I've dated quite a bit in the past. Took a break for a while. Found out I was an aspie. Learned a lot about myself in that time. Thought about trying to date again over the past 2 years. Finally think it might be time to give it a shot. I've never actually dated another aspie, not that I am aware of. I feel I might be better off trying to date another aspie instead of an NT. Even though things can greatly vary, I'm sure aspies can relate to and understand each other better than an NT would.
I'll get this out of the way first since this is quite important. I am open to a long distance relationship. I know the chances of finding someone on here from the same state as me (California) is probably not going to happen, so I am keeping my options open. As long as you live in the same country I am fine with it. I am up for visting each other and moving in the future if we progress to that point later on. I've done long distance relationships in the past when I was younger, so this would not be something new to me. There are of course a few simple requirements to make such an arrangement work. Like being able to text each other, calling each other on the phone, video chatting once in a while, and playing games online, etc.
I'm a 33 year old, straight, male, from California. 5'8" 130 pounds, slim and slightly toned. I've got a couple piercings and a bunch of tattoos. I listen to a wide variety of music. I don't watch much television or movies, I do enjoy documentaries though. My main source of entertainment would be video games. I'm down to play almost anything. I'm an INTJ. Obviously that means I am an introvert. I like to keep my social circle extremely small. When I end up dating someone they are usually the one that gets most of my attention. I love philosophy and psychology. My IQ is rather high. I'm a critical thinker. I am very opinionated. I love to have random deep discussions. I love to also just be silly and playful and b.s. around. I'm kind of eccentric in a way. I guess I'll leave it at that for now. Half the fun is getting to know each other anyways.
As for what I am looking for... I'm fairly open-minded. I kinda just wanna see what is out there. I try not to base things too much off of having all the same common interests. I'm sure I won't be liking all the same things I do today, 5 years from now. Compatibility with personality and mind are much more important to me. Maybe the girl of my dreams will randomly appear. Maybe I'll just meet someone new and interesting to chat with.
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"I was born in a world where I don't fit in, so I guess the only choice is make a new one"