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04 Aug 2007, 4:50 pm

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I'm an aspie and I am hideous. I don't even want a mirror in my bathroom. 8O


I lied, I was being overly modest.

Apparently I am actually quite attractive. However it draws way too much attention to me, from women and even some guys. This attention from both annoys the hell out of me. Being the socially withdrawn, social anxiety aspie I am, this attention is something that I don't want. Also I think I might more asexual than I would like to admit.



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04 Aug 2007, 6:16 pm

I think I am good looking, what is a good luck for everyone, aspie or not.


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04 Aug 2007, 6:29 pm

I think I am cute...
sexy no
cute perhaps :)



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04 Aug 2007, 6:46 pm

Once in a blue moon someone finds me attractive, but generally my problems start at the neck and work their way up :P



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04 Aug 2007, 8:50 pm

Jimbogf wrote:
Jimbogf wrote:
I'm an aspie and I am hideous. I don't even want a mirror in my bathroom. 8O


I lied, I was being overly modest.

Apparently I am actually quite attractive. However it draws way too much attention to me, from women and even some guys. This attention from both annoys the hell out of me. Being the socially withdrawn, social anxiety aspie I am, this attention is something that I don't want. Also I think I might more asexual than I would like to admit.


try cutting your nose off.



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04 Aug 2007, 10:13 pm

I don't really know if I would be considered good looking or not. I do look a hell of a lot younger that what I am though. Today I told someone I was 40 and they were really surprised. They thought I was about 25.


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05 Aug 2007, 5:02 am

Metal_Man wrote:
I don't really know if I would be considered good looking or not. I do look a hell of a lot younger that what I am though. Today I told someone I was 40 and they were really surprised. They thought I was about 25.


I have this happen all the time.
Get proofed at bars, and even
for tobacco.

I fear that 'twill all crash at once
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05 Aug 2007, 11:34 am

This is crap , I am 25 , people estimate that i am 16 or 17 but looking young doesn't necessarily make you look good .

Overall , I am not good-looking or attractive just too average or less (and no it's a self-esteem issue) .



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05 Aug 2007, 1:58 pm

I think the amount of self-esteem in this thread pretty much affirms everything I've said in other threads.



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05 Aug 2007, 2:38 pm

May I please kick the person who started this...oh never mind! :roll:

I agree with LePetit, people think you're younger just by looking at you.

I'm 17 and most people think I'm 14 or 15 give the fact I'm 5'10''!
Anyway, picture the shorter idiot-child version of Jake Gyllenhaal & Tobey Maguire with brown eyes and you get me. I'm not as good-looking as most girls say I am but I am a guy with sub-average looks.


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06 Aug 2007, 4:11 pm

Im average looking ( I know this because ive been told ) , and I have ASD . Yeh they are right....looks arent everything...you should get to know a girl instead of just basing everything on a physical attraction ! =D



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06 Aug 2007, 4:23 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
May I please kick the person who started this...oh never mind! :roll:

I agree with LePetit, people think you're younger just by looking at you.

I'm 17 and most people think I'm 14 or 15 give the fact I'm 5'10''!
Anyway, picture the shorter idiot-child version of Jake Gyllenhaal & Tobey Maguire with brown eyes and you get me. I'm not as good-looking as most girls say I am but I am a guy with sub-average looks.


^^ haha I am 5'3'' ...go figure



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06 Aug 2007, 7:14 pm

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Are most Aspies good-looking?


No, just Sedaka. A woman with hair of Biblical proportions. :)


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06 Aug 2007, 7:42 pm

Ragtime wrote:
Chuchulainn wrote:
Are most Aspies good-looking?


No, just Sedaka. A woman with hair of Biblical proportions. :)


And a thousand funny faces to pull.



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06 Aug 2007, 7:50 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
May I please kick the person who started this...oh never mind! :roll:

I agree with LePetit, people think you're younger just by looking at you.

I'm 17 and most people think I'm 14 or 15 give the fact I'm 5'10''!
Anyway, picture the shorter idiot-child version of Jake Gyllenhaal & Tobey Maguire with brown eyes and you get me. I'm not as good-looking as most girls say I am but I am a guy with sub-average looks.


^^ haha I am 5'3'' ...go figure


I'm 6'4", and yet I still get asked for ID when I go to the pub. Usually depends on wether my hair is down or tied back.



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06 Aug 2007, 8:12 pm

bc1 wrote:
Jimbogf wrote:
Jimbogf wrote:
I'm an aspie and I am hideous. I don't even want a mirror in my bathroom. 8O


I lied, I was being overly modest.

Apparently I am actually quite attractive. However it draws way too much attention to me, from women and even some guys. This attention from both annoys the hell out of me. Being the socially withdrawn, social anxiety aspie I am, this attention is something that I don't want. Also I think I might more asexual than I would like to admit.


try cutting your nose off.


Hey thats a good idea, have any suggestions? Maybe a bandsaw? Or a miter saw? Or an axe to the face? Belt sander? I'm open to suggestions....