Worst thing the opposite gender has ever told you about you?

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That is little consolation for that experience and if he wants future relationships.

By that criterion, most of humanity is monstrous.
I prefer to judge someone by how they've been over their whole life. You haven't spent your whole life knowingly hurting people. One bad act does not make a monster.

I've been trying to remember something for a while and it seems like no one has ever told me anything bad about myself in "Love and Dating" context. On the other hand, no one has ever told me anything good about myself either. I've never had any comments about my looks or personaly from the opposite gender.

"You're a really sweet guy, and I like you. Just not in that way. I think of you more like a brother."
Makes me want to puke.

Do you know Dillogic hasn't been like that his whole life? Though I guess if anything, at least he's honest. One of the worst kinds of people is someone who knowingly hurts you and denies it. Especially if everyone believes them.

Although, it really sucks when someone you like lets you know they were purposely horrible to you. I've done that in the recent past, and when I realised what I'd done...Argh.

Hmm...maybe it's better to be dishonest then. Don't worry, I'm just talking to myself here. I'll carry on by myself...

Haha had to post in this topic. My old flatmate and I used to be really good friends and get along really well. Then he got a gf and she kinda moved in. She hated me I think because I got along so well with the flatmate and she was jealous. Anyway she told him that I was "the most disgusting person she had ever met". I laughed so hard when he told me.

I read 'One of the worst kinds of people is someone who knowingly hurts you and the dentist.'

My recent ex said she got disgusted at the thought of us having sex.

Yeah, I feel like I'm gonna get that one aswell one day for some reason.

It seems to be not uncommon for male aspies to get these kind of comments from other people.

It wasn't what she said, it's what she did: I was laughed at when asking if she wanted to hang out.
Needless to say i hated her afterward and was never going to bother with her or those like her again.

In real life, no one has said anything extremely insulting verbally - The odd obviously sarcastic 'Your Hot' albeit that too from acquaintances,br so I didn't mind it so much.

I've also been laughed at a couple of times obviously because of my appearance. Online is where it has been pretty harsh for me. I have been called 'Ugly' and 'Butt Ugly' online amongst other things. Strange thing is, is that it just doesn't get to me now at all. It's just another memory and I see it all as an experience of life. Yes it sucks, but what else can I say? '[b]

I still am one (technically, in regards to non-oral), for the record.

Yeah, so what if I now know that dating me is apparently self-harm to any girl I could ever hope to be romantically involved with? I got laid, didn't I? That totally makes up for the destruction of the last vestige of self esteem I had. /sarcasm.exe

In 8th grade science class, all the girls in the room took a vote on who they would least want to date, and I won

Worst things said to me by opposite sex

1. In early HS some strange girls that regularly walked home past my home (where I would be shooting basketball) referred to me as "that queer" I am not gay, but at that time it was a term used to refer to people who were different or social outcasts. It seemed there was a wall of sorts between me and my HS classmates. At that time AS had not really been identified so I really had no idea what I was really battling. I did have a chip on my shoulders towards NT's like one would have towards Nazis. It was like a sort of anger. It has subsided but like the layers of a jovian planet is still part of me. I remember a HS civics debate where a team member used me in his arguement "well you discriminate against him" meaning me (It was humiliating but I guess it did matter to them). I did not really understand the basis of the "discrimination" at that time. I believed it had something to do with my looks vs a neurological difference. They knock us for not feeling but discussing in front of us that we are different like we are somehow scum, or inferior humans shows their true colors. While we need to find a way to blend in as much as possible to get a job, money, or sex, we need to have respect for our own identity despite what the NT's think of us. Not all NT's are bad and put us down just like not all Germans were Hitler Germans or Nazis. I married my wife right after she graduated from college. She was very popular in HS (and I was at the bottom of the social order) but we did not go to the same school. She met me when I was a SR in college and had made progress (on my own - self study - dating books) towards fitting in better. I remember she told me one time her x bf (he had been president of their hs band) had tried to get back with her and she threw away his to her letters bc of being with me. I thought to myself well I had been at the bottom of the social order in my hs band and she chose me over him lol. It was a sort of victory for me. I pretty much kept my lack of social experience past (along with the fact people made fun of me) a state secret and invented a lie system for made up past gf and friends. Seeing how women are jealous of past gf, it probably was not real difficult to get by with. Just don't tell them your short on dating experience or did not have a gf. Make up a past gf if you have too but have a good lie system. Bc women are jealous creatures your lies will have smooth sailing bc she will not want to hear about some past gf especially if you describe her as having positive traits.

3. A female running partner said to me "I know you have a crush on her (another running partner), but your not her style." Later on I found out both were lesbians.

2. My wife in 2004 "I know your trying to be lovey, dovey, but my life involves my (our) children and my job." My response - Getting my Strip Club VIP and the last 9 years screwing strippers and seeking arrangement whores.

A guy I had a crush on in high school called me a "dumb@$$" for not picking up on his "very obvious" flirtatious cues.

"You need to be kidnapped and used as a sex slave. It's the only thing you're good for."
That particular FWB & I had different political views & that was his exhausted reply.