Why I've ended up alone and am likely to remain that way.

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I am going through this now. I think I might have been in a relationship with someone whom also is on the scale. It's been three years. Everything was beautiful until my meltdowns ran him off. I'd get irate with him and be fine an hour or so later. He couldn't understand it. Sad... bc today now that I know these things were at least part of the cause - I still have no desire to be with anyone else. He's had two relationships and I'm still stuck in 2011. I finally started to feel better and he texts me and has no idea that it just screws me up inside.

I'm in my 40's and just now growing up. I think part if this is people expect women to be nurturers and you won't get that from me... Unless you're my kid. Even then she gets more of that from her aunts.

I think you need to find someone who makes you laugh. Stop drinking so much BC it makes you depressed and not going to fund a partner whose going to give you what you want. Not saying DONT drink... You're already at risk to men taking advantage of you.

Maybe find something you LOVE to do then focus on that. I'm lonely too. I don't mind alone time ... But also have a real quirk about people I date..

Let go and enjoy yourself. You're worth finding time to fund the right guy!!

She has since found someone. This is an old thread.

Sweatleaf i understand what your going through and feel the same way alot of times and get wasted to escape reality and numb the pain as well as try to forget the past, been that way for over 10 years. I wish i could help ya out but i live too far away and might drive you bonkers at times whenever im in a good mood i get hyper. Now that spring has come i dont feel as depressed or worthless but those negative thoughts and self hating do creep in from time to time.