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25 Sep 2010, 9:07 am

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Women are the ones who must and will suffer for the crime of being arrogant.
is that a threat or some kind of peculiar apocalyptic prediction?


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25 Sep 2010, 9:13 am

History almost always repeats itself, women were punished for their pride long ago, and later almost all humans not just women will face their doom.



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25 Sep 2010, 9:54 am

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History almost always repeats itself, women were punished for their pride long ago, and later almost all humans not just women will face their doom.
oh, i get it! i'm seeing your comments all over the place. you're christian? are you converting people?


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25 Sep 2010, 10:04 am

I've been very bored.

1. I was a Christian but fell really hard into sin.

2. No, I don't want to convert people.



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25 Sep 2010, 10:51 am

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Naturally, females have no way of knowing just how unpleasant it is for a male to be deprived of sex, because the sex drive (and the experience of it being stifled) is not the same for males as it is for females, so they can't understand the suffering or be expected to sympathize... AND, just as naturally, males cannot be expected to understand female standards without great difficulty, but they should be able to understand that there is no reason whatsoever for a female to submit her body to a thoroughly unappealing male simply because the male claims to be "suffering".


if i were walking in a field of starving lions, i would not offer my body to them because i "empathize" with their dismal hunger, and if they said all they wanted to to was to lick the salt off my skin, i would not let them even do that.
(i know i am using too many metaphors lately. it is a phase i am going through (it stems from laziness and optimization of words to express..blahh whatever))

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ANYWAY, to get to the point... Between the aspie males with mates and children, and the aspie males with no mates or children which category do you fit in, and what is your annual income or your level of employment?

i fit in to neither category.
you say you are a scientist, yet you do not include "mates and no children" in your question.
maybe you are not interested in males with "girlfriends and no children". that would explain it.

anyway i will answer none the less. i have a girlfriend, and i have no trouble with girls because they seem to like me in real life where they can see me and hear me.
most males that have known me are perplexed at why i chose the girl that i would remain close to. they say i am insane for choosing her over 2 other girls who were my friends for a long time until they realized that i would not abandon tammy for them.

they were (are) very pretty and sexual and intelligent, and they wanted to "live in my pocket", and they searched my face constantly for clues to what i felt, and they found only blankness.
i felt smothered by them, and they seemed self sufficient to me, and i knew they could get any man they wanted so i did not feel bad about refusing to let them have me.

if a supermodel became interested in me and wanted to be my girlfriend, i would not be interested because i will never abandon tammy for any reason at all.

tammy is overweight and mildly ret*d and she knows nothing about what i am interested in, and she comes over and we talk about very superficial things for a small while before she looks longingly at my bed and then she lies down and i continue to talk with her until she no longer answers and i realize she is asleep. (i have my bed in my entertainment room where i spend all my time when i am not working).

the other girls who my few male friends desired greatly (due mainly to their looks) used to stay up all night and have much fun with me in many ways.

i choose who i will keep and who i will let go, and i chose tammy for reasons i do not understand, but i think it is because she is innocent above all else.

to briefly explain my income sources and employment status, i must summarize because i went into detail in another thread the other night and it became horribly tangled in necessities for further definitions and i was too tired to complete the picture so i deleted what i wrote.
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1. i am the author of a software system which is the foundation of operations of a company that uses it in every aspect of their procedures. that company has 350 employees and they all rely on their own part of the system to perform their daily tasks.

briefly in january, there was a hiccup when the company was taken over by a US company, and the new management did not want to continue paying me $104,000 p.a to steward my system, as i was involved on an irregular basis in the fundamental operations of the system, and my role was to maintain the system with upgrades and maintenance and troubleshooting. i worked for about 24 hours per month in total, and they could not see why they should pay $104,000 for my scant attention. they tried to outsource the redesign of a new system to a company in india which promised them that the system they wrote would replicate my system, and never need stewardship.

i panicked and bought a new business to make some money.
i developed this new business (selling frozen fries to takeaway shops) rapidly and got many customers, and after a few months, i was making $750 per day (3 days per week) in profit, and then the company where i wrote the system for rang me and asked me to return to my role. i agreed. i would only have to put in about 24 hours per month of work, and i had much free time to develop the new business.

i went to many shops on the route of my run, and gave them a price list of the fries i could sell to them, and many of those shops wanted to buy them from me. so i got another truck, and i hired another driver, and now i sell fries to 40 shops. i also hired a driver to do my original run.

i have another 18 shops that want to "come on board", and soon i will buy another truck and get another driver.

i pay the drivers $200 per day, and they sell product that generates $700-750 per day in revenue, so i keep the rest. i work 2 of the 3 drivers for 5 days per week and they are happy with that. they start at 6 and they get home by 12:30pm, and they earn $1000 per week, and i profit $2500 per week from each of them.
i will leave you to do the maths ("math" in US). i do not feel right in giving an answer.

i plan to keep getting new shops and drivers, and i wish i had thought of this years ago.
it is funny that as you get older, time seems to speed up, and when i was young, weeks took ages to go by and i saw life as a very slow trudge and it bored me. i liked computer games (which i still do extremely) which instantly gratified me with worthless scores and virtual dollars.
now, weeks speed by and the once slow advance of life is sped up almost to the speed of a computer game and i am excited to play the real game of life.

anyway, my income is healthy and i choose to have a girlfriend that most people would overlook for a "prettier" "smarter" girl.

later in another post you wrote...
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OOPS... I'm not supposed to state my motives so openly and honestly! Damn you, aspergers! Rolling Eyes

that was rather transparent. all you had to do was delete what you wrote before you posted it if you were unhappy with it. i am not impressed with people who flog their allegation they have aspergers syndrome in a such deliberate way.



