This girl at work...

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So I have a job I really like, it is a small partnership with like 20 people total(10 per shift) working there. There is this girl that has started talking to recently. Until this week it was just casual chatting at work never lasting to long. This Thursday I parked next to her so she started talking to me on my way out. We ended up going on a roady, and out to applebees after, then back out to smoke some more. The whole thing lasted 5 hours but we mainly talked about work stuff. She made sure I knew she was single though.

They didn't run second shift friday but we had the option of coming in on first, I was pretty tired so I didn't. I get a text later from her (even though I never gave her my number) asking if I wanted to go drinking. I did, and we just drank at her sisters place who was having a friday night party. Kept to ourselves mostly, I didnt know anyone there and people were just in groups playing unheard of card/ dice games. We didnt stay long and went on another roady with her friend who we dropped off then went to perkins for dinner.

As a completely oblivious male, I am positive she wants to be more than friends. I'm also not to sure she wants a committed relationship... The problem is she is a co-worker at a job I really enjoy and want to keep long term. This girl is really attractive to, out of my league level attractive. I know at some point I'm gonna have to either say I want to just be friends or I will go for it. Not sure what to do, it seems like a bad idea but part of me wants to. It has been a long time since I've even kissed someone. What would you do?

I really need some advice here, It's been on my mind all day.

lol, that would go-over real well if the genders were reversed.

But seriously though, just let her chase you. Nice thing about dating girls at work is that they can't criticize the guy's possibly crappy-job(since they work there too).

I know exactly what you mean lol, but we hung out the night before so it wasn't creepy or anything. Honestly my biggest problem with it is not having enough time to mentally process the night before. I don't want to lead her on either because alot of the people at work are her friends. I dont want to take to long to deiced I want her either, she wont chase me forever, like I said, she is really attractive.

I think she is interested. People who just want friendship don't act like this – unless she is the queen of the friendzone (happened to me ).

what yes they can and do. women date up in most cases its why a homless jobless fat obese woman can demand a guy making 20 an hours, works out at a gym and owns his own car.
theres no logic to women. women at my work complain about guys who do the same job all the time.

I love the "misogyny" a.k.a the truth in here.

huh? stating reality is misogyny. but i forget speaking negative of women in any way is misogyny saying anything women dislike is misogyny. use to be misogyny meant : dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
I have no dislike of women in general or contempt I dislike the superficiality you find with most women. I'm sure boo will back me up heck even women in this forum date up.

ignoring the problem will never help fix it. I still have hope that the problem can be stopped and women will value men based on being a person and not status/job/money. if not for our general perhaps the next or the one after. true equality needs to be fault for.