Top 10 Reasons You Can't Get A Girlfriend

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I partly agree, sir.

But what I also want to bring up is how some people can find a relationship even if they have what is generally considered by society to be less than attractive qualities. Physically and personality-wise.

We see some aspies here that are confident, social, outgoing, good social skills, hygiene, well-educated and decent looking, independent, etc. and yet they can't find relationships (case in point: Ecomatt).

I am considered by many others I know to be a very confident and social aspie with good social skills. I'm considered funny by my peers and always trying to meet people and make new friends. I'm not ugly at all, consider myself a 6.5 and gotten anywhere from 6 to 7.5 from others. 5ft9'' and I workout so my body looks decent.

But still definitely not satisfied with my social life. I still have too few friends and have a hard time getting a girlfriend and finding love.

Now, I am just a teenager, which relates to what my argument will be.

And that is I have found that maybe the majority of people in a society/culture also just have 'poor taste', in that they desire qualities that in any reasonable minded person's opinion shouldn't be considered attractive.

Now, everyone has different taste and it's very rude to judge others for their tastes, but I think you know what i mean.

This is especially true in high school, where naive teenagers might have 'immature' tastes in that they are shallow and only care about looks, and place things like popularity and perceived 'coolness' over traits that really 'should' be appreciated such as kindness, honesty, compassion, etc.

But I definitely think in my humble opinion this can carry on into adulthood.

It's just strange how many people who are rude, poorly behaved, smart-alecs, poorly hygiened, etc. can still find it effortless to make friends and relationships while those of us who might only be slightly awkward but still trying find it difficult.

I'm not trying to be one of those victimizing, 'it's all society's fault' types. I'd say our inability to get along with others is partly influenced by both.

Society's social rules, expectations and conformity which means those that might be different in a good way are still looked down on and shunned by the majority, and the certain behaviors that most of us can agree that even aspies should adapt to fit into their world and society.

Top 10 reasons why you can't get a girlfriend:
1. You're an aspie.
2. You're an aspie.
3. You're an aspie.
4. You're an aspie.
5. You're an aspie.
6. You're an aspie.
7. You're an aspie.
8. You're an aspie.
9. You're an aspie.
10. You're an aspie.

You have a giant chip on your shoulder, a gross sense of over-entitlement and a belief that girls are objects to be acquired and shown off (rather than human beings to love).

You're delusional enough to think that random girls acknowledging your existence on occasion by smiling or making chit-chat in the Kroger line all want your body because you're so hot.

You have literally nothing to offer a girl (not fun, not interesting, not adventurous, no social skills to speak of).

Looks are maybe important in early teen dating maybe, enough girls seemed to like me clueless as I was but as you get older there are more social expectations and responsibilities as an adult that I just wasn't able to meet. I do wish I could go back to when I was younger, I know hindsight is 20/20 but things could of gone so different if it wasn't for the onset of anxiety and if I ever had any confidence. I think about it sometimes, did I make an impact on anybody's life? Does anybody remember me? Or was I just invisible? I dunno. I think about a lot of people I knew in the past but I just feel like nobody thinks of me.

oh here we go again.....

bye bye till today i guess.

You have a giant chip on your shoulder, a gross sense of over-entitlement and a belief that girls are objects to be acquired and shown off (rather than human beings to love).

You're delusional enough to think that random girls acknowledging your existence on occasion by smiling or making chit-chat in the Kroger line all want your body because you're so hot.

You have literally nothing to offer a girl (not fun, not interesting, not adventurous, no social skills to speak of).

You have a giant chip on your shoulder, a gross sense of over-entitlement and a belief that girls are objects to be acquired and shown off (rather than human beings to love).

You're delusional enough to think that random girls acknowledging your existence on occasion by smiling or making chit-chat in the Kroger line all want your body because you're so hot.

You have literally nothing to offer a girl (not fun, not interesting, not adventurous, no social skills to speak of).

Top 10 reasons why you can't get a girlfriend:
1. You're an aspie.
2. You're an aspie.
3. You're an aspie.
4. You're an aspie.
5. You're an aspie.
6. You're an aspie.
7. You're an aspie.
8. You're an aspie.
9. You're an aspie.
10. You're an aspie.

Most aspergian guys have girlfriends, it's not the reason. How old are you anyway?

According to few studies, the majority don't.

Really? Can I see? I see a good number of men with partners here, some are even playboys it seems.
Btw the fact that a good number has partners seems to indicate that there are other factors too. I think personality in this case in very important.