“I’m looking for men who aren’t trash” what’s that mean?

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19 Dec 2018, 8:55 am

code for good guys but it is a bit of a stock phrase so i wouldn't read into it too much

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19 Dec 2018, 8:55 am

I had a lot of female friends, two groups actually, (the first were 3 girls, and the second were 4) and both ended up horribly due to fights between each other in the exact same fashion; they trusted me to the point that i escort them at night.

What's funny that they all complained/gossiped to me against the other, and wanted me to take sides.

Gawd, frankly, it was horrible.

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I didn't have to set boundaries because gentlemen know what is and is not appropriate.

Omg, for the first time, I agree with you.

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19 Dec 2018, 8:59 am

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When I use the term rejected I'm maybe being dramatic. You can be rejected in the sense that you know fine well your acquaintance has zero attraction to you or interest in getting to know you better in a dating sense.

You mean in the same manner how I treat IsabellaLinton?

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19 Dec 2018, 9:00 am

I was always a gentleman.

I never "tried anything" until I knew---by glint of caresses---that a woman desired me.

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19 Dec 2018, 10:01 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

^ Aspie1 didn't have any exes, if I recall right.

Oh he did indeed. In college. He found the relationship stifling. I remember because I was trying to convince him that she was just the wrong girl for him and he might meet someone else in time, but he wasn't having it.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:15 pm

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My answer to sly about women who say they can't find anyone in a city of 1000s.

Attraction is complicated. There can be very valid reasons for not clicking with or not dating someone. Just because 2 people are single doesn't mean they are suited to each other.

The men they meet are not what they want. That's fine.

My 2 male acquaintances don't want any of the single women in our social circle. That's fine too.

The 2 guys who asked me out 10 years ago were not my type. What does that mean? I just found them a little too annoying to ever consider living with. They were both very dull. I didnt mind having a chat with them once in a while. They are nice enough people, but i don't want to see them on a consistent basis. I was attached to one, but his personality put me off.

They want men with middle class jobs , car and home.
My point is them saying “there’s no men to date!! !! ! Poor me” is a lie.
There’s plenty of men they could date if they stopped caring about his job and car status, and if he has his own places. So them being single is their own choice.
I and many of ther men meet their non superficial requirements. Attributes, personality, interests etc. we fall short of them wanting a nyc income man. We’re a lumber city nit NYC.

you don’t go around claiming there’s physically no men in existence to date.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:17 pm

There's no men they want to date.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:22 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

RetroGamer87 wrote:

sly279 wrote:

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If they lived together and she cooked a lot, wouldn't it mean that she either likes cooking or has agreed to cook?

Parasites are those who contribute nothing of value to the relationship, regardless of their gender. Women can be parasites to men and to other women as well. Men can be parasites to women or to other men. The key is to avoid parasites, not to stop being in relationships.

And yes, I have a fairly large house. You're both welcome as well as anyone else from WP who would like to break some bread and share some good times. I'll even do the dishes, because I'm hosting.

I don’t offer anything of value.
I’m poor and lack any talents.

Some women just want someone to hold them at night. I assume you can do that.

Most of those women already happily have someone. Most of What’s left is the picky ones who never found a man who meets their requirements hence why they’re single still at 30.

If men and women exist in roughly equal numbers, how can there be millions of single men while every woman has someone?

Every woman? Where are you looking? I'm single and nearly every woman I know (NT and ND) is, too.
My nephew is in his 20s and most of his female friends are single as well.

I didn't mean every woman has a partner. I was trying to prove to Sly that the existence of single men means there must also be single men. Probably the roughly the same number of each.

Gender populations are not equal there isn’t the same a,mount of women as men.my
area has 3,000 more men. NYC has thousands and thousands of more women then men.
nyc has a problem where men are playing withnwomen. Ie having sex with as many as possible rsther then settling down. This happens at colleges where there’s more women then men. The other side is women are more picky where there’s more men then women. Both realize they are in demand and so can do what they want.
Maybe I’d have more luck in nyc, nit much more but probably some due to being more women then men most who want to be in relationships.
Imagine if there was 50 men per 1,000 women in the USA. Do you think women would be as picky?

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19 Dec 2018, 5:27 pm

My housemate said she would ignore any man on a dating site who called her "babe" or sent a generic message or commented on her appearance or had half naked pictures on their profile.
That was about 99% of them.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:29 pm

^ That's without mentioning the outright rude, nasty, passive aggressive and sexually suggestive ones.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:30 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:

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Women work because they wanted to work, they fought to be able to work.

Believe I know some women who'd love to retire. They have work so they can eat and pay the bills.

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Most Women don’t want to be judged based on their wieght but judge men based on theirs.

They may not want to be judged based on their weight but they're certainly judging themselves based on their weight. Even if no man comments on their weight, that won't silence their inner critic. Anyway, how many women have called you fat?

Women didn’t have to work in the 30s. If women never were allowed to work it’d be the same today. More men would work and they’d provide for the women.
Women were nit made to work. Yes ones today have to but they didn’t have to, their ancestors fought to be able to work. It was a civil rights movement. It was hard fought as most men back then didn’t think women should work. Then in 50s-70s women fought to be able to work in jobs that were being a secretary or nurse, now women can be whatever they want. By saying they have to and always had too yiu are erasing the hard fought history to get women to where they are today.
Most people wouldn’t choose to work today if they don’t have to. Both men and women, most people hate their jobs.

Quite a lot.
It’s a common reason to reject men after income status.
They want thin athletic men just like most men what a thin athletic woman.
Difference is men get called out and shamed for it

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19 Dec 2018, 5:31 pm

Raleigh wrote:

There's no men they want to date.

They don’t say that though they say there’s no men as if they live in a city of only women and it’s the lack of men any men is why they are single and they are sad about it.
They reap what they sow.

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19 Dec 2018, 5:37 pm

^ think you're taking that very literally.
It's the same as saying "there's nothing to do in this town."
There are obviously things to do but you don't want to do them.

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19 Dec 2018, 6:13 pm

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^ think you're taking that very literally.
It's the same as saying "there's nothing to do in this town."
There are obviously things to do but you don't want to do them.

Not when they explain they can’t find a single man at all and how they doomed to be alone forever cause there’s no men.
It’s freaking insulting to me a single man to be told that. Cause to them I don’t count as I’m not a real man.
Maybe I should put there’s no women on my dating profile and go on about why

Also if I don’t care that they sad and single. In fact I’m glad. It’s what they deserve. They caused it themselves and could fix it in a heartbeat themselves. Sorry I don’t Pitty superficial women or men being sad cause of being single.

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19 Dec 2018, 6:52 pm

sly279 wrote:

RetroGamer87 wrote:

sly279 wrote:

Women work because they wanted to work, they fought to be able to work.

Believe I know some women who'd love to retire. They have work so they can eat and pay the bills.

sly279 wrote:

Most Women don’t want to be judged based on their wieght but judge men based on theirs.

Play Station, Xbox, Pay TV and chatting on forums all day long and living in our parents basement. There is absolutely no incentive for millions of lesser men to do anything with our lives. There is shortage of high quality men that are dateable men that women want.

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19 Dec 2018, 7:03 pm

Goddamit!

I'm not a "lesser" man because I'm just a clerk.

I'm not a "lesser" man because I'm 5 foot 5.

I'm not a "lesser" man because I didn't get my drivers license until I was 37.

I'm not a "lesser" man because I'm autistic.

AND YOU'RE NOT A "LESSER" MAN, EITHER....unless you're a criminal or something....

Enough of this alpha/beta/gamma crap!! !!

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