How do some people get partners so easily?

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03 Mar 2017, 6:24 pm

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ya its difficult to not feel sympathy and empathy for the late Elliot Rodger and George Sodini sometimes, even though i would never go as far as to what they did
If you say that you'll get attacked by SJWs!

They want sympathy and rehabilitation for criminals, except for criminals who commit crimes against women.


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03 Mar 2017, 6:31 pm

Let the SJW's rot. They're stupid busybodies :P



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03 Mar 2017, 6:33 pm

Yeah! They should learn how to control their own lives before they try to control everyone else's lives :lol:


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03 Mar 2017, 6:36 pm

I'm not a SJW.

I don't feel sympathy for Elliot Rodger. I don't know about the other guy.

I've been bullied. I've been rejected by girls (especially when younger), and all the rest.

I wasn't induced to murder because of it.



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03 Mar 2017, 6:47 pm

Sympathy =/= Approval


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03 Mar 2017, 7:19 pm

You should read Rodger's "manifesto." I did. The guy said really nasty things about people. He took things way too far.

He wasn't just some regular Aspie who had problems getting girls.



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03 Mar 2017, 7:22 pm

He has a manifesto? I thought he was just undatable.


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03 Mar 2017, 7:25 pm

Yes he did. You should read it.

Not quite Ted Kascynski---but getting there....



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03 Mar 2017, 7:27 pm

Yeah, I've read that. It's actually a really interesting read. Written well, too.



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03 Mar 2017, 7:30 pm

All this crap really started with Columbine in 1999. It is a high school in Colorado, USA.

There were these kids who felt alienated and bullied, and had trouble getting girls. They called themselves the "Trench Coat Mafia."

They decided to plan to shoot up their school...and they did.

That's why I feel that people should get perspective, acquire interests, educate themselves, go out in the real world.

The Trench Coat Mafia...and Elliott Rodger.....lost perspective. They lost their grip on reality.

This has got to stop.



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03 Mar 2017, 7:42 pm

Both the Columbine shooting and Elliot Rogers also lead to a media frenzy in which other people and social groups functioned as scapegoats. For the columbine shooting, Maralyn Manson was blamed and goths were targeted at schools across the country. In the case of Elliot Rogers, men's groups and critics of feminism were targeted as inherently being a matter of "toxic masculinity", breeding thousands of Elliot Rogers.

In my view, the truth is that these are rare, unstable individuals and you can't really lay the blame on some social force or group.



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03 Mar 2017, 7:43 pm

Sorry for getting so heavy.

But I feel strongly that people, even autistic people, should really see things from more than an individualistic, solipsistic viewpoint.

They should seek perspectives other than their own.

The Internet has a way of isolating people, which I find could be dangerous sometimes.



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03 Mar 2017, 8:37 pm

I don't blame women. I question what's wrong with me. Walking home from the shops I see a 20 year old guy with a stunningly gorgeous 20 year old girl. A common occurrence. So compared to him, what's wrong with me?

Guys like that must have something going for them but what? I must be lacking something but I know not what :|


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03 Mar 2017, 8:40 pm

You don't know what's going to happen tomorrow. Maybe the girl will suddenly dump the guy.



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05 Mar 2017, 9:58 pm

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I was talking to this girl online. She's on holiday. The other side of the country from where she lives. In a town she's never been to before. She felt horny so she chatted up a couple of local guys. Just like that she has both of them. How many people here could say they could be on holiday in a new town on the other side of the country, be there for a few days and then find two sex partners? She had 'em both at once. How many people here could say they could arrange for a threesome on short notice?

It's not just girls. It's guys as well. Plenty of guys can also just arrange a ménage à deux on short notice. One guy I know. His girlfriend dumped him. He had a new girlfriend about a week later. How do these people do it?


Very low standards, and little if any inhibition.



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05 Mar 2017, 10:01 pm

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Are you kidding? Women do not have to work to get sex. That's just fact. Any woman can just get laid if she wants, no matter how hideous she is, there will always be a guy who will say yes to no-strings-attached sex. So that's not really an accomplishment or something to be impressed with. (And I do mean "sex" which is completely and absolutely different than a committed long-term relationship with someone, which is a bit more complicated and not necessarily as easy.)

Now how the guys get something quickly is a different matter. I would say it's a combination of both their charisma and their looks, two things that unfortunately not everyone has.


Charisma but not so much looks. They use their charisma on girls with low standards.