08 Nov 2014, 9:24 am
08 Nov 2014, 9:27 am
08 Nov 2014, 9:40 am
08 Nov 2014, 10:01 am
Annon wrote:
Aren't you contradicting yourself?
He is, and it's hard to take seriously someone who started here by posting PUA walls of text while pretending to be female, then became a male who can't make up his mind if he had a girlfriend or not
08 Nov 2014, 10:45 am
Annon wrote:
paxfilosoof wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
paxfilosoof wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Why do these male-female comparison topics keep coming up? So incredibly dumb. I hope this topic gets a lock soon.
It is not dumb. You have no problems with relationships, hence you find this topic dumb.
Someone who is "normal" will say to you: why does the topic of autism keep coming up? So incredible dumb!
And again: please only post contructive criticism!
Another dumb assumption, don't know if it was based on my gender. I have a lot of problems with relationships and everyone on here knows that. Now I'm going to report this topic.
Lol, I have never had a girlfriend, you have had boyfriends in the past (I read that in other topics). Not a dumb assumption at all!
So, you probably have less relationships difficulties compared to me!
Aren't you contradicting yourself?
In another thread of yourself, called "What females really want" you said you had an aspie girlfriend.
paxfilosoof wrote:
1) I'm not currently dating but a have a girlfriend, I have a female aspie girlfriend
2) I'm a boy, lol :p
I would argue this are not generalizations, they are very well known in the scientific community,
Even in other cultures we can see this.
I've seen this in almost all womans, if not all I've met.
I share this accoutn with another aspie
Anyway it's a very interesting comment, but I'm sorry. He is not using this account naymore but many posts are still from him.
But please talk about the topic, and don't argue by attacking me :S
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08 Nov 2014, 11:04 am
0_equals_true wrote:
Generally I can't answer topics that set up a premise, then try and reduce falsifiability with statements like "undeniable FACT" or "don't even try to deny it" with no empirical evidence.
These are the questions that people don't really want answered, becuase they already have an answer in mind so there is nothing to discuss.
One think I can tell you is absolutely pointless resenting the object of your desires, regardless of the truth. That isn't going to get you anywhere, you are mentally tormenting yourself and wasting your energy. Forget about "fairness", you have to just get on with things.
You asked for constructive criticism, it is not "constructive" to waste time on the non-practical theories of relationships, especially as you say you don't know why you are unsuccessful.
Attraction, love, relations there are not selfless, act you you are not selfless, so you should expect them to be. Yes you could have compassion, etc but his this is something to do becuase if feels good, if it doesn't feel good or stimulate the brain in some way you probably aren't really compassionate. These "relationship" they are mutually satisfying the respective brains. There are no selfless relationships.
People are hypocrites, everyone has their own preferences, but when the shoe is on the other foot. They don't like it, well better get used to it. The faster you move on the better.
Bitterness, resentment, these emotions communicate very well to people who can read them and they will avoid you.
This person you quote, it is not clear what is on about, whether he was genuinely abuse, or just. perceive himself that way.
Victim complexes are common, can can be a narcissistic trait. On the other hand he may have been genuinely abused, can't really tell form that text. Either way he his really presenting a developed argument, it doesn't say anything very much that could be said one sentance.
These are the questions that people don't really want answered, becuase they already have an answer in mind so there is nothing to discuss.
One think I can tell you is absolutely pointless resenting the object of your desires, regardless of the truth. That isn't going to get you anywhere, you are mentally tormenting yourself and wasting your energy. Forget about "fairness", you have to just get on with things.
You asked for constructive criticism, it is not "constructive" to waste time on the non-practical theories of relationships, especially as you say you don't know why you are unsuccessful.
Attraction, love, relations there are not selfless, act you you are not selfless, so you should expect them to be. Yes you could have compassion, etc but his this is something to do becuase if feels good, if it doesn't feel good or stimulate the brain in some way you probably aren't really compassionate. These "relationship" they are mutually satisfying the respective brains. There are no selfless relationships.
People are hypocrites, everyone has their own preferences, but when the shoe is on the other foot. They don't like it, well better get used to it. The faster you move on the better.
Bitterness, resentment, these emotions communicate very well to people who can read them and they will avoid you.
This person you quote, it is not clear what is on about, whether he was genuinely abuse, or just. perceive himself that way.
Victim complexes are common, can can be a narcissistic trait. On the other hand he may have been genuinely abused, can't really tell form that text. Either way he his really presenting a developed argument, it doesn't say anything very much that could be said one sentance.
I agree, but I would rather keep arguing for human fairness and general fairness, then be someone who is not fair and has more "valuable" things or something. Actually, I would rather keep my ethics then to change myself to conform to lower standards :p
For example, you can't be rich without being selfish, otherwise you wouldn't be rich!
The act of possessing a lot of money is a selfish act in itself.
08 Nov 2014, 6:20 pm
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