The main reason why men breakup fast with aspie women.

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Did you give him your number as well?? If not he probably thinks you are not interested in him.

If you did. Maybe he isn't interested. But if you are interested in him, I don't see any harm in ringing him just to be sure.

^^^Yes,I did.We had chatted on POF and met later for dinner and a walk.He sent a message later that night with with his number and I sent mine back.He did mention his sister was visiting till the 4th so he may just be busy.Another rule my parents stated,don't bother people when they have family or company visiting.I.may give it a try after the holidays are over.The other man does not have a land line and said he would contact me thru the net,I had went on a hike with him and had coffee later.I thought both were nice men, but I could be clueless on their opinion of me. I did tell them both that if they wanted to hang out again that would be fine with me. I had a good time, so it was not a total loss.I'll just look at it as practice.

^^Yeah sounds like you did everything right by leaving the door open for them if they are interested. That's about all you can do. I think if they are interested they would contact you again. So I wouldn't worry to much about contacting him, you could still try. Yeah it's good just to think of dating is just having a fun time, and if something more happens and you meet someone that's you click with, even better.

Well...my first 3 relationships ended quickly (all spanning between 3 weeks and 4 months) and perhaps my insecurity drove those first three away. I've now dated a fella for almost 2 years and that was after I improved my self esteem. So I would say confidence was a big issue, nobody likes the stink of desperation.

They prefer video games to sex .

so their are other reasons why men date

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A lot of them ogle on fantasy men and from their reactions they show how they think those fantasy men are way physically superior and hotter than their partners - no male partner with balls would digest that for so long.

Gotta say, I made good experiences with that. So I didnt seek a younger partner on purpose, we simply didnt talk about our ages to the beginning and he is very tall and huge, so he simply looked the same age as me. We experienced our age difference only three months later, when I asked why he didnt go for his driving license yet. ^^

So for my age I simply had less relationships experiences then the average people my age, and so specially older boys always pushed me and treated me the way I should be in an relationship, according to them amd their experiences with other partners. While my partner simply had as less experiences with relationships as me, so we simply could develop without influences, how we wanted our relationship to be, without it being compared all the time with others. If you hardly managed to find a boy to date you, on a borderschool with 10 times more boys then girls, and then you are with a partner that already had 8 relationships, then he always compares you with that. While my partner didnt do that and simply cared, for what was ok for him and was not, instead of, is it like I know that an NT-relationship has to be like.

Not biting into that worm.

Who do you think is the one with balls. The one crying about an non existing fantasy person, or the one that has an normal amount of self esteem and so knows, that he/she doesnt care for an not existing phantasy creature? ^^ I dont need to be jealous at some hot night elf chick, lapdancing for my partner at his PC, because I have the one advantage, that a phantasy creature never will have.

I am real.

By balls I meant dignity, ok maybe wasn't the best term.

There's something called dignity, Shneek, it's not always abt self-esteem or jealousy.

Nothing wrong with a little window shopping. It's human.

I have as well enough dignity, not to behave freaky and issue our relationship, because of some non-real phantasy stuff. Can you imagine the Queen of England, which is a role model of dignity, issuing around because of such a thing? I mean her grandson was filmed drunken, naked in Las Vegas, beside the stuff with his Hitler-Carneval gag, her granddaughter was filmed topless by Paparazzi when sunbathing, her daughter in law died while having an relationship with an Richie-Rich Womanizer, and her son, heir to the empire was caught while he told his beloved on the phone that he wanted to be her tampon. So I wouldnt know her to be publicly issuing around because of that nonsense, simply because it was nonsense, and still she is THE role model for dignity according to public oppinion, BECAUSE of her calm public behaviour. Whining about complete nonsense does not give someone dignity.

God save the queen.

HAHAHAHAHAAAAH HA! This is by far the silliest thing I've heard yet. Aspie women? If your dumping aspie women and not feeling like junk you are not me. If I could find one in my town, after I've made some friends, and worked a while, I'd take her to anywhere she wanted to go! If only I could prove this

aspie women, are just like a woman with values but like you guys say, they like to mimic us sometimes and make us look like were dumb. no offense. just saying. well i encountered two and was poke behind the ear and one that was very annoying.