leafplant wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ what's wrong with the dog pic for Ba'al sake? Seriously, even a such casual pic can be a reason for a woman to exclude him?
*sigh* one can never win with your gender.
JM, maybe it's better to just put a blank pic.
Again, it' a UK thing. People over here are waaaay more restrained. Unless they are drunk. But anyway, just accept that it's like that.
Btw I am serious about the non pic choice.
I had 3 phases of okc, and it's marked by change of pics while the content changed slightly.
The first phase I was still having the super skinny typical geeky look: total failure, zero reply, zero interest.
Phase 2, pic removed, blank, I had some replies and chats, go figure. No dates tho.
Phase 3, after working out I've posted a shirtless pic and...boom! date after date for a year.
Phase 4: It's now, I am not anymore active in messaging nor that interested
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I fail to comprehend your problem.
Imagine you are a woman and all of the above applies to you (except substitute shirtless for bikini).
Women are people too and OKC is a plastic medium for meeting people with whom you hope to have a meaningful relationship.
methinks you are just too picky and a bit of a diva [why don't they make an eyebrow wiggle icon!]