Do we have a chance at dating the really attractive ones?

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17 Dec 2016, 6:59 pm

When almost no girl has ever expressed an attraction to you physically, not even a girlfriend you were laying in bed doing foreplay with, and when you are unhealthily obsessed with trying to build muscle because you care about fitness but also to compensate for flaws and to raise you pathetically poor self esteem, and you can see where the body image issues come from.

Your not alone sly and I'm fricken average size.



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17 Dec 2016, 8:02 pm

-pinches bridge of nose-

Reading through this putrid cesspool of a thread makes me so damn happy I turned out to be a lesbian, even if the dating pool around my area is crap and lacking in fellow lezzie aspies/auties. I thought I was salty and butthurt about not finding girls to date in middle school (and in present day) but man some of you are on a whole 'nother plane of salty existence. :? :roll: :lol:



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17 Dec 2016, 8:29 pm

sly279 wrote:
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Why is it ok and people fighting for women to be accepted to have different body types,but not men :(
There has been some movement for acceptance of different types of males aswell but unfortunately less discussed. Maybe its because men don't feel the need to discuss it (similar to not discussing male suicide rates which are the the highest). Either way it should be talked about more
Men are practical creatures. Many men would prefer to talk about which diet they'll go on to lose weight.

There are some men who just accept that they are overweight. These men don't need a male fat acceptance movement because they have self-acceptance and they don't need approval from everyone else.
Not all men are that way I'm more emotional

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So am I. All men are emotional. Like all men you get emotional about your problems. You want your problems to be solved. e.g. you're sad you don't have a girlfriend, hence you want a girlfriend.

The difference is in how men and women want to deal with their emotions. If someone told you it's ok that you're single, you wouldn't feel any better. You want a practical solution to your problem, i.e. a girlfriend.

This is how the majority of men and women are. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.


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17 Dec 2016, 8:33 pm

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Prostitutes? I wouldn't do it. There's usually something wrong that drives a girl to sell her body. Drug/alcohol addiction, psychosis, or whatever. I don't want to be a part of that cycle. I'm not an enabler. And I don't want to be with someone who's paid to fake it.
I've been thinking about it.

I didn't want to see a prostitute before because I didn't want to lose my virginity to one. That is no longer a problem. I've been in contact with one but I haven't committed yet.

I don't know if she's a drug addict or whatever, she claims she's a uni student who wants money to pay off her fees. That seems like a legitimate reason. Better than paying your fees working minimum wage. I don't if that's the real reason but that's what she claims.

Her fees are about half the price compared with the brothels near me. Then again the brothels have much hotter girls than her.


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17 Dec 2016, 8:40 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
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Why is it ok and people fighting for women to be accepted to have different body types,but not men :(
There has been some movement for acceptance of different types of males aswell but unfortunately less discussed. Maybe its because men don't feel the need to discuss it (similar to not discussing male suicide rates which are the the highest). Either way it should be talked about more
Men are practical creatures. Many men would prefer to talk about which diet they'll go on to lose weight.

There are some men who just accept that they are overweight. These men don't need a male fat acceptance movement because they have self-acceptance and they don't need approval from everyone else.
Not all men are that way I'm more emotional

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So am I. All men are emotional. Like all men you get emotional about your problems. You want your problems to be solved. e.g. you're sad you don't have a girlfriend, hence you want a girlfriend.

The difference is in how men and women want to deal with their emotions. If someone told you it's ok that you're single, you wouldn't feel any better. You want a practical solution to your problem, i.e. a girlfriend.

This is how the majority of men and women are. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.
but a lot of the time I don't want a solution just be be comforted.
Likewise I wouldn't always seek a solution to women's problems. I'd just listen and cuddle her



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17 Dec 2016, 8:45 pm

sly279 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Why is it ok and people fighting for women to be accepted to have different body types,but not men :(
There has been some movement for acceptance of different types of males aswell but unfortunately less discussed. Maybe its because men don't feel the need to discuss it (similar to not discussing male suicide rates which are the the highest). Either way it should be talked about more
Men are practical creatures. Many men would prefer to talk about which diet they'll go on to lose weight.

There are some men who just accept that they are overweight. These men don't need a male fat acceptance movement because they have self-acceptance and they don't need approval from everyone else.
Not all men are that way I'm more emotional

:(
So am I. All men are emotional. Like all men you get emotional about your problems. You want your problems to be solved. e.g. you're sad you don't have a girlfriend, hence you want a girlfriend.

The difference is in how men and women want to deal with their emotions. If someone told you it's ok that you're single, you wouldn't feel any better. You want a practical solution to your problem, i.e. a girlfriend.

This is how the majority of men and women are. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.
but a lot of the time I don't want a solution just be be comforted.
Likewise I wouldn't always seek a solution to women's problems. I'd just listen and cuddle her
Sly, you would make the ideal boyfriend.

As I said, there are exceptions on both sides. Not everyone fits in the middle of the bell curve.


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18 Dec 2016, 12:15 am

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-pinches bridge of nose-

Reading through this putrid cesspool of a thread makes me so damn happy I turned out to be a lesbian, even if the dating pool around my area is crap and lacking in fellow lezzie aspies/auties. I thought I was salty and butthurt about not finding girls to date in middle school (and in present day) but man some of you are on a whole 'nother plane of salty existence. :? :roll: :lol:


This is being just plain toxic and unhelpful, calling the peoples posts here a 'putrid cesspool'.

