Your age for "first times"

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My first date: Age 20
First time held hands with a girl: 15
My first kiss: Age 15
My first intercourse: Age 19
My first real girlfriend: Age 21

I had a few girls crush on me and ask me out in my teenage years but I was so oblivious, shy and clueless back then. It took a long time to come out of my shell and let down my guard, it still does take time.

Date: 16
Relationship: 16
Kissing: 16
Sex: 19 kind of?

27 now with a long dry spell

I'm 37 and female.

First sexual encounter: 14. It was not wanted, not consensual, and not pleasant.
First crush: 15. On my 9th grade English teacher. It was purely intellectual. I wasn't fantasizing about kisses, or marriage, or anything like that. I was fantasizing about talking about books and writing, or about having him for a teacher again because my 10th grade English teacher sucked. I'm not sure that counts.
First consensual kiss: 19. He got brutally dumped by my cousin. He was desperate.
First sex: See "First consensual kiss," six months later. He was really, really desperate. He had Issues, and she destroyed his self-esteem, and I was sympathetic (and there).
First relationship: 20. Mr. Kiss N Sex handed me off to a more desperate friend with even more shredded self-esteem. It lasted about a year, including 8 months strictly by phone. It was bad.
First marriage: In actual fact, I got married at 21. To the next guy I had a relationship with. I was 23 when we sent cards to invite the relatives to watch us exchange vows and sign the paperwork. He was also desperate (18, far from home and flunking out of his freshman year at college, verbally abusive parents, ADHD), and I was also desperate (21, Aspie, you know the story). It has not always been pretty. It has gotten pretty f****d up at times. But 17 years later we're still married, and it has been mostly good on average by and large.

I would recommend moving slower than I did.

Society says there is something inherently wrong with being a 30-year-old virgin (or never having been in a serious relationship, or unmarried, or childless for that matter). I bluntly do not agree.

Society says intimate romantic relationships leading to marriage are The Best Road For Everyone. I vehemently do not agree.

I'm told that men's sexual needs aren't like women's sexual needs. Women's sexual "needs" are more wants, men's really are needs. I think prostitution should be legal. Prostitutes should have a union, and safety inspectors, and people who make sure they're disease-free and safe. Guess that means they'd have to pay taxes, too.

my time with the escort/hooker would have been much better, i left not feeling any different.

still am not quick to say that i'm a non‐virgin, since i had absolutely no clue who she was and will never see her again (that was in mexico).

First time kissed a pillow pretending it was gril: 9

First hug from a gril: 16

First number from a gril: 19

First gril I asked 4 her number: 20





Not all hope is lost! w0000t!

that's right.

so, what did you end up doing with her number...?

First kiss: Can't remember
First date: Age 19
First intercourse: Age 20 (almost 21)
First relationship: Age 21
Current relationship: Age 26
First proposal: Really soon now

First kiss: 13
First sex: 13
First relationship: 15

Mmm, I did a lot better job in puberty than I am doing now

First kiss:12-13 ish, game of truth or dare with a neighbor girl
First intercourse: 21 to my first gf and later first wife
First marriage 22
Never really dated.

First crush: 15
First kiss: 25
First sex: Never
First relationship: Never

first crush: either 13 or 14
first kiss: age 16, but a month away from 17
first sex: 25, it was with a FWB(stands for Friends with Benefits), kinda lowered my standards
first relationship: never, hasn't happened yet