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12 Dec 2017, 7:59 am

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I somewhat agree with u in that women definitely think they want a middle class man but I tell u they don’t! It’s one of those things u have to have xyz to know u don’t want it. The realities of the middle class man is that he is most probably just an unsuccessful rich man making him angry, highly taxed and stressed with zero time. Reality is even if u take these trips with the middle class man he will be working or worrying about work or if someone is filling he’s job he’ll be worried they’ll do it better. What women want is to be the third wife of a interesting somewhat successful older man who has this competive crap out of his system but still just young enough to climb the volcano in Hawaii and make one last lovely baby but can afford a au pair from day one to carry it around and take it away when it is a screameeee. Someone who has made their mistakes already.

I think lots of women think they want jewellery and cars but personally if someone reads to me or the most romantic thing ever hang Christmas lights in a tree to surprise me (that hasn’t happened it’s a daydream) that stuff would blow my mind. Most women can buy themselves things and do!


Women want to be a 3rd wife?
Also what your saying is they want to marry a trump like guy who’s upper middle class or rich? And be a trophy wife to a guy with multiple ex’s and kids about the same age as them? Certainly most women don’t want that? I hope anyways.

3rd wife? No I definitely wouldn't want to be a 3rd wife. I'm not attracted to men twice my age (or even older). I'm not forcing myself to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. Also, why did his previous two marriages fail? If he already had two failed marriages it's more likely the third will fail too. I'm guessing it'd fail as soon as I'd start to get wrinkles.
No thanks, I'm better off without that.


Hmm what r u going to do when who ever u marry gets older? Will u be attracted to someone older as you age yourself? It’s interesting but I think lots of ppl esp men are never attracted to older women. I want to be the 3rd wife so all the learning is done by then so he will take holidays play with his children want to go to the movies normal stuff other ppl take for granted. Like that guy who owns the formula one but not him and not that wealthy.

I definitely do not want a rich guy (houses r v expensive in Sydney so a nice new but not ridiculous house say 5 bedrooms 2 bathrooms and a double garage might go for $3.5m if ur lucky) so I would ideally like a man who has worked hard his whole life so would have ability to buy something like that (don’t forget because he’s old the block of land would have been $30,000 back in the early 1980s which any sort of clerk could buy it’s the Chinese dumping their money in our north property market causing massive house price rises) the actual house would cost around $500k (a very average finance manager might be around $180k here but even they would work at least 10 hrs a day). I know this sounds like a lot of money it is but at the same time it’s not because Aussies have “the great Australian dream” which is normally buying a house on a big ish block. I’m not into boats, cars, any other trappings of wealth but I would like an office with sound proof walks and a granny flat I could use for a lab for my science hobbies.


You don't want a rich guy, but you want a guy with a $3.5m dollar house? How is that not a rich man lol
There's no way a doctor or a lawyer could even afford a house like that.


Oh course there is! Most doctors and lawyers inherit money from their parents who are also doctors and lawyers that is not huge money over here I would say most doctors by 65 would have easily that much... it’s just a family home ova here it’s because of the insane increase in property prices these are normal ppl not doctors and lawyers who bought in the 1970s & 1980s sitting on normal size blocks on v expensive land... I’m talking payclerks, low level engineers, govnt clerks.



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12 Dec 2017, 8:15 am

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I somewhat agree with u in that women definitely think they want a middle class man but I tell u they don’t! It’s one of those things u have to have xyz to know u don’t want it. The realities of the middle class man is that he is most probably just an unsuccessful rich man making him angry, highly taxed and stressed with zero time. Reality is even if u take these trips with the middle class man he will be working or worrying about work or if someone is filling he’s job he’ll be worried they’ll do it better. What women want is to be the third wife of a interesting somewhat successful older man who has this competive crap out of his system but still just young enough to climb the volcano in Hawaii and make one last lovely baby but can afford a au pair from day one to carry it around and take it away when it is a screameeee. Someone who has made their mistakes already.

I think lots of women think they want jewellery and cars but personally if someone reads to me or the most romantic thing ever hang Christmas lights in a tree to surprise me (that hasn’t happened it’s a daydream) that stuff would blow my mind. Most women can buy themselves things and do!


