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so the situation is i have been going out with this girl i like for around 2 months now . we have gone out several times list time to see a film. recently i have had the thought should i invite her out for a meal i do some times cook stuff in the flat and her and some other the flatmate if they want some but should i invite her out?. it would be very personal and to be honest i am at a loss on what to do any pointers?

You've been seeing her two months. I'd invite her out. I'd invite her to sample your cooking.

Go for it, Sir!

well she already has we live in a shared flat with different bed rooms student digs

Take her out, then.

You've been seeing her two months. Are you officially "dating?"

i don't know i haven't asked her. to me it sorta feels like we are but i dont know

Kraftiekortie is right. First order of business, find out where you stand before considering taking her to dinner.

After establishing whether she likes you back/feels the same way about you, and if she does, then ask her to dinner. Have a set day n time in your mind so that if it gets to the stage of a formal 'date' you have a concrete plan you can propose.
You're flatmates so presumably you know the foods she likes.

Have somewhere in mind you like to eat, or want to try out, then ask her if she wants to go with you x night of the week. If she's unavailable, ask her what works better for her and see if you guys can come up with an alternative date that suits you both.

Dude that's awesome that you've been going out with a girl! I wish I had a girlfriend to make love to. I get hard when i'm talking to the girls I like, just imagine seeing a girl I like naked. Awwww man, i'd be super aroused.

Take her to your place for some "netflix and chill"

If you don't know what that is, basically it's watching netflix as you two screw around on the couch.

Last edited by darkphantomx1 on 23 Feb 2016, 9:56 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I do not think that is in anyways appropriate to ask a girl on a date if you do not know for certain that she will not decline on face value. Know here for at least a few months? Then ask! Best time by my logic.