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anonpup
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16 Oct 2015, 3:21 am

I'm scared and don't know where else to post.. he tells me to just trust him but I don't really trust anyone and I really care about him and I'm scared that he may be cheating.. if you've been in this situation what have you done if it ended good or bad?



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16 Oct 2015, 7:23 am

If you care, try to trust him...
Not trusting your partner can never end well, whether you are right or wrong in the distrust, trust is critical for any relationship.

Perhaps if you tell more about the situation, but what you posted has no use if you are really asking for help.



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16 Oct 2015, 4:46 pm

Why do you think he is cheating?



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16 Oct 2015, 10:39 pm

Some more info would definitely be helpful.



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17 Oct 2015, 6:54 am

There's 2 kinds of people who think their spouse is cheating. There's one who is emotionally neglected and has to deal with a lot of excuses. The other just doesn't trust people in general because of past bad experiences. One is rational and one isn't. Thus, we need more information to help.


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