Women want to be a 3rd wife?
Also what your saying is they want to marry a trump like guy who’s upper middle class or rich? And be a trophy wife to a guy with multiple ex’s and kids about the same age as them? Certainly most women don’t want that? I hope anyways.

3rd wife? No I definitely wouldn't want to be a 3rd wife. I'm not attracted to men twice my age (or even older). I'm not forcing myself to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. Also, why did his previous two marriages fail? If he already had two failed marriages it's more likely the third will fail too. I'm guessing it'd fail as soon as I'd start to get wrinkles.
No thanks, I'm better off without that.


Hmm what r u going to do when who ever u marry gets older? Will u be attracted to someone older as you age yourself? It’s interesting but I think lots of ppl esp men are never attracted to older women. I want to be the 3rd wife so all the learning is done by then so he will take holidays play with his children want to go to the movies normal stuff other ppl take for granted. Like that guy who owns the formula one but not him and not that wealthy.

I definitely do not want a rich guy (houses r v expensive in Sydney so a nice new but not ridiculous house say 5 bedrooms 2 bathrooms and a double garage might go for $3.5m if ur lucky) so I would ideally like a man who has worked hard his whole life so would have ability to buy something like that (don’t forget because he’s old the block of land would have been $30,000 back in the early 1980s which any sort of clerk could buy it’s the Chinese dumping their money in our north property market causing massive house price rises) the actual house would cost around $500k (a very average finance manager might be around $180k here but even they would work at least 10 hrs a day). I know this sounds like a lot of money it is but at the same time it’s not because Aussies have “the great Australian dream” which is normally buying a house on a big ish block. I’m not into boats, cars, any other trappings of wealth but I would like an office with sound proof walks and a granny flat I could use for a lab for my science hobbies.


You don't want a rich guy, but you want a guy with a $3.5m dollar house? How is that not a rich man lol
There's no way a doctor or a lawyer could even afford a house like that.


Oh course there is! Most doctors and lawyers inherit money from their parents who are also doctors and lawyers that is not huge money over here I would say most doctors by 65 would have easily that much... it’s just a family home ova here it’s because of the insane increase in property prices these are normal ppl not doctors and lawyers who bought in the 1970s & 1980s sitting on normal size blocks on v expensive land... I’m talking payclerks, low level engineers, govnt clerks.


I'm applying for medicine, and I have already calculated that I will never be able to buy a house like that. But I also won't inhereit any money.

Either way, I think you're very delusional, if you think a man with a $3.5m dollar house is not rich. Only 1%(maybe less) of people have that much.



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12 Dec 2017, 8:27 am

Closet Genious wrote:
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I somewhat agree with u in that women definitely think they want a middle class man but I tell u they don’t! It’s one of those things u have to have xyz to know u don’t want it. The realities of the middle class man is that he is most probably just an unsuccessful rich man making him angry, highly taxed and stressed with zero time. Reality is even if u take these trips with the middle class man he will be working or worrying about work or if someone is filling he’s job he’ll be worried they’ll do it better. What women want is to be the third wife of a interesting somewhat successful older man who has this competive crap out of his system but still just young enough to climb the volcano in Hawaii and make one last lovely baby but can afford a au pair from day one to carry it around and take it away when it is a screameeee. Someone who has made their mistakes already.

I think lots of women think they want jewellery and cars but personally if someone reads to me or the most romantic thing ever hang Christmas lights in a tree to surprise me (that hasn’t happened it’s a daydream) that stuff would blow my mind. Most women can buy themselves things and do!


Women want to be a 3rd wife?
Also what your saying is they want to marry a trump like guy who’s upper middle class or rich? And be a trophy wife to a guy with multiple ex’s and kids about the same age as them? Certainly most women don’t want that? I hope anyways.

3rd wife? No I definitely wouldn't want to be a 3rd wife. I'm not attracted to men twice my age (or even older). I'm not forcing myself to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. Also, why did his previous two marriages fail? If he already had two failed marriages it's more likely the third will fail too. I'm guessing it'd fail as soon as I'd start to get wrinkles.
No thanks, I'm better off without that.


