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wtfid2
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31 Jul 2013, 1:04 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Always refused casual sex offers (but not casual relationship offers)- what does that make me?

lucky and a fool
or a woman

Not very lucky because it rarely happens, plus I am still single at this age.

A woman? *checking* no, there's a monstrous Dune sandworm down there.

sh**....the only possibility left is....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJnKm6ftPu0

You exposed me in front of my enemies here, I feel naked.

better to be naked than to fight mr t.

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Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits

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31 Jul 2013, 5:01 pm

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31 Jul 2013, 5:04 pm

it seems people nowadays are down on love and kindness, and only up for money and power.

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31 Jul 2013, 5:08 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Always refused casual sex offers (but not casual relationship offers)- what does that make me?

lucky and a fool
or a woman

Not very lucky because it rarely happens, plus I am still single at this age.

A woman? *checking* no, there's a monstrous Dune sandworm down there.

sh**....the only possibility left is....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJnKm6ftPu0

You exposed me in front of my enemies here, I feel naked.

better to be naked than to fight mr t.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!

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01 Aug 2013, 3:53 am

deluge1988 wrote:

(i have the looks, the brains, but not the f***ing -X- factor you seem to need with modern Western [read FEMINIST] girls).
One way out would be to explore the wonders of the Eastern continent and its more natural roles of the sexes...

Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and equality of women

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

Is that a problem ?

(shrug)
I guess you could try to find somebody who's from a society where women are considered to be greatly inferior to men, and where that's shown much more openly than in most Western countries.

Or, maybe you could try a relationship with a Catholic girl/woman.... I hear that they're very into being subserviant to men (and especially husbands).

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01 Aug 2013, 8:18 am

deluge1988 your grossly misogynist and racist comment makes me highly skeptical of one positive trait you claim to possess.

Back on topic, I like casual sex, IF I am attracted to the person and have a minimum level of respect for them as a human being. I hooked up with a guy who I found physically reasonably attractive but who had an obnoxious personality and a point of view I found repulsive, and that ruined it for me and it was some of the worst sex I've had, even though there was no emotional stuff involved or expected. So my advice to people who are bemoaning a lack or casual encounters or relationships is that even if you've got looks on your side, don't be a jerk or act bitter and sullen because it's very unattractive. And just don't go there with contentious topics like politics and religion when you're chatting people up. That's a great way to kill it. *cringe*

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01 Aug 2013, 10:26 am

RudeGoldbergMachine wrote:

deluge1988 your grossly misogynist and racist comment makes me highly skeptical of one positive trait you claim to possess.

He said a very similar thing in another topic, too.
Both racist and sexist in one fell swoop.... my my, what a kind fellow.
Perhaps bigotry is what deters the ladies, other than his claimed "emotional innocence".
:wink:

And, I would agree that avoiding controversial topics (religion, politics, socially volatile issues, etc.) when talking to a casual sex partner (potential or previous) would be advisable, unless you want to make them edge away from you nervously.

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01 Aug 2013, 3:36 pm

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01 Aug 2013, 4:16 pm

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Sorry, but women are turning to men and it's hurting the raising of children.
It'll backfire soon enough I'm sure of it. It's unnatural.
And fine, if you want to evade controversy go ahead but I like free thinking. People are divorcing more and more, hardly anyone is properly raising their kids. I find it is not a matter of inferiority but human wisdom.
I'm advocating equality as well, but not in the obviously unnatural way it's done now. You've all passed the marker and keep going.
If we become in favor of natural harmony again I'm sure many minds and minds-to-come will heal instead of become mentally ill.
Attacks on the personal level are always funny and a show of lesser intellect, girl. Don't do it :-)

No... being a mysogynistic bigot is a demonstration of poor intellect.
Recognising that for what it is, requires more intelligence than that.
;-)

I don't see you being too concerned about that, though.

I thoroughly encourage you to introduce your "intellectually advanced" and "free thinking" views about women to a prospective partner, as soon as possible.
I would advise mentioning it (at length) during your first date, if at all possible.
:thumright:

I'm sure that she will recognise your massive intellect for what it is.

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01 Aug 2013, 4:27 pm

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Sorry, but women are turning to men and it's hurting the raising of children.

Why?

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It'll backfire soon enough I'm sure of it. It's unnatural.

Why?

Quote:

And fine, if you want to evade controversy go ahead but I like free thinking. People are divorcing more and more, hardly anyone is properly raising their kids. I find it is not a matter of inferiority but human wisdom.

What is the proper way to raise a kid?

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I'm advocating equality as well, but not in the obviously unnatural way it's done now. You've all passed the marker and keep going.
If we become in favor of natural harmony again I'm sure many minds and minds-to-come will heal instead of become mentally ill.

What is equality in your mind?

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01 Aug 2013, 4:37 pm

I don't do casual. Tried but I can't. As much as I like sex and enjoy making sure my partner enjoys it just as much, there would need to be something more to make it worth my time......... which brings me to my biggest issue in dating. I'm too emotionally intense for casual and too independent for serious. Hopefully I can find a middle-ground.

Ladywoofwoof wrote:

I thoroughly encourage you to introduce your "intellectually advanced" and "free thinking" views about women to a prospective partner, as soon as possible.
I would advise mentioning it (at length) during your first date, if at all possible.
:thumright:

I'm sure that she will recognise your massive intellect for what it is.

This! ^^^

Go get-em' stud. I'm sure you'll rolling in sex in no time. :wink:

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01 Aug 2013, 5:03 pm

deluge1988 wrote:

cubedemon6073 wrote:

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Sorry, but women are turning to men and it's hurting the raising of children.

Why?

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It'll backfire soon enough I'm sure of it. It's unnatural.

Why?

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What is the proper way to raise a kid?

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What is equality in your mind?

Go f**k yourself idiot.

You've also clearly mastered the art of public discourse. :wink:

If you ever manage to get lucky enough to get a date, be sure to call that uppity b***h a f*****g idiot as soon as she gets the notion to ask for clarification of any of your statements. She'll be so blown away by how assertive you are that she'll probably rip her panties off right there. After all, "girls only date jerks" right?

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01 Aug 2013, 5:09 pm

auntblabby wrote:

it seems people nowadays are down on love and kindness, and only up for money and power.

Its always been about power, although lately it's gotten bad. I blame it on the sh*t in our food (additives, hormones, etc).

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01 Aug 2013, 5:10 pm

deluge1988 wrote:

Geekonychus wrote:

Ladywoofwoof wrote:

I'm sure that she will recognise your massive intellect for what it is.

This! ^^^

Go get-em' stud. I'm sure you'll rolling in sex in no time. :wink:

f**k you you man whore. Nobody asked you for your pitiful opinion.
Know what? Bring society to a standstill and make your children little Devils. I'll leave you alone, your choices.
Why is everyone so worried about me not getting laid

? It's sweet thanks.

Slut-shaming a man? How oddly gender-equalist and progressive of you.........

Wasn't planning on having kids, but your feminist rhetoric has inspired me to spread my demon seed.

Any ladies on this board want to bring society to a standstill and make a couple babies with me? :wink:

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