Carried over from the other thread:
billiscool wrote:
well,today she gave me her cell number and her address.
she basically a quasi-girlfriend at this point.
she's not offically my girlfriend.
Let's slow down a bit, tiger.
Enjoy the honeymoon period. The making it official part doesn't need to be rushed into. The last thing you need is to come on too strong too quick. If she's really into you, she won't go anywhere regardless.
Sounds to me like you're still in the "going out" phase. Generally (from what I understand of modern dating) the boyfriend/girlfriend thing doesn't start untill the sex/sleepingover does. Sometimes not even then, it's different for every girl.
I'll echo others here and say that it doesn't actually start untill you both sit down and discuss it. Like I said earlier though, if she's really into you, there's no need to rush anything.