Secret Crushes

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Being ignored can easily give you a complex and lead to thinking that you're unattractive and unlovable. I read some years ago that paradoxically, some of the most beautiful and nice girls are ignored because the guys are too afraid of asking them out. Of course, having a scary dad could also have a bearing on it.

Well you have to look at it from their point of view. I'm sure I and many of you have made people think you've ignored them when really it's completely the opposite for the reasons in the quote above.

When I was at school there were quite a few occasions where chicks have come up to me and said that I was really hot and asked me out but when they knew me they soon realised I was a 'loser' as everyone thought I was. Because everyone thought I was a loser I didn't take these comments seriously.

But here's an even better story, I remember when "Miss popular", the chick at school everyone liked (who had a nice rack), who originally liked me before she knew who I was and I wasn't aware of this at the time. I remember once in computing class when all the 'cool kids' were trying to prove to her how much of a loser I was, by doing pranks on me (like taking my pencil case and showing her how ret*d i act when they do it), and it was interesting that at the time it just happened to be a time when I was at my 'normalest'. But she found out later on, and really hated me since then, because obviously she was embarrassed to have hit on 'such a loser'. I didn't realise this at the time, and it wasn't until later when I understood more about how the rest of the people work that I started to realise what happened.

What's amazing about this was the opportuinity I had wasted. I had the chance to give the ultimate revenge on the rest of the class, by stealing their chick and making everyone else jealous. But there's lots of things that I wish I knew at school that I didn't know now, and school would've been infinitely more fun had I known all this.

Absolutely. Despite, this, I've only ever kissed one girl, and I still haven't had a real girlfriend.

Yeah and it was only last year (when I was 19) in my case.

The only type of girl that I'm compatible with is one that's both reasonably attractive, and that I can get along with without having to put on any act and I can just be myself. She was of the few people.

I met her at a hospital day program (it's a program for people who have been hospitalised where people can meet up with others and do various activities etc). She was a rather disturbed girl but she had huge breasts... Anyway, everyone else at the program knew I never had a gf before, and it seems that they were all eager to hook me up with her, because they all thought she would be perfect for me. I remember one other girl telling me that I should be more confident, so I tried doing that, and surprisingly we got on so well we ended up smooching each other all afternoon and everyone else there was there to witness my first kiss.

It's a personal and hard to explain reason why we weren't able to see each other again a few days after that (but at least it ended on a good note, no one got dumped). But it's certainly a time in my life I'll never forget.

Kind of sad, but very sweet - that's awesome, dude.