leahbear wrote:
I met my boyfriend at a rave, he’s a dj. We’ve been together for 9 years and are very much in love. Of course our rave scene was a little different than most with many people being programmers or engineers and the rest very nerd friendly. We were both into the sex, drugs, and techno when we were younger but moved away from it and grew out of it together. We had some good times

A lot of people met at those parties and many of them are still together.
I guess there's hope that raves are a good place for finding a girlfriend. Last time I met a girl at a Drum & Bass party, went out with her, and slept with her but then she gave me that "I don't have time for a relationship". Made me think raves were a bad place to find love given that I tried (am still trying) to replicate that success that night and nothing.