Why are women so desperate for men?

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Yo stop discussing us. Someone is gonna get hurt by all the meddling. That's usually what happens when ppl try to matchmake.

Just drop it guys.

Can I just point out that the only woman who commented on the weight idea posted a scientific article.

*cough*

Meh, I'm not compatible with any woman.

You can be compatible with someone of your league, career-wise, health wise, body wise and so on.

That girl working in your store who's younger than you is more likely to accept you than a woman with a STEM master degree for example.

I'm not any any woman's league. Women who work min wage want a guy who makes more. Not to mention pretty much all women today go to college and plan to get good paying jobs. They only working retail to earn extra money while on break.

Even jobless women don't think I'm good enough for them. I doubt homeless women would date me either , I can't offer them a home, that's why the lady who visited me for a week ended contact with me.

Oh, great, your article gives me useful information and a fresh perspective on the subject.


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Your dating pool gets smaller the less you achieve things in life, that's true.

The tendency of women to marry/date up, which means that any girl at your level does have more option to get someone better achiever than you and her (not just career wise, but everything else, even education and intelligence), is a fact of life (and anyone who denies it is burying their heads in the sand).

But in life, I see that most men in situation like you do eventually get married; hell even those smelly taxi drivers get married.

I don't think men who work 20 hours a week for min wage and are on social security get married.
Cab drives make really good money.so do garage truck drivers.

I don't know why I bother getting up every day. My life is pointless and useless. I'd be better off just never leaving my bed room and waiting to die. It only get worse next year be 30 it's been down hill since 25. Even women in there 50s will on,u accept s man with a good job.

Alright I can only take so much. What's the deal here. What is your full money, living, healthy situation summed up? I'm sure there are options here even if you don't see it.

From whhat i remember, he's said that he.needs to travel 2 hours to and from work, has only $19 a week for food after expenses.

Works 20 hours a week min wage and he can't handle anymore.

Lives with parents and has no car (or a very sh*tty one).

Useless degree and can't afford further education.

Ok step one is a better job. Unless you are disabled in some way you gotta get some income. If that means McDonald's do it. Starbucks etc you name it. Next get a cheap used car. It won't last LONG prob but it will help you for a few months to gather revenue. You might have to work two jobs during this to take full advantage.
I'll go on once you respond.

I admit, that even though I have a career, hold a Master degree + Degree in STEM, that most of the girls who showed any kind of romantic/sexual interest in me....well, coming from much more challenging situations, they are usually girls who work entry jobs or domestic works like cooks, cleaners,helpers, cashiers, masseuses and so on...the only ones who whom I found to be at my education level were nurses, I dunno why, but nurses here don't make much but abroad they make tons of money so probably it's local anyway I wouldn't be in their league elsewhere.

And yes, I admit it, those women are much much easier to impress and they are by far more likely to overlook your flaws.

Some men do get married with women of their leagues, I know some university classmates who got married with other classmates and they all work; but those men are not autistic, those men are sociable and fun, those men are tall and average height, while me is a not sociable, geeky aspie, a barely existing social life, and the shortest man that a random woman may have ever met in her life (I am not kidding, I am like at 1.5% percentile when it comes to male tallness, meaning that 98.5% of the local men are taller than me; this is a huge undeniable physical flaw that affects my value negatively in dating - hence why Asian women were always also by far more likely to find me attractive, even for the casual sex encounters).

There are two "highly educated" girls who messaged me recently on okc, the cybersecurity girl and the other is translator, which is a very rare thing to happen to me honestly, the former isn't showing much interest while the latter is chasing me giving me her phone number yesterday but meh, she didn't see me for real....she's staying till September in the country anyway (for Phd studying) so probably she's just seeking for fun, ok, fine. She sounded foreigner and her accent in English is totally fluent, but she didn't tell me yet from where she is, she looks originally to be from southern Asia - the phone number she provided me has the area code +1 914.....US, New York? Weird!

Atleast your intellect can compensate for your height to some extent. But yes, women date laterally and upwards, while men date laterally and downwards, it's a fact of life.

Sly, you aren't a bottom of the barrel man and you can date down, only ptpvlem for guys like us is we are so low on the totem pole we have to avoid the girls that are horrible and awful.

The women with severe mental health problems e.g.
Crazy, abusive, extremely suicidal, narcissistic, etc.

The women who don't take care f themselves and ave.no self respect.

I eat healthy, exercis . Have good hygiene and a clean room.

Many of the girls my age I met through family aren't.

They smoke. Don't brush their teeth . Horribly dirty rooms, horrible diet. Never exercise, drink every weekend, drug addict, rude, controlling, emotionally abusive to their man, mental health problems toxic,/dangerous gangster type friends, and constantly pregnant with the abusive scumbag ex nowhere in sight or in prison. One of them we know has 6 kids she doesn't take care of properly with 3 or 4 different men (one of them on the run from the law).

The "You can't handle me at m worst you don't deserve me at my.best" type women.

That's.not my f*cking league even if I have to date down.

These women don't make any effort or have any class.

My league is average health girls with some mental illnesses, poor family but decent people, eats OK but doesn't exercise much, high school dropout, mental health problem . Will never work or study. But still a kind person and has decent hygiene, no real skills or talents. I'm fine with that just not trashy women.

If I'm level 2 and my league is level 1 girls, than those sort of trashy women are level 0.

Me and you are level 2 Sly and need level 1 women who still treat themselves right and are respectful and kind to other people and treat us right.

Even I dated down, my first girlfriend and several of my crushes were worse off than me.

My first girlfriend had much worse mental.health problems than me, same socioeconomic status/both poor, less fit, poorer social skills, less of a social life, less academically apt.

I had a crush on another girl and she liked me back but had to move away.

She's very similar to me in almost ever possible way but her family was worse off than mine, she's a high school dropout, and has seen and experienced less of the world than me, e.g. hasn't been many places outside of her city, etc. And a few mental health problems.

What's your degree in sly?

I think you'd enjoy working in an outdoor camping hiking type shop more than the one you work in now.