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Tigurinn
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04 Jan 2015, 3:40 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I'm the type that likes to "do it" better than talking about it.

I'm not really squeamish--but I just prefer actions over words within the realm of sex.


+1

Unless you were my partner I wouldn't be talking to you about sex



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04 Jan 2015, 11:17 pm

charcoalsketches wrote:
mpe wrote:
charcoalsketches wrote:
Personally, my sexuality used to be hypersexual. Not that it isn't now, but I took the time to harness the powerful electric energy that sex provides for something either creative or something near soul shaking. I use sex as something both spiritual and physical, almost like that essential, strong link between us and animals.

To me this would be rather uninteresting and hardly "sexual".
At best a "your kink is not my kink" type situation.


I tend to approach things like sex in a both open and a spiritual/new agey fashion these days. When I get that energy, I imagine becoming more than mortal. Like a tiger or a vampire of sorts. The energy and the passion is stronger when the response to my sexuality isn't as consistent as day after day.


To me anything "new age" is more or less instant "yawn factor".
Otherwise I'd be quite happy to talk about sex; be in hetero or homo; kinky or vanilla; in the "real world" or in a fictional universe. (None of my favourite authors appear to be "new ageists" however. With at least one being rather obscure, though easily acessible.)



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12 Sep 2017, 5:38 pm

As long as they are comfortable with talking about sex, then I would talk about it.

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19 Jan 2020, 5:03 pm

charcoalsketches wrote:
How comfortable are you when it comes to the idea of talking about sex? I know this is a family site, so I will keep this neat.

I looked on YouTube and discovered that when it comes to things, we live by extremes, which mean we are very emotional or more mentally charged. Thus us supposedly not an exception with sex.

I found sex for Aspies can range from asexual to hypersexual. Some don't feel comfortable talking while others can't really clam up about it. So, I am curious of your thoughts on it all.


Given that we have difficulty in social interactions, it amazes me that some Aspies have many sexual partners.

I was one of those Aspies who slept with many women/girls but never really was able to sustain a relationship for any length of time. I got annoyed or bored with women who liked me, or I felt it was getting overwhelming or I would chase after women with whom I had no chance (because I was Aspie).