Your also 'happy' you aren't attracted to men, because we are so awful, aren't we?

I hope you know there's plenty of good men in this world, it makes me a little uncomfortable how many lesbians I've met whom hate men, there is even a Feminist movement of lesbian women against men.

Wrongplanet is supposed to be a support forum.

Besides, the lonely men here complaining isnt even that bad.

We are just sad and should have every right to vent our frustrations.

If you REALLY want to see what bitter, salty, hateful single men look like, try r/Incel or r9k or /b/ or look at archives of the now defunct Sl-thate.com.

Personally im bisexual and its just as frustrating to not find a single male interested in me either as online dating comes to absolutely nothing

A single gay guy who thought I was good looking in high school, but we has incompatible personalities.



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18 Dec 2016, 2:31 am

Outrider wrote:
This is being just plain toxic and unhelpful, calling the peoples posts here a 'putrid cesspool'.

Your also 'happy' you aren't attracted to men, because we are so awful, aren't we?

I hope you know there's plenty of good men in this world, it makes me a little uncomfortable how many lesbians I've met whom hate men, there is even a Feminist movement of lesbian women against men.
[sarcasm]Outrider, don't you know it's only toxic if it's against SJWs?

SJWs are allowed to insult anyone because SJWs are always right.

But if you insult an SJW it's wrong!! ![/sarcasm]
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Besides, the lonely men here complaining isnt even that bad.
[sarcasm]Those men are so entitled! They think that women just owe them sex? No one owes you sex just because you're lonely! Stop saying they do![/sarcasm]
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We are just sad and should have every right to vent our frustrations.
[sarcasm]No! Your frustrations are wrong! Only SJW's problems are real problems! You don't have any problems because you have male privilege. You're a member of the male ruling class. That's why you have more money the poor oppressed women. I hope you enjoy having 22% more money than women, rich boy![/sarcasm]


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18 Dec 2016, 5:17 am

If im that much richer than women, then they'd be homeless by now. XD

Thing is, I am against political correctness and safe spaces where no one can be offended, but I do believe on the idea of (semi-)civil discussion. I'm sure you'd agree with that.

In this case, yeah your entitled to your opinion, but controversial opinion does not equal slander/hate

It's a matter of "I don't agree with gay marriage, I am opposed to homosexuality" vs. "F*ck those f-gots and their gay mariage"

The SJWs would still be offended by the first one even if it invites civil discussion.

Civility means niether over sensitive types or overaggressive types making Issue with the discussion

Theres definitely a big difference between civil discussion and PCness.

Reddit is relatively civil aside from the occasional troll, WP is PC SJW land, and good ol 4chan is the other extreme - very aggressive, politically incorrect and uncivilness.



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18 Dec 2016, 6:10 am

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If im that much richer than women, then they'd be homeless by now. XD

Thing is, I am against political correctness and safe spaces where no one can be offended, but I do believe on the idea of (semi-)civil discussion. I'm sure you'd agree with that.

In this case, yeah your entitled to your opinion, but controversial opinion does not equal slander/hate

It's a matter of "I don't agree with gay marriage, I am opposed to homosexuality" vs. "F*ck those f-gots and their gay mariage"

The SJWs would still be offended by the first one even if it invites civil discussion.

Civility means niether over sensitive types or overaggressive types making Issue with the discussion

Theres definitely a big difference between civil discussion and PCness.

Reddit is relatively civil aside from the occasional troll, WP is PC SJW land, and good ol 4chan is the other extreme - very aggressive, politically incorrect and uncivilness.


How is WP SJW land? Your in for a massive shock if you think it is. Genuinely people here are extremely tame by other standards. In fact all I see in PPR is people complaining about SJW and Lefties



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18 Dec 2016, 7:11 am

PC land seems more fitting to what I meant

Support forum or not, WP is very sensitive sometimes, and i don't mean anything in this current thread.

If anyone thinks wrongplanet is full of offensiveness and cruel people, they wouldn't last a day on 4chan's /b/ and especially rk9.



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18 Dec 2016, 7:33 am

only if you go to asia or become extremely rich and are mild in your autism and are a stud.



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18 Dec 2016, 8:14 am

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In fact all I see in PPR is people complaining about SJW and Lefties
I approve of complaining about SJWs and lefties!


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18 Dec 2016, 8:15 am

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only if you go to asia or become extremely rich and are mild in your autism and are a stud.
I would love to go to Asia! That's where all the cute Asian girls live :D


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18 Dec 2016, 8:34 am

you are Rich (compared to people of many asian countries), high functioning, white and tall.

Lucky..Asian women don't seem to lokw black guys, people always see them with white men.

Haven't you already tried to import yourself a wife?



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18 Dec 2016, 8:50 am

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you are Rich (compared to people of many asian countries), high functioning, white and tall.

Lucky..Asian women don't seem to lokw black guys, people always see them with white men.
Not necessarily. The Japanese love black music and black culture (from America).
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Haven't you already tried to import yourself a wife?
Yeah. I found the pinays to be a bit conservative.


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