Hmm what r u going to do when who ever u marry gets older? Will u be attracted to someone older as you age yourself? It’s interesting but I think lots of ppl esp men are never attracted to older women. I want to be the 3rd wife so all the learning is done by then so he will take holidays play with his children want to go to the movies normal stuff other ppl take for granted. Like that guy who owns the formula one but not him and not that wealthy.

I definitely do not want a rich guy (houses r v expensive in Sydney so a nice new but not ridiculous house say 5 bedrooms 2 bathrooms and a double garage might go for $3.5m if ur lucky) so I would ideally like a man who has worked hard his whole life so would have ability to buy something like that (don’t forget because he’s old the block of land would have been $30,000 back in the early 1980s which any sort of clerk could buy it’s the Chinese dumping their money in our north property market causing massive house price rises) the actual house would cost around $500k (a very average finance manager might be around $180k here but even they would work at least 10 hrs a day). I know this sounds like a lot of money it is but at the same time it’s not because Aussies have “the great Australian dream” which is normally buying a house on a big ish block. I’m not into boats, cars, any other trappings of wealth but I would like an office with sound proof walks and a granny flat I could use for a lab for my science hobbies.


You don't want a rich guy, but you want a guy with a $3.5m dollar house? How is that not a rich man lol
There's no way a doctor or a lawyer could even afford a house like that.


Oh course there is! Most doctors and lawyers inherit money from their parents who are also doctors and lawyers that is not huge money over here I would say most doctors by 65 would have easily that much... it’s just a family home ova here it’s because of the insane increase in property prices these are normal ppl not doctors and lawyers who bought in the 1970s & 1980s sitting on normal size blocks on v expensive land... I’m talking payclerks, low level engineers, govnt clerks.


I'm applying for medicine, and I have already calculated that I will never be able to buy a house like that. But I also won't inhereit any money.

Either way, I think you're very delusional, if you think a man with a $3.5m dollar house is not rich. Only 1%(maybe less) of people have that much.

I understand that those houses weren't close to $3.5m when they were bought, just the prices went sky-high several decades later.
There is a similar phenomenon where I live, including my grandmother's apartament. But many people are likely to sell those houses and buy something cheaper elsewhere, for even affording the taxes for them is hard.


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12 Dec 2017, 8:34 am

It's just an insult to 99.6% of men on the planet, to say that a guy with a $3.5mil house is not rich. You're basically saying that the neurosurgeons and high court judges in my country are bums.

And then alot of women act as if wanting a normal and healthy weight woman is completely unrealistic... This just getting more and more ridiculous..



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Apparently my aspirations of becoming a surgeon makes me nothing more than some low-life loser..
I guess I'll have to start banging hookers... No woman would ever want to settle for some loser with a $1mil house and an audi...



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It's just an insult to 99.6% of men on the planet, to say that a guy with a $3.5mil house is not rich. You're basically saying that the neurosurgeons and high court judges in my country are bums.

And then alot of women act as if wanting a normal and healthy weight woman is completely unrealistic... This just getting more and more ridiculous..


Welcome to dating in 2018, lol.



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12 Dec 2017, 9:52 am

Closet Genious wrote:
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I somewhat agree with u in that women definitely think they want a middle class man but I tell u they don’t! It’s one of those things u have to have xyz to know u don’t want it. The realities of the middle class man is that he is most probably just an unsuccessful rich man making him angry, highly taxed and stressed with zero time. Reality is even if u take these trips with the middle class man he will be working or worrying about work or if someone is filling he’s job he’ll be worried they’ll do it better. What women want is to be the third wife of a interesting somewhat successful older man who has this competive crap out of his system but still just young enough to climb the volcano in Hawaii and make one last lovely baby but can afford a au pair from day one to carry it around and take it away when it is a screameeee. Someone who has made their mistakes already.

I think lots of women think they want jewellery and cars but personally if someone reads to me or the most romantic thing ever hang Christmas lights in a tree to surprise me (that hasn’t happened it’s a daydream) that stuff would blow my mind. Most women can buy themselves things and do!


Women want to be a 3rd wife?
Also what your saying is they want to marry a trump like guy who’s upper middle class or rich? And be a trophy wife to a guy with multiple ex’s and kids about the same age as them? Certainly most women don’t want that? I hope anyways.