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25 Sep 2010, 11:11 am

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Invader wrote:
Naturally, females have no way of knowing just how unpleasant it is for a male to be deprived of sex, because the sex drive (and the experience of it being stifled) is not the same for males as it is for females, so they can't understand the suffering or be expected to sympathize... AND, just as naturally, males cannot be expected to understand female standards without great difficulty, but they should be able to understand that there is no reason whatsoever for a female to submit her body to a thoroughly unappealing male simply because the male claims to be "suffering".


if i were walking in a field of starving lions, i would not offer my body to them because i "empathize" with their dismal hunger, and if they said all they wanted to to was to lick the salt off my skin, i would not let them even do that.
(i know i am using too many metaphors lately. it is a phase i am going through (it stems from laziness and optimization of words to express..blahh whatever))

Invader wrote:
ANYWAY, to get to the point... Between the aspie males with mates and children, and the aspie males with no mates or children which category do you fit in, and what is your annual income or your level of employment?

i fit in to neither category.
you say you are a scientist, yet you do not include "mates and no children" in your question.
maybe you are not interested in males with "girlfriends and no children". that would explain it.

anyway i will answer none the less. i have a girlfriend, and i have no trouble with girls because they seem to like me in real life where they can see me and hear me.
most males that have known me are perplexed at why i chose the girl that i would remain close to. they say i am insane for choosing her over 2 other girls who were my friends for a long time until they realized that i would not abandon tammy for them.

they were (are) very pretty and sexual and intelligent, and they wanted to "live in my pocket", and they searched my face constantly for clues to what i felt, and they found only blankness.
i felt smothered by them, and they seemed self sufficient to me, and i knew they could get any man they wanted so i did not feel bad about refusing to let them have me.

if a supermodel became interested in me and wanted to be my girlfriend, i would not be interested because i will never abandon tammy for any reason at all.

tammy is overweight and mildly ret*d and she knows nothing about what i am interested in, and she comes over and we talk about very superficial things for a small while before she looks longingly at my bed and then she lies down and i continue to talk with her until she no longer answers and i realize she is asleep. (i have my bed in my entertainment room where i spend all my time when i am not working).

the other girls who my few male friends desired greatly (due mainly to their looks) used to stay up all night and have much fun with me in many ways.

i choose who i will keep and who i will let go, and i chose tammy for reasons i do not understand, but i think it is because she is innocent above all else.

to briefly explain my income sources and employment status, i must summarize because i went into detail in another thread the other night and it became horribly tangled in necessities for further definitions and i was too tired to complete the picture so i deleted what i wrote.
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1. i am the author of a software system which is the foundation of operations of a company that uses it in every aspect of their procedures. that company has 350 employees and they all rely on their own part of the system to perform their daily tasks.

briefly in january, there was a hiccup when the company was taken over by a US company, and the new management did not want to continue paying me $104,000 p.a to steward my system, as i was involved on an irregular basis in the fundamental operations of the system, and my role was to maintain the system with upgrades and maintenance and troubleshooting. i worked for about 24 hours per month in total, and they could not see why they should pay $104,000 for my scant attention. they tried to outsource the redesign of a new system to a company in india which promised them that the system they wrote would replicate my system, and never need stewardship.

i panicked and bought a new business to make some money.
i developed this new business (selling frozen fries to takeaway shops) rapidly and got many customers, and after a few months, i was making $750 per day (3 days per week) in profit, and then the company where i wrote the system for rang me and asked me to return to my role. i agreed. i would only have to put in about 24 hours per month of work, and i had much free time to develop the new business.

i went to many shops on the route of my run, and gave them a price list of the fries i could sell to them, and many of those shops wanted to buy them from me. so i got another truck, and i hired another driver, and now i sell fries to 40 shops. i also hired a driver to do my original run.

i have another 18 shops that want to "come on board", and soon i will buy another truck and get another driver.

i pay the drivers $200 per day, and they sell product that generates $700-750 per day in revenue, so i keep the rest. i work 2 of the 3 drivers for 5 days per week and they are happy with that. they start at 6 and they get home by 12:30pm, and they earn $1000 per week, and i profit $2500 per week from each of them.
i will leave you to do the maths ("math" in US). i do not feel right in giving an answer.

