from all the "PUA" apologists (they went by different names back in the day) I've ever had the misfortune to see around, your presentation is the most unconvincing, pathetic, ignorant, ridiculous to the point of hilarity, not to mention absurd and hypocritical when paired with how you represent here your life and yourself.

And you conveniently ignore people like Fnord when they point out that you're giving lectures about how to walk to people who ran a few marathons in their lives.

I have a very hard time believing you're not just trying to stir up the pot, but if you're not, then by all means, go out there and put that stuff in practice, you'll get exactly what you deserve and who knows, you might even learn something although I have my doubts :lol:



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30 Jun 2013, 4:39 pm

For me I was 14 - 15 just have to find that special someone pm me if you want further advice im happy to help



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01 Jul 2013, 3:32 pm

There is no age for meeting that person.
Some aspie men meet her at 15, others late in their thirties, and some never.
However, I think most aspie men aren't typically amazing with women and aren't naturally 'open' so for them the average age will prolly be higher...