Do you miss someone right now?

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We had a stupid argument and she was too fragile to want to work it out, after the incident we both said some stupid things and after that in spite she done something extremely wrong to mess with my head, I learned that she done that bad thing and after I figured it out she changed her number and I forget exactly where she lives because she was moving from house to house before we had the argument.

btw a bit of a while ago I met another girl who knew her but Im unsure whether she talks to her or not, plus Im not sure whether I want to pursue her again because of how she treated me during the relationship, the first date was pretty bad and she really didn't open me up to her other friends, I felt disrespected, hurt and the end of it left me with a bad taste against her. I guess the only reason why I remissness about her is because for me it was a big step for me (progress) to open my heart up to girl as I normally prefer to be alone cos girls can cause me trouble, and she made it clear that I was right. maybe I don't necessarily want her, but I do want someone that got close like she did.

There are a few people I miss. A couple are e-x girlfriends that I thought did me wrong and I thought we could have worked out. One is a girl I was friends with about 6-7 years ago that would have made the perfect girlfriend and there was one I started talking to at the first of the year and around June we just quit talking like we used to. I miss her most of all.

I miss my girlfriend. She's actually my ex of eleven months. She said she loved me as I did I too and we had a good time together but I was getting sick with depression and bipolar and told her it was over. I've been through two hospitals for three (consecutive) visits over the winter months and I've only saw her a few times since I've been getting recovering. I want us to be together again so that why I'm giving her space. She is my life and I don't want to go without her. I was diagnosed as BP depressive but at the same time I quickly realized that I most definitely must have Aspergers syndrome which justifies why my social circle count is 0. Honestly, I don't know how she could have been interested in me the way she was and in a way that I will never forget. It is physiologically impossible for me not to be in love with her. I really want her to come back.

I miss my current lover. We're an LDR normally, but he's in army basic training and I'm having a difficult time coping with it (not his choice, unless you consider getting kicked out of your mother's house and being rendered homeless an acceptable option). I do my best in trying to better myself - I want him to come back to a me that he can love even more - but he won't leave my mind and I can't help but worry about him despite him telling me "I'm fine" (letters are the only reason I'm not... well, "robotic" is the easiest way to describe it at the moment. It does not replace real-time text however, when he and I can actually talk about stuff in depth).

I don't really miss my exes, though. One of them I still talk to, albeit rarely. It's just hard to talk to them because of time constraints and shifting interests. The other... well, I didn't know any better since he was my first, but when he tells your friend after you two break up, knowing your psychiatric issues, "I don't care if she died" then you just stop caring about them. I thank him, but only to the extent that he encouraged me to leave the very negative situation I lived in, and learning what traits I did and did not appreciate in a relationship (both the current person and the other ex actually treat me well and understand my issues to an extent/try to be helpful - both by far were much better). That breakup effectively killed my connections to the online social circle I had then save for one or two people, too, so that didn't help.

i've been missing her less and less.
but it's still there.
limerence is a b***h.

It's been about 2.5 years since I broke up with her but I still end up having dreams about her randomly. I was going through a very depressed stage and about to become homeless when I met her. She was the first woman whose mind I really respected and we had a lot in common, which doesn't happen much, we fell for each other pretty fast. I was honest with her from the beginning and she knew everything that was going on. She lived in the next state over and like I said I was about to become homeless and I lived in a city that was not safe at all to be homeless in so I decided I might as well move out there and try to start life over. It was like a dream I didn't want to wake up from for the first 2 months. I decided it was a good idea to get on an anti-depressant because I didn't want my depression to eventually get in the way, but ironically that's what ended up ruining things. I think what sucks is that we never had any real closure to it, like I saw her the week after I broke up with her as we were on opposite sides of the street and she stopped but I just kept walking. Ever since then we'll see each other walking down the street every couple of months but we act like we don't notice. Sometimes I feel like I should say something but I also feel like it's better off just left in the past, there's reasons she'll always have a place in my heart but there are also reasons I can't stand her. Anyways since then I am now in a better situation than I was before I had met her, so I can at least be thankful for meeting her so that I could get to this point where I am at now.

I've had to have had someone to miss someone, so I guess not.

Yes.
She had aspergers actually. tall, fit, blonde hair, surfed..gorgeous!
We would constantly talk and text day and night and I was supposed to move interstate to be with her (before i ended up in jail) . Each message would be 4 pages full of information. She was the only person that could hold a conversation that was half descent. Now that Ive found out I have a mild case of aspergers, Ive realised why she meant so much to me.... we were more alike than i realised. Too bad it didnt last ...

Terribly so, more than he'll ever know.

I miss my liljazzbabe, she drove me crazy. She was the one that was brave enough to point out my faults. Now that I am finally getting a diagnosis, we broke up because I couldn't keep my temper. I miss her very much, I want to see her again.

I miss my ex-girlfriend Ami. We dated for a good 5 years. We had a terrible fight one day and a week later I find out she committed suicide from her mother. Way to miss someone, especially when you feel like it's your fault in the first place.

Yes I miss the man Ive been seeing for the past yr and a half. I just found out that he is getting married in less than 3 wks. This all happened one wk ago today. He denied it until I showed him the proof, he didnt reply and neither did I. Im hurting so deeply. I want to know why but Im scared that he wont reply...or if he ever cared for me.

yes. it's been 2 years.
the most horrible 2 years of my life.
she was the only ASD-woman I have ever met, and the only person I ever really trusted.
We were together for ten years, almost, then I got depressed, so bad, and things - I- fell apart.
And I have not regained hope since.

I miss my great grandmother, who died from cancer 4 years ago, yes she was very old, 96, but she was a really big part of my childhood.

I'm sure things will get better, as we can try to get good things from situations that might look like a disaster. I'm here wishing you get well, stay strong.

On topic, I still miss that someone from 1 year ago. My brain likes to stay away from my rational thinking and make that dude haunt me sometimes :/
Hm, relatives: I miss my grandma and grandpa, they were very gentle and helped to keep the family united. I was always very distant from my relatives, but I can see they are lot less united now and they might feel bad for that. Not really a problem for me, honestly.

Yes. I had very strong feelings for him for two years. We started hanging out and I felt a strong connection. As soon as he finished college he started ignoring me. He stopped replying to my texts and once when I called him he picked, there was about a three second silence, and he hung up. I was left hurt and confused. He didn't even wish me a happy birthday. Now I like a new guy. I just don't understand why some people choose to disappear instead of be honest. I heard it's because they plan to come back in the future. . .