i plan to keep getting new shops and drivers, and i wish i had thought of this years ago.
it is funny that as you get older, time seems to speed up, and when i was young, weeks took ages to go by and i saw life as a very slow trudge and it bored me. i liked computer games (which i still do extremely) which instantly gratified me with worthless scores and virtual dollars.
now, weeks speed by and the once slow advance of life is sped up almost to the speed of a computer game and i am excited to play the real game of life.

anyway, my income is healthy and i choose to have a girlfriend that most people would overlook for a "prettier" "smarter" girl.

later in another post you wrote...
Invader wrote:
OOPS... I'm not supposed to state my motives so openly and honestly! Damn you, aspergers! Rolling Eyes

that was rather transparent. all you had to do was delete what you wrote before you posted it if you were unhappy with it. i am not impressed with people who flog their allegation they have aspergers syndrome in a such deliberate way.
are you human? sorry - it's a jest. i am only joking. clearly you must be human (right?). i loved reading your story and found it really fascinating. i admire that you do things your own way and carve your own corner of space in the manner you see fit.


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25 Sep 2010, 11:32 am

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are you human? sorry - it's a jest. i am only joking. clearly you must be human (right?).

yes i think i am a human.
i do not care really.
as long as i am satisfied it does not matter to me.

it is good that you liked to read what i wrote and your eye is nice to see.



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25 Sep 2010, 12:15 pm

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Now, without getting into who's right or who's wrong... Naturally, females have no way of knowing just how unpleasant it is for a male to be deprived of sex, because the sex drive (and the experience of it being stifled) is not the same for males as it is for females, so they can't understand the suffering or be expected to sympathize... AND, just as naturally, males cannot be expected to understand female standards without great difficulty, but they should be able to understand that there is no reason whatsoever for a female to submit her body to a thoroughly unappealing male simply because the male claims to be "suffering". Acceptable mates are judged by their adequacy, not by the amount of discomfort they are in. That is something which both genders can understand on some level or another, if they try.)


And naturally, this is the kind of crap only a 20-something male would come up with.

(And reading someone else's reply on this thread... did you seriously think of yourself as a scientist? Hmm. Nice try, but try again.)



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06 Jan 2017, 6:51 pm

They are able to financially provide, that's the key difference. My father has severe ADHD and suffers from delusions yet he was able to start a "family"...why? Because he could provide. My Grandfather has full blown Asperger syndrome (his symptoms are noticeable to the casual observer) and he managed to have 2 wives and 3 children...because he could provide.



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06 Jan 2017, 6:53 pm

Werecrocodile wrote:
History almost always repeats itself, women were punished for their pride long ago, and later almost all humans not just women will face their doom.



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06 Jan 2017, 7:35 pm

kyria_gold wrote:
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History almost always repeats itself, women were punished for their pride long ago, and later almost all humans not just women will face their doom.


It's inevitable...the pendulum will swing back hard the other way...this is the result of Feminist pushing for more than equality and wanting a multitude of special privileges/treatment.


Oh this idea can f**k right off with its 'women need to be punished for their pride'. That's bull! Women are humans and as such have preferences.

You never see people like Hugh hefner being told they will be punished for their pride :roll:



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06 Jan 2017, 8:01 pm

kyria_gold wrote:
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History almost always repeats itself, women were punished for their pride long ago, and later almost all humans not just women will face their doom.


It's inevitable...the pendulum will swing back hard the other way...this is the result of Feminist pushing for more than equality and wanting a multitude of special privileges/treatment.


Why do you feel that your counterpart is the enemy? Why do you think they have even achieved equality? Why don't they deserve equality? In what part of the world do women have more rights than men compared to women having little to no rights around the world?


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06 Jan 2017, 9:33 pm

kyria_gold wrote:
Werecrocodile wrote:
History almost always repeats itself, women were punished for their pride long ago, and later almost all humans not just women will face their doom.


It's inevitable...the pendulum will swing back hard the other way...this is the result of Feminist pushing for more than equality and wanting a multitude of special privileges/treatment.


1/10 troll score. At least come at us with some original material to show you've made an effort beyond cutting and pasting talking points from /r/redpill or wherever you typically hang.


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07 Jan 2017, 1:19 am

kyria_gold wrote:

It's inevitable...the pendulum will swing back hard the other way...


pendula always swing with diminishing returns. so the first swing is the widest sweep.
sorry about that.



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07 Jan 2017, 1:20 am

I hate to throw a snag into this whole theory, but what if you don't know his income? LOL. I don't, nor do I need to know or care at this point. One, because he proves to be a good provider, and two, there are more important things I want to know about, rather than what's in his wallet... I don't think Sex has anything to do with money, personally. Well off men make bad bed partners, in my experience. Have you ever heard the song, Lying eyes by the Eagles? It tells the story about a ritch man who only leaves the woman feeling lonely. It's a theme that is heard a lot. To be honest, Chronos was spot on, in my opinion, for what it's worth. :D



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07 Jan 2017, 4:45 am

This thread is irrelevant. It's about members who were on here in 2010.