What makes someone unattractive?

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No I am just outside of any circles.

I have put a handle on my anxiety but it was not always like that. Just a year ago I was way too anxious to talk to anybody of my year group or older. I have gotten better though, but I am still climbing.

It sounds like you're really working at it.

Sometimes. You could say.

You're only 16. You have time.

Sometimes, you work at it. Sometimes, you just relax.

I know hence why I said I likely wouldn't be dating for 2 years. Their is a stage you got be at I am not there yet.

Don't get complacent. There's not much time at all to get some experience before you end up permanently affected in a negative way. If you still haven't had a girlfriend or at least some form of sexual activity by your early 20's, something has gone horribly wrong. Your confidence will collapse, and people will judge you very harshly.

Why would I want to be friends or get to know those judgmental dummies?

You must be joking. I didn't have my first real gf until my 30s, and I didn't have any sex before that either. That didn't discourage me, and my confidence didn't collapse.

Maybe it's an aspie thing then. I've grown up among NT's and pretty much nobody I know was inexperienced by the end of highschool. The shame I feel from being undesirable has destroyed me.

It certainly could be. I grew up among NDs.

what makes guys with aspergers unattractive are his lack of social skills,severely awkward to clumsy social appearance & social interaction difficulties.

Not really. It's their attitude and overcompensation.

for me,it's okay for any guy to have Aspergers just so as long as NT Girls & Women that you end up interesting,or meeting,don't know that you have it,ever.

Seemingly nice and talkative but actually otherwise. Just the way some pathetic people are.

I know there are lots of people who are like "Outside doesn't matter, only the inside does!" but I find most fat people really unattractive. There are beautiful men/women out there who are overweight, but that's because their other features make them seem like they do actually take care of themselves.

In females, I find a lot of make-up, fake tan and just fakeness in general unattractive.
In men, I find having abs really unattractive. I like skinny men (& women).

As for personality, I cannot stand it when they start dramas out of small things I do, especially when they hide what they do wrong after. And when I do find out I should just be okay with it.

I also find a group of three (usually females) unattractive.
Typically one person among them acts bossy and try to make themselves look bigger/better than others when they actually arent.
I have had enuf unpleasant experiences asociated with a group of three up until now to realize it is better to stay away from them unless i wholeheartedly know they are of respectable character.