3rd wife? No I definitely wouldn't want to be a 3rd wife. I'm not attracted to men twice my age (or even older). I'm not forcing myself to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. Also, why did his previous two marriages fail? If he already had two failed marriages it's more likely the third will fail too. I'm guessing it'd fail as soon as I'd start to get wrinkles.
No thanks, I'm better off without that.


Hmm what r u going to do when who ever u marry gets older? Will u be attracted to someone older as you age yourself? It’s interesting but I think lots of ppl esp men are never attracted to older women. I want to be the 3rd wife so all the learning is done by then so he will take holidays play with his children want to go to the movies normal stuff other ppl take for granted. Like that guy who owns the formula one but not him and not that wealthy.

I definitely do not want a rich guy (houses r v expensive in Sydney so a nice new but not ridiculous house say 5 bedrooms 2 bathrooms and a double garage might go for $3.5m if ur lucky) so I would ideally like a man who has worked hard his whole life so would have ability to buy something like that (don’t forget because he’s old the block of land would have been $30,000 back in the early 1980s which any sort of clerk could buy it’s the Chinese dumping their money in our north property market causing massive house price rises) the actual house would cost around $500k (a very average finance manager might be around $180k here but even they would work at least 10 hrs a day). I know this sounds like a lot of money it is but at the same time it’s not because Aussies have “the great Australian dream” which is normally buying a house on a big ish block. I’m not into boats, cars, any other trappings of wealth but I would like an office with sound proof walks and a granny flat I could use for a lab for my science hobbies.


You don't want a rich guy, but you want a guy with a $3.5m dollar house? How is that not a rich man lol
There's no way a doctor or a lawyer could even afford a house like that.



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12 Dec 2017, 10:01 am

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Apparently my aspirations of becoming a surgeon makes me nothing more than some low-life loser..
I guess I'll have to start banging hookers... No woman would ever want to settle for some loser with a $1mil house and an audi...



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You're musician too, right? Maybe later you can found something like this, I always watch their concerts:
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Actually more of audio/mix engineer, but yes. I've played the drums since I was 8.. I'm not too shabby on keys and guitar either..

Maybe you just predicted my future. One of my musician friends is studying medicine too currently :) . It's difficult to give up on music, but I had to realize I was not good enough to make it. While I do have some talent, only the top 1% of audio engineers make a decent living. It was a bitter pill to swallow though.



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12 Dec 2017, 11:12 am

^ You will be still a big loser for Cat though.



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12 Dec 2017, 11:26 am

^Indeed. But in that regard I was already screwed the day I was born, one of her criteria was inhereting money from my rich parents. Both of my parents are sick and poor.
I think it's better to define success on one's own terms and I aim for that.
Cat gives me crippling depression. :P



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12 Dec 2017, 11:32 am

^ She would depress 99% of men on this planet.



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12 Dec 2017, 1:03 pm

For $10 I'll tell her. :lol:


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Happy to be a 3rd wife if the man is interesting enough, adult children don’t bother me but men obsessed with money do. I think jewellery is such a waste... u have a lucky future gf! 5-10 gifts! Interesting other than razor and cologne commercials I can’t think of any aimed at buying men presents... but heaps for women!


Why not a 1st wife to interesting enough man? Or just a gf to him. What’s an interesting enough man?
No but you’d bother the adult child which will create drama.

I don’t think I’ll ever have a gf. Women aren’t interested in me. I’m not a real man to them.

Tool commercials are geared towards gifts for men so they can do the projects around the house their wife wants done. So not even a real gift :roll:
Mean my uncle likes tools, he’s a contractor but I sure he rather get clothes or glass blowing stuff.(his hobby). Here’s a drill honey now you can hang those shelf’s for me l yay



It's unlikely anyone old enough wouldn't have had a few ex wives 35-55 men are too ambitious so I'd be happier with the baggage of a few ex wives and adult step children not interested in the money so the adult children can be my buddies it'd all be fine. It has to be marriage (cause I'm a romantic in my own way). To be interesting they'd have to be pretty different... near to crazy it's a rare quality to be and not one that is much sort after they would also have to be action orientated and preferably service driven asking for much??

This sounds a bit odd but what do u mean your not a real man to them? Why would u think that as opposed to being just someone they don't like? Or like like that? I've never thought men don't see me as a woman but plenty haven't liked me I'm sure.


