Oh girls have it so much worse....

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That is what you think, and it doesn't mean that is true. Most people are ok with a responsible person who can take care of himself. Most people who are so-so financially can still find gfs though because they are decent socially and can look interesting (even most aspies or fatties), but people like us are not able.

Dude don't play dumb with me and stop being so self-indulgent, you know what I mean.

I'm not playing dumb. why can't family be roomates? they pay their half I pay my half. its the same as any other roomate situation.

not from any of the women I've seen. they don't want to talk to any guy who doesnt' make enough.

I thought that you had a seasonal job that doesn't last for long and with not much income. How can you pay your half? Not bashing you, just asking. When I say roomates I don't mean helping the family, I mean paying your actual share for the house and for all your stuff. Like, if you have 1 roomate, you pay 50% of the rent and of the food and stuff+your own things.

I see it happen all the time. Most people can find a partner, there are not many people like us, it's kind of rare. Don't extend your condition to all men.

I get SSI and SSDI. I also get food stamps and I buy most my food with that and rest with the other money. the seasonal job really only pays for the extra stuff I want and for gas.
we rent a house together and split the bills.

also from what Ive seen form others roomates don't generally split and share food. they all buy their own stuff except if they go inot a pizza together or something else.

If i move out they'll have to too since I pay for half. thats onf of he main reasons I don't move out because I worry about what will happen to them. the other is If I did. I'd be completely alone in an empty appartment by myself. i worry Id get far more reclusive

you've seen them get with women who say they won't date guys who dont' make ___ ammount. or you've seen guys who dont' make that much get with women. that's two different things.'

well like 1/3 the population of the us or more dont' make above min wage. its probably closer to 50% or more who dont' make 20 an hour.

the meadian house income here is 19 an hour thats income from everyone in the house, usually 2 working people. so that sounds like two min wage people who live together make up most of the houses in my area. 19 by two is like 9ish which is middle wage. so clear two people with min wage can make do and rais kids as many are doing it. sure theres probably people who make more and proabaly a lot of guys who make 19 an hour with a wife living off htem. point is it is being done. so why do women demand a guy make so much when many people are doing without. mean 2 people making 10 an hour is the same as on guy making 20 an hour.

This video was very powerful you don't want to do, just like as i'm not a fan of approaching women:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PODtipE3MHc

No, a man who is living with his parents isn't "just like" any other roommate situation -- he is living with his parents. Meaning, if I were to go over to his house, his PARENTS might be there (resulting in me violating my no-meeting-parents-for-six-months rule). I would not date any man who was older than 23-24 who still lived with his parents.

There's a huge difference between refusing to date not-rich men and wanting to date ONLY financially stable, independent men. "stable" is responsible enough to live within your means, not how much you make.

I haven't lived at home since I was 17, have a house, earn a pretty good living and have no qualms dating guys who make less than me. I'm also a grownup who wants to get married and have kids. Any guy who isn't stable and independent is soooo not what I'm looking for.

Not that I'm looking.

you say that but you act in contradiction to that.

not going to bother saying more to you katykay

I wonder why girls don't feel they have it easy since they don't have to be the initiator

Girls sometimes initiate. Guys, like you, have the option of not initiating. You don't have to initiate anything if you don't want to.

Or, you know, considering the role your personality, attitude and personal choices play in all women, everywhere, at all times since you hit puberty, wanting absolutely nothing to do with you.

Ahh girls these days just think we got it so good, like we enjoy having an extra limb dangleling between our legs, balls sticking to my legs on the hot humid days...Like we can just go out and pick up girls with out being having some sense of being macho, like we think it's fun having to compete to get with a girl...Or how we gotta make the women feel so precious like there couldn't be anything more important then her in the world....ya it's so easy to be a guy lol

Cry me a river, being a girl or a guy doesn't make anything easy or hard...life is just tough for an aspie whether you're a dude or a dudette...that's up to us say what we need from the world to help change that. Don't make this into some BS gender war that it isn't...SMH

Actually it's hard for everyone.

Thank you for reiterating my point

I mean it's hard also for people who are not Aspergian.

Seen or interacted with? granted there are many women like that...some of them though don't seem fully aware of it, like they are conditioned to think a guy has to make a lot of money to be appealing. Like the 'Im not shallow' people who would likely break up with their boyfriend/S.O if they slip into some money/financial hardship, but they wouldn't go and say 'I only accept guys who make enough' but when it comes down to it that is what it is. I certainly don't like that mentality. Though I would say most males aren't looking for poor women on welfare to date either but due to gender role crap...I think guys certainly get more judgement for things like that than women.

Certain things are harder for people with aspergers, than they are for people without aspergers.

Most males I know seem to enjoy their extra limb dangling there....the other stuff I can see being obnoxious/difficult. I was however being satirical, I don't really think girls have it 'harder' i think how difficult or easy things are for someone more depends on the individual than what sex they are. That was supposed to be the point of the thread I was making a counter thread to all the 'guys have it harder' ones. Also was trying to point out females on the spectrum do have greater difficulty dating/forming relationships than neurotypical females. Granted I've written better satirical posts....my initial point seems to have come off as a bit unclear.