What type of woman do you think would be a good match for me

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I'm 22 years old and have autism. I have severe ADHD and I awkwardly like to move alot. I like to rock on my bed and listen to music. I have a couple close friends and was the least popular in high school. My IQ is 82 and I graduated high school but not going to college. I live with my dad in a condo and work in a lock making shop. I like to smoke weed, go on hikes, go to concerts, listen to music, I'm a moderate drinker. My favorite bands are Old Linkin Park, Metallica, Ghost, R.E.M., Queens of the Stone Age, Nightwish, Dead Kennedys, Eminem, Watsky, Hollywood Undead, Iced Earth, Marilyn Manson, and Korn. I also play guitar. My favorite beers are Mickeys, founders, and Fosters. I like to watch comedy movies. People consider me an honest and funny person and everyone who meets me happens to like me. I'm not the temper tantrums type of autistic. I'm just socially awkward. I'm hoping there's some woman out there for me. I'm just trying to see what others think. I never tried a dating website yet but I'm just wondering. How likely is it that I will fall in love?

Had no friends in school but have friends now. People did like me as acquaintance though

Pretty similar to my situation.

I was, like a couple of others, one of the least "popular" kids in my school. But I get along with my co-workers.

The type of woman who would be a "good match" is someone who is easy to talk to, doesn't let everything bother her, and really seems to think that you are one of the greatest things the world has to offer.

There are all kinds of women out there that like all kinds of things. And you incress your chances online, there being a little bit of everthing here.
And keep in mind if nothing ever comes about at least you will know you tired.
It doesnt make the nights any less lonely, but either you spend your life trying or you spend it dying, and i found this to be true of all life.

Like the poet once said:

"He not busy being born
Is busy dying."
Bob Dylan

Hang tough, and good luck.

Also check this out there are people that are attracted to paraplegic people, surly there are women for crazy folks like us.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attract ... disability

Try a dating site, don't be a creep, and you'll do okay.

Don't spend too much time thinking about what kind of women would be attracted to you. Instead think about what kind of women you'd be attracted to. Eventually you'll find one from this group who likes you, maybe for reasons you didn't expect.

Dating is a crapshoot (e.g., a gamble; something that involves the rolling of dice). Everybody lies. Everybody is out to get something, whether it is money, sex, a green card, transitional surgery, an alibi to a crime, et cetera. "Putting yourself out there" without expressing your standards, and then having high expectations about the people you attract will only lead to heartbreak. Better to have high standards, express them up front, and be called "Stuck Up" than to express no standards at all and put up with every creep and loser looking for a victim.

"Straight SF seeks straight SM, 30-40 YOA. No smokers, drunks, junkies, convicts, ex-convicts, marrieds, unemployed, or LGBTQs. Must have graduate STEM degree, legal income, own home, and own transportation. Must provide valid resume, references, and identification. Candidates may be asked to submit to background/credit checks, and blood/DNA testing."

I mean ... why do some people place less importance on the character of someone they are dating (and may eventually marry) than they would place on the character of someone they would hire?