What are you looking for in a man?

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30 Jul 2014, 7:23 pm

I don't think you're that stroppy (just found out what the word means, as I'm not British).

The Lotus flower is a beautiful flower.

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31 Jul 2014, 5:04 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I don't think you're that stroppy (just found out what the word means, as I'm not British).

I am that stroppy :wink:

Im also a know all, self centered and harsh.

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The Lotus flower is a beautiful flower

in zen buddhism they say the lotus is a good metaphor as it grows out of the mud, turning the sludge into nice flowers, I like that, it reminds me to make the best of things.

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31 Jul 2014, 11:06 pm

I'm looking for a tall man with a strong jaw line, long dark flowing hair, a bold stride, and a soothing Scandinavian accent. He stole my bike.

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10 Sep 2015, 12:50 am

dancingchatot wrote:

I agree with Eureka13 and Halfmadgenius. No pissy hotheaded men. Other things I like in a man.
-No tall guys (5' 9" and over) I'm 5' 1" tall. I don't like feeling like a man's dolly next to him.
-Must not have or want children. He has to say it because thats what he wants.
-Accepts me for me and doesn't try to change me. I'm not going under the knife for you.
-Loves to hug and snuggle. I like it when a man hugs me around the waist from behind
-No racial fetishes. I'm mixed race. I don't want a man who's with me because he thinks I'll act a certain way.

Wow. I'd been wondering lately if perhaps I should date aspie girls, since that's where I've had the best luck before. It seems like I was onto something - I've heard this sort of wish list from a lot of girls around here

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10 Sep 2015, 3:14 am

I'm most attracted to intelligence. I would say that's my number one. Every man I have been with or been interested in has been fairly intelligent or could be witty in conversation, at least.

Dominance in the bedroom as well. I don't mind switching it up, but a man that cannot be dominant in the bedroom is a turnoff.

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10 Sep 2015, 4:43 pm

sly279 wrote:

Well they look at my picture and ignore me so the whole meeting and seeing if they like doesn't even happen as they are unwilling to go the that step unless they have physical atraction

If you are meeting women online, perhaps having a picture or multiple pictures of you on your profile could help....at least to avoid wasted time with girls who decide from one picture 'its not worth it'. I've never been a huge stickler on pictures since usually people look a little different in person anyways and things like their personality or over all style can affect attractiveness.

If any that interest you at all message you first reciprocate....I actually have initially messaged guys, but have never got a response back when I have done that.

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10 Sep 2015, 10:41 pm

AspieAdmirer wrote:

Evidence that I'm in the right spot continues to mount. I'd better hang out here more often

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