SusieQC wrote:
@kraftiekortie I am trying to figure out if this is behavior that can be attributed to my bf being on the spectrum or if is just unkind and/or uncaring behavior. Looking for insight/opinions/experiences. Thank you.
I imagine it's a bit hard to answer this question not knowing what it was you were asking for. What's urgent to one person may not be to another.
It may also help to know the way in which you worded the request. (and I say this as the partner of an Aspie). For example, if you said "Hey I have a flat tire" that's not a request, that's a statement. If instead you said, "I have a flat tire and I need you to come out here immediately to help me change it because I need to get to an appointment for my job asap" that's more of a declaration of the problem and a request for help.
I'm not saying that's what happened but that as an example gives us more of an idea of what happened to help the reader possibly understand someone's behavior.
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