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11 Apr 2019, 12:46 am

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Aw geez. I'm not on Facebook for dating, but I have people on there I know now or in the past a bit and considered friends... and I wish them HB when the birthday status comes up. So do they hate me for that?

I'm just not that active. Not going to change. Didn't realize I was offending anyone.

I am not offended by those, just....totally indifferent.

Fortunately, we're not friends on Facebook.

Actually what’s funny is when you see HB by someone (usually a woman) who ghosted me and didn’t reply to my last 1-2 messages (yet marked as read).

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11 Apr 2019, 2:39 am

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Sly is not "low quality" at all.

He can get a little irritating at times----but he has pretty decent morals.

He takes care of his family. He cares about his family.

Girls like that more than most things.

Not in my experience

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11 Apr 2019, 5:11 am

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What is swiping? :roll:

It’s how dating works now.
There’s a picture of a person, brief summary about them and you swipe right to like them left to pass on them. Then another person pops up , there’s a queen of people for you. ,ost let you swip as many a day you want. Tinder limits you to 50 or something
If they like you too you match and can message each other,

You sweep swipe them away?
Jeez -- that's not very good for the self-esteem. No wonder you feel blue sometimes.

I'd stick to meeting people in real life as much as possible -- but I know you've heard that before.

Thin, attractive women need a dating site?? Probably psycho's.

Quickly and off-topic, how's your grandma?

People sweep me away, no one ever swipes right on me

The thin attractive women wouldn’t date me anyways, thin attractive women with fat men only happens in movies.

Women in public ignore me, I’m not worth their time even few seconds of it.
I never met anyone in person. I tried going to social event for aspies but was ignored there too and left to sit alone in the corner and watch everyone else chat and have fun.
Some days I really just wish I’d die like today. Just being laying in bed all day crying.
Haven’t drank a thing all day so feel dry and thirsty.

I don’t really know, shes back home. We aren’t close anymore haven’t been for years since that fIrate surgery.

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11 Apr 2019, 10:15 pm

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We may continue to produce sperm, but it degrades in quality and quantity as we age, thus we are less fertile. I personally haven't noticed a difference in volume, but it may vary from person to person or perhaps I am just not old enough to notice a difference.

No women will stop producing eggs when they hit menopause thus they have a more limited quantity.

The game is stacked against men from the start. Women have no difficulty finding men unless they are truly hideous. Historically 80% of women and only 40% of men got to reproduce.

8000 years ago it was only 1 man in 17 reproduced.
https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-r ... ve-success

They probably had some Tinder mechanism on stone tablets!
(Yes, throwing tablet to the right *break sounds*, No! to the left *breaks*.... Oh a match *smashing tablet to the head)

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11 Apr 2019, 11:33 pm

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What is swiping? :roll:

People sweep me away, no one ever swipes right on me

Huh?

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11 Apr 2019, 11:48 pm

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I’m going only swipe right in bigger less attractive women near by, and swipe left on thin attractive ones and ones outside of 10 miles.

That's a bad strategy. If you swipe left on the thin attractive ones, you won't get to date them.

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15 Apr 2019, 8:23 am

Facebook is pretty fake. I really only use it now to waste time on groups. The internet in general is fake, so is real life. I keep to myself and tend to my plants.

Too much fake to deal with otherwise.

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15 Apr 2019, 5:40 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:

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I’m going only swipe right in bigger less attractive women near by, and swipe left on thin attractive ones and ones outside of 10 miles.

That's a bad strategy. If you swipe left on the thin attractive ones, you won't get to date them.

They’d never even talk to me non less date me. Thin or attractive women know they’re too good for me.

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17 Apr 2019, 6:38 pm

sly279 wrote:

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I’m going only swipe right in bigger less attractive women near by, and swipe left on thin attractive ones and ones outside of 10 miles.

That's a bad strategy. If you swipe left on the thin attractive ones, you won't get to date them.

They’d never even talk to me non less date me. Thin or attractive women know they’re too good for me.

They'll know if you tell them so don't tell them.

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The thin attractive women wouldn’t date me anyways, thin attractive women with fat men only happens in movies.

Wrong. I'm a fat man and thin attractive women date me.

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17 Apr 2019, 6:42 pm

What?

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17 Apr 2019, 8:39 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:

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I’m going only swipe right in bigger less attractive women near by, and swipe left on thin attractive ones and ones outside of 10 miles.

That's a bad strategy. If you swipe left on the thin attractive ones, you won't get to date them.

They’d never even talk to me non less date me. Thin or attractive women know they’re too good for me.

They'll know if you tell them so don't tell them.

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The thin attractive women wouldn’t date me anyways, thin attractive women with fat men only happens in movies.

Wrong. I'm a fat man and thin attractive women date me.

You also have a decent job, you're presumably independent and you tend to go for women from other countries and cultures though, don't you? There's a bit of a difference between your situation and sly's

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17 Apr 2019, 9:59 pm

^

If I made 50,000 a year owned a bmw and lived alone did probably have better luck and be married with kids by now. I’ve seen uglier and fater men then me with thin women but they are all quite well off men.

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18 Apr 2019, 9:15 pm

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The thin attractive women wouldn’t date me anyways, thin attractive women with fat men only happens in movies.

My ex weighed like half of what I do and is attractive. The world has too many stories all going on for some of them to not be even less believable than movies.

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18 Apr 2019, 11:53 pm

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The thin attractive women wouldn’t date me anyways, thin attractive women with fat men only happens in movies.

My ex weighed like half of what I do and is attractive. The world has too many stories all going on for some of them to not be even less believable than movies.

Are you also a worthless sub human ?
I’m that and ugly and fat. Most women won’t treat me like a human why would they date me?
I bet most see me as lower then their dog.

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19 Apr 2019, 1:10 am

sly279 wrote:

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The thin attractive women wouldn’t date me anyways, thin attractive women with fat men only happens in movies.

My ex weighed like half of what I do and is attractive. The world has too many stories all going on for some of them to not be even less believable than movies.

Are you also a worthless sub human ?
I’m that and ugly and fat. Most women won’t treat me like a human why would they date me?
I bet most see me as lower then their dog.

I'm no better than you.

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20 Apr 2019, 8:59 pm

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You also have a decent job

Yeah. That actually makes a huge difference. Back when I was in a lower paid job, I only got a handful of dates and I was never in a relationship. After I got a higher paid job, I got more dates, from women who were more attractive and I got into actual relationships. I've been in my current relationship for over a year.

I don't actually blame women for wanting to date a guy with a decent job, especially if they themselves have a decent job. They want to go to the same places and live the same middle-class lifestyle without having to pay for their partner. I wouldn't want to date a woman without a decent job so I wouldn't blame her for having the same expectations I have.

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If I made 50,000 a year owned a bmw and lived alone

BMW? You don't even need a car. I don't own one. I'll admit that living alone is a big help, not so much as a status symbol but because it makes it easier to have peaceful alone time (both intimate and non-intimate) with whomever you're dating.

Being interrupted by parents or siblings kind of ruins the mood. Another benefit of having a place of one's own is that it makes it much easier for her to move in with you. She might not be so keen on cohabitating if you already live in a full house.

Then again, women from other cultures may be more accepting of you living with and looking after your parents since that type of thing is par for the course in some countries.

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There's a bit of a difference between your situation and sly's

There is now. 5 years ago we were both in the same boat.

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