approached 1000+ women with no luck

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ugly women dont want ugly guys. i am proof of it.

It’s probably messaging on dating sites.

It doesn’t count as real rejection like getting to know someone and actually interacting with them. It’s not a realistic environment.

I sincerely doubt he’s approached and gotten to know 1000 women.

You think that YOU are ugly?



I am uglier than this guy.

Yet, in my single years, I was able to date women. While it did help to have some spending cash, what I had going for me was a (faked) cheerful disposition, a (faked) attentive attitude, and a (real) talent with musical instruments.

Some say that all it takes to be popular is the ability to fake sincerity.

So, I guess that ugly guys who can't get dates need only decide which is more important: Deception or loneliness.

Have you tried building friendships with any of these women first? I get a little creeped out when some random guy asks me out. Also, it can make you seem desperate which adds to the creepiness.

Try building friendships with women you have something in common with. If it doesn’t lead to a relationship, she might have single friends...

How did you approach those women??

I never say there's someone for everyone. I think that's a ridiculous statement.
I very much doubt I'd be attracted to the sort of person who claims to have approached 1000+ women who he has ranked and deemed objectively "ugly". And it wouldn't be his looks that would be the problem.

Also, what Fnord said.

Better to approach one with some potential than 1000+ randomly. Love is not a big numbers game.

You think that YOU are ugly?



I am uglier than this guy.

Yet, in my single years, I was able to date women. While it did help to have some spending cash, what I had going for me was a (faked) cheerful disposition, a (faked) attentive attitude, and a (real) talent with musical instruments.

Some say that all it takes to be popular is the ability to fake sincerity.

So, I guess that ugly guys who can't get dates need only decide which is more important: Deception or loneliness.

Who’s...wait...

Ok, I’m the resident numbers game guy. Out of 1000+ you should have AT LEAST 10.

If I understand correctly, you’re approaching ugly women because you’re an ugly guy. The problem is you’re lowering your standards to attract women you assume are desperate, and I would guess it’s all out of your own desperation that you do this. “Ugly women,” if they exist, are only ugly. They aren’t desperate.

You might also be trapped in a self-fulfilling prophecy. You consider yourself ugly and assume pretty girls won’t have you. You suspect ugly girls have high standards that don’t include ugly guys. So you don’t really make the effort to get to know girls and spin acquaintances into dates. And then your failure to get dates feeds right back into your confirmation bias.

I’m curious about these 1000+ women you’ve met and gotten to know. Over what time frame? How did you meet? How long have you been in contact with them? See, if you take a single year and mass-swipe girls in dating websites or whatever you do, or you approach every women on the street and ask for a date, no, that’s not going to work. If you reach every last woman on the planet you might eventually get somewhere, but that’s not really the way to go. You need to form actual relationships and move those towards something romantic. That takes time. I would set a goal to form 100 relationships on a basic level within a year. That means knowing the names of 100 girls you see somewhat regularly, girls you have conversations with, and actually REMEMBER important information about them. If you can manage that, you’re practically guaranteed at least one date by the end of the year.

Are you even that ugly?

I am also VERY ugly, but I had decent success at online dating when I was specifically looking for the type of a person who might be interested in me. And it's not the same as looking for the female version of you.

You think that YOU are ugly?



I am uglier than this guy.

Yet, in my single years, I was able to date women. While it did help to have some spending cash, what I had going for me was a (faked) cheerful disposition, a (faked) attentive attitude, and a (real) talent with musical instruments.

Some say that all it takes to be popular is the ability to fake sincerity.

So, I guess that ugly guys who can't get dates need only decide which is more important: Deception or loneliness.

I was thinking of this, how he did it, yes, 1000+ women ... it's a lot
Tinder!! !
I'm pretty sure he meant swiping 1000 times, otherwise I don't believe this. Sorry.

Okay, we get it: You're ugly and your social life is a joke.

Is there anything else you can talk about, or is this all that girls get to hear from you?

I never talk about this, just sometimes on this forum.

You have no idea how it feels to be ugly....