Should I date my cousin?

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20 Nov 2015, 8:32 pm

Raleigh wrote:

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There are other fish to fry.

You sort of blew it by calling them too much.

really, you serious? you mean even if I stopped having contact with them, I can't date them when them and I are adults, getting ready for marriage/courtship?

When are you considered an adult?

by adult i mean out of college, not 18.... im 16.

So you don't plan on dating any of these girls for another 4-5 years?
I'm not sure why you're asking the question now.
Is this to be an arranged marriage?

We Dont date without the intention of seeing if we're suitable for marriage, and yes, arranged, but not forced (i prefer the term matchmaking)

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20 Nov 2015, 8:43 pm

^ When a Turkish girl I know was dating, she had to be chaperoned at all times.
And she was 18 at the time.
Is that how it will be for you?

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20 Nov 2015, 8:49 pm

I think honesty is good. So to be completely honest, my patience is wearing thin with you.

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20 Nov 2015, 9:41 pm

First cousin marriage is legal in Georgia and in 19 other states. Two of those states have some restrictions, though.

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20 Nov 2015, 10:26 pm

Rudin wrote:

I think honesty is good. So to be completely honest, my patience is wearing thin with you.

Mine is already gone.

MonsterCrack, stop with this "I'm 16 and going to be alone forever" BS. Try being 13 years older, and in the same position, then you can talk. I'm in the same exact position as you, and the only girl who has ever shown any interest in me is step-sister. I've had one GF in my entire life, and she's now married and has a kid. But you dont see me posting threads like this.

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20 Nov 2015, 10:39 pm

It should be noted that first-cousin marriage is probably most common in Muslim areas.

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20 Nov 2015, 11:05 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

It should be noted that first-cousin marriage is probably most common in Muslim areas.

I agree, it is a problem in Muslim communities but from a moral and biological standpoint, it is wrong and harmful.

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style ... 86232.html

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21 Nov 2015, 11:22 am

Sure bro why not?

It's just incest what's so bad about that?

Unless it's with your mom, then you're a f****d up mother f****r.

Don't be a f****d up mother f****r...

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21 Nov 2015, 11:27 am

Raleigh wrote:

^ When a Turkish girl I know was dating, she had to be chaperoned at all times.
And she was 18 at the time.
Is that how it will be for you?

yes

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21 Nov 2015, 12:28 pm

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Oh my f*****g god stop being so desperate and get balls! Go ask a girl your own caliber!

but my dad's okay with it.... for religious reasons. shouldn't that mean it's okay?

no, there is a difference between religion and morality. Such an action would violate moral imperitives

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21 Nov 2015, 1:46 pm

I don't see anything morally wrong with marrying a cousin, as long as least one partner gets sterilized.
Having children with your cousin, however, is immoral.

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21 Nov 2015, 2:08 pm

forget it, I'm not going to date my cousin, forget i ever mentioned it.... :roll:

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21 Nov 2015, 2:12 pm

Regarding the genetic issues, the breeding of closely related members of a species can promote desirable genes as well as undesirable genes.

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21 Nov 2015, 3:28 pm

In most Muslim communities, cousin marriage isn't illegal nor considered incestuous, Avunculate marriage is illegal though.

Medically, it is not recommended at all.

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21 Nov 2015, 3:32 pm

I am asking the mods to lock this thread since I feel very embarrassed about starting it.....

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21 Nov 2015, 3:51 pm

MonsterCrack wrote:

I am asking the mods to lock this thread since I feel very embarrassed about starting it.....

You always do that...

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