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20 Nov 2014, 6:34 am

CockneyRebel wrote:

Get a hairdo compliments your face. Find out what colours suit your hair and complexion and experiment with them. Experiment with different types of clothes to see which articles of clothing invite the most compliments, in a sophisticated way of course. I don't mean a dress like a hooker way. Smile. Happy people are considered attractive.

Tried all that. Does not work so far. There is something wrong with me.

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20 Nov 2014, 8:59 am

I am not sure how I attract men, but I do.
I mostly attract men that are into music or art only though. I guess it is my connection with that they relate to.

I do not wear revealing clothing ever (rarely in the summer I will wear a bathing suit when I swim but that is it) because of sensory issues so it is not that. I do not even wear tee shirts, I always have long sleeves. So anyway what I am saying is that you don't have to dress sexy to get a man.

Most good men are attracted to confident women and most "players" are attracted to vulnerable women. So if you find strength within yourself and express confidence then often you will attract a man.

Finding the right person can be brutal but once you do it is wonderful.

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20 Nov 2014, 9:10 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

wowiexist wrote:

In your pic it looks like you are frowning and are not happy. Smiling or at least having a less unhappy looking expression would help. I had to work on this. It is hard, but I think people react to me differently since I have worked on this.

You are so right. Women shouldn't feel silly emotions like boredom, concentration, unhappiness, or anger. We should he happy all the time. It makes us prettier, and god know we exist to be pretty.

Ha ha, yes!
I never smile in pictures. I still attracted my husband from my pictures on the internet (we met on the internet) so smiling doesn't really count.

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20 Nov 2014, 10:42 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

You are so right. Women shouldn't feel silly emotions like boredom, concentration, unhappiness, or anger. We should he happy all the time.

Outdated tradition that somewhat applies to both genders.

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20 Nov 2014, 11:18 am

Being confident, positive, and having good posture is attractive.

I'm still working on those as well. It isn't easy, it takes practice. But anyways I hope this helps

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20 Nov 2014, 12:12 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

In that case you need to be a loser.

*Sigh*...

I was joking. Do not always take me so seriously. It happens far too often on here.

and you fail to see humor.

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20 Nov 2014, 2:53 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

wowiexist wrote:

You are so right. Women shouldn't feel silly emotions like boredom, concentration, unhappiness, or anger. We should he happy all the time. It makes us prettier, and god know we exist to be pretty.

I don't see what the big deal is about smiling in pictures, half the time it looks fake since people are forcing themselves to smile which looks strained to me. But sometimes seeming 'happy' can attract people, but then again those people might then expect that you keep up the happy appearance and be disappointed if you don't.

I smile a lot in person. In pictures, I'm usually concentrating on taking the picture or don't have a genuine smile to flash.

I don't smile unless it's genuine.

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20 Nov 2014, 2:54 pm

FTR... I was messin' with y'all. I'm not the least bit interested in attracting a man. :lol:

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20 Nov 2014, 3:09 pm

I never understood the humour in being "messed with". It just annoys me.

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20 Nov 2014, 3:14 pm

It was a joke, pure and simple.

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20 Nov 2014, 3:30 pm

So smudge was right, you're a troll.

She's of the same species anyway.

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20 Nov 2014, 3:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So smudge was right, you're a troll.

She's of the same species anyway.

I'm not a troll. I'm a person that sometimes trolls.

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20 Nov 2014, 3:36 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

So smudge was right, you're a troll.

She's of the same species anyway.

I'm not a troll. I'm a person that sometimes trolls.

Welcome to the club.

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20 Nov 2014, 4:19 pm

Densaugeo wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

You called it hunting. Does this mean I require a shotgun?

To capture a specimen with minimal damage, consider using shotgun shells filled with sand. They'll stun, but won't cause (much) permanent injury. (Replace the barrel every so often if you do this; sand abrades the interior of the barrel and can dangerously weaken it after a while.)

*Claps* Yay, someone got it!

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20 Nov 2014, 5:43 pm

123entropy wrote:

I never understood the humour in being "messed with". It just annoys me.

mean for those messed with, but funny for those messing. same as bullying.

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20 Nov 2014, 5:47 pm

Again, you lot are taking it too seriously.

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