What unusual things are attractive to you in a partner?

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I really like long hair, especially with curls.

I don't have a particular hair colour or body type, though I find excessive musculature disgusting.

Most important is intelligence. I have historically developed crushes on teachers. Basically, I like to learn. I find men who can teach me about something I am interested in really hot. The down side, once I learn I get bored so relationships don't last long.

I am presently in my longest relationship ever and actually engaged, which I had never thought would happen. He makes me laugh. We are similar enough and different enough to keep things lively. He doesn't care about gardening and my knowledge of engines is limited. We don't go in depth on these things with each other. We love motorcycles and he likes my ability to pack the saddlebags. He is playful, and over analyzes tv, pointing out the inconsistencies in show and comercials. We both like to cook, hate washing dishes and tend to pile things on flat surfaces. We also share a sense of when it is time to clear them. He is an aspie too. So he is incredibly supportive of my anxiety issues. He is also awesome with my aspie daughter.

He is everything I never knew I wanted and never thought I would find.

^^^do send us wedding pics, eventually

^^^Will do.

yay

Am I weird for thinking adam's apples are kind of hot?

^^^vive la différence.

If a man is shy, innocent, sweet, awkward, a bit peculiar or wimpy looking, needs to be taken care of, overall the stereotype of a "total virgin", as some would say, I find them extremely attractive.
If they are female, strangely enough, I have no particular preference!

^^^hiya HoneyBee welcome to the club

^^^ Prego I really admire that you admire the "shy, innocent, sweet, awkward, a bit peculiar or wimpy looking, needs to be taken care of, overall the stereotype of a 'total virgin'" guys, you are hero AFAIC

One trait that I find very atractive is the ability to fix things, not that things tend to stay broken for long when I'm around. If I encounter a girl who usually has a bunch of electrical components and tools scattered around her room then I'm pretty much sold.

I mostly try to fix people, or at least help them...with varying success.

^^^god bless you

Hm, the most "unusual" traits that I find attractive?

Short hair on men, women, and non-binaries. Especially partial or full buzzcuts. Or hairctuts that could be described as edgy, spikey or sharp.

Androgyny is a huge turn on, but I'm into almost any gender-allignment. Except uber-masculine men. I prefer effeminate or just non-traditional masculinity when a penis is attached.

Vulnerability. Generally non-threatening and assertive in public, but never aggressive unless the situation demands it. Someone that can keep it together when they need to, but behind closed doors they wouldn't hesitate to relax their guard around me. Someone self-aware enough to identify their insecurities/injuries and willing to communicate with me about how best to attend to them.

Also, puns. Wordplay. Repetition and redundancy in behaviours and speech patterns. I really like it when people explain jokes, even and maybe especially when the punch line is obvious.

Oh, also! Short and thin. I'm not really sure that's unusual, I just prefer people to be of a similar size as myself. It makes cuddles and wrestling more fun.

I find this girl extremely cute, attractive and pretty.



It's part of an internet joke where people rate extremely 'traditionally' attractive people as very ugly, and 'traditionally' ugly people are rated as extremely attractive.

Well, I'd actually agree with everything this image sarcastically says about her.