I dont know a lot of people stay together til death. My uncle married my aunt and hey still together.

The kids won’t want to be your friend. They won’t want their dad dating a woman their same age and will hate you and attempt to split you and their dad up.

Real men are ambitious, have good paying jobs, have an ice car, have their own place. Real men are providers for their women.

I don’t have any of this things So they say I’m not a real man. I’m sub human to most women.

Probably cause men don’t have a list of requirements for what makes a real woman. I’ve never seen men use such a term but lots of women use real man. They just want a real man. Wheres all the real men.



An ice car! That would be sooooooooooo cool! :D



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Happy to be a 3rd wife if the man is interesting enough, adult children don’t bother me but men obsessed with money do. I think jewellery is such a waste... u have a lucky future gf! 5-10 gifts! Interesting other than razor and cologne commercials I can’t think of any aimed at buying men presents... but heaps for women!


Why not a 1st wife to interesting enough man? Or just a gf to him. What’s an interesting enough man?
No but you’d bother the adult child which will create drama.

I don’t think I’ll ever have a gf. Women aren’t interested in me. I’m not a real man to them.

Tool commercials are geared towards gifts for men so they can do the projects around the house their wife wants done. So not even a real gift :roll:
Mean my uncle likes tools, he’s a contractor but I sure he rather get clothes or glass blowing stuff.(his hobby). Here’s a drill honey now you can hang those shelf’s for me l yay



It's unlikely anyone old enough wouldn't have had a few ex wives 35-55 men are too ambitious so I'd be happier with the baggage of a few ex wives and adult step children not interested in the money so the adult children can be my buddies it'd all be fine. It has to be marriage (cause I'm a romantic in my own way). To be interesting they'd have to be pretty different... near to crazy it's a rare quality to be and not one that is much sort after they would also have to be action orientated and preferably service driven asking for much??

This sounds a bit odd but what do u mean your not a real man to them? Why would u think that as opposed to being just someone they don't like? Or like like that? I've never thought men don't see me as a woman but plenty haven't liked me I'm sure.


I dont know a lot of people stay together til death. My uncle married my aunt and hey still together.

The kids won’t want to be your friend. They won’t want their dad dating a woman their same age and will hate you and attempt to split you and their dad up.

Real men are ambitious, have good paying jobs, have an ice car, have their own place. Real men are providers for their women.

I don’t have any of this things So they say I’m not a real man. I’m sub human to most women.

Probably cause men don’t have a list of requirements for what makes a real woman. I’ve never seen men use such a term but lots of women use real man. They just want a real man. Wheres all the real men.



An ice car! That would be sooooooooooo cool! :D

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12 Dec 2017, 4:30 pm

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Don't date a girl that's fat if you're aren't into "BBW" women. It's a bad idea to date a girl and expect her to loose weight. She might loose weight after you breakup to spite you and then a year or 2 later gain all the weight back. Too many people are fat, simply because they're lazy. Now, there COULD be medical issues and birth control pills do cause weight gain and turn women crazy, because of all the extra estrogen. I have seen dating profile where women state "Sorry, I like to eat." Well, I like women that look attractive and not like they sit on their butt and eat all day. There is no reason to feel guilty for not being attracted to a fat woman. Just as there isn't any guilt for women who aren't attracted to fat men, there shouldn't be any guilt for men not attracted to fat women. I talked to a girl that was a friend of a friend and we almost started dating. She told me she wanted to loose weight. 5 years later, she weighs the same.


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Sounds like you’re obsessed with fat people. Don’t date them if you don’t like them, noone is telling you to.

I’d date fat men, they’re better than men with bad social skills. :P

That is a very lame comeback. It sounds like you are here to browse comment sections to comments on posts you disagree with from men not attracted to fat women, because you yourself may be fat, or were fat at one point. See, I can play this game too. Also, not being attracted to fat people doesn't mean you have bad social skills. Also, it's pretty asinine even bringing that up in an autism forum. You basically just told most of the males(not me because I'm super high functioning, though I am not James Bond), losers by making that statement. You just pretty much told them, it is better if they are fat, than to have social problems. That was pretty crappy. You should feel ashamed. I say that jokingly, but also seriously. It's a lot easier to loose weight, than to have your brain reprogrammed.