Guys only want one thing

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Well Duh!

They're young, horny, and full of life.

College aged guys are pretty much at their peak in terms of sex drive. Of course they wanna f**k.

To Deuterium:

You are not alone. I am the exact same way, and it is disheartening. There is nothing wrong with you though. Just because your views aren't popular, does not mean they are wrong.

It's pretty easy to twist the fact that men want sex, to "men only want sex".

The male sex drive is very physical. Kissing and intimacy bumps the testosterone and the natural conclusion then is to have sex. The female sex drive is different. This is hormonal so no amount of marxism can argue against that fact. The psychological aspects also play a role, and these are more fluid. What I talk about here are the physical, hormonal aspects.

The urge for release builds up gradually after a man has ejaculated. Fast forward 2-3 days and you can barely sit still because the seminal fluid exerts pressure from inside, which creates a feeling of urgency similar to the urgency to urinate when the bladder is full.

For a man who has not ejaculated for several days, particularly in his teens through his 20s, romantical involvement with a woman i.e kissing, touch, physical closeness etc bumps the testosterone production and increases the urgency to have sex. This is nature at work. If it was not so, then the incentive to reproduce would probably not be sufficient to populate the earth in ancient times when there was less chance of survival. The urge to reproduce had to be strong enough for a man to leverage himself forwards to become desirable for a woman. I.e the urge to reproduce had to be so strong that he would develop the qualities that made him appear to be a strong father for that womans children, because picking a weak mate could mean the end of her genetic lineage, and herself, since she is vulnerable while pregnant and while raising offspring.

These physiological differences seem strange in our modern society, where threats are not as immediate as they were before.

Interesting point, there are many types of strength in modern day society.

Productivity, resourcefulness, social adaptability, charisma and humour. Most people aren't running away from wild animals anymore and most married men are not required to be Conan the barbarian.

I sometimes get chased by wild animals, though I'm expected to be a bit more like Snowden than Conan...

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OMG! You sound like me when I was in college. I wanted conversation too- I found it BUT he was gay. I was devastated!! I couldn't find a straight guy who wanted conversation until I was 30 years old. He was thirty too.
We've been together now for 22 years. He's straight but aspie. The sex was hot in the beginning - dating, early marriage but I think after some guys hit 40, they slow down a lot.

Not all guys are like this. Just keep looking for the right one.

Personally, I feel like making conversation with males is easy.

I thought it was waifs that guys only wanted. I could be wrong.

I remember being painfully horny at that age. Imagine having a full bladder but nowhere to relieve yourself... all day everyday. You see toilets all over the place, but as you get closer you realize the lid won't open on any of them. Imagine how frustrating that would be.

There's also the fact that you're young, so 99% of human males want to bang you upon first sight (from the cute guy in class to the WOW playing geek to your married male professors to your dad's friends). It's just amplified with the younger, more hormonal guys. Maybe go for someone older who doesn't have as much fire in his loins.