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17 May 2020, 7:02 pm
17 May 2020, 7:05 pm
rick42 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
rick42 wrote:
Cyberdad doesn't know how it's like to go a entire lifetime without a single woman being interested in him,but he's telling you,me,along with other aspie men that we continue to try to meet women,that it's our fault for why women dislike us and why meeting women in real life is somehow going to make our situation better,which will not in reality.
I find it odd that an NT, especially one who has no training in psychology, is giving advice to those on the spectrum.
Rather, he should ask questions to try an understand our valid situation and gain enlightenment.
Aspie males have difficultly with relating to NT women.
NT women are usually interested in NT males.
Nature at work.
Natural selection is a biatch.
Not rocket surgery.
I'm starting to agree.Natural selection is probably at work and natural selection is pretty much telling me that I will be alone forever,and there's nothing that I can do about it.You're also correct that NT females are interested in only non aspie males.Even aspie females(who make up a very small % of the population anyway) seem to be only interested in non aspie males as well.
Oh for crying out loud, don't listen to him, there's hundreds of WP members who are married or dating NTs, we aren't the bogey here.
17 May 2020, 7:06 pm
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17 May 2020, 7:08 pm
cyberdad wrote:
rick42 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
rick42 wrote:
Cyberdad doesn't know how it's like to go a entire lifetime without a single woman being interested in him,but he's telling you,me,along with other aspie men that we continue to try to meet women,that it's our fault for why women dislike us and why meeting women in real life is somehow going to make our situation better,which will not in reality.
I find it odd that an NT, especially one who has no training in psychology, is giving advice to those on the spectrum.
Rather, he should ask questions to try an understand our valid situation and gain enlightenment.
Aspie males have difficultly with relating to NT women.
NT women are usually interested in NT males.
Nature at work.
Natural selection is a biatch.
Not rocket surgery.
I'm starting to agree.Natural selection is probably at work and natural selection is pretty much telling me that I will be alone forever,and there's nothing that I can do about it.You're also correct that NT females are interested in only non aspie males.Even aspie females(who make up a very small % of the population anyway) seem to be only interested in non aspie males as well.
Oh for crying out loud, don't listen to him, there's hundreds of WP members who are married or dating NTs, we aren't the bogey here.
At some point you might have to let people who insist on choosing failure to just stew in their own negativity and self-fulfilling prophecies while everyone else achieves some level of success around them. If they'd like to pull themselves out of the misery stew and try again later we'll still be here to offer a hand but until they make that decision for themselves there's no point waiting leaned over with your hand out.
17 May 2020, 7:23 pm
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17 May 2020, 7:28 pm
17 May 2020, 7:36 pm
17 May 2020, 7:54 pm
funeralxempire wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
rick42 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
rick42 wrote:
Cyberdad doesn't know how it's like to go a entire lifetime without a single woman being interested in him,but he's telling you,me,along with other aspie men that we continue to try to meet women,that it's our fault for why women dislike us and why meeting women in real life is somehow going to make our situation better,which will not in reality.
I find it odd that an NT, especially one who has no training in psychology, is giving advice to those on the spectrum.
Rather, he should ask questions to try an understand our valid situation and gain enlightenment.
Aspie males have difficultly with relating to NT women.
NT women are usually interested in NT males.
Nature at work.
Natural selection is a biatch.
Not rocket surgery.
I'm starting to agree.Natural selection is probably at work and natural selection is pretty much telling me that I will be alone forever,and there's nothing that I can do about it.You're also correct that NT females are interested in only non aspie males.Even aspie females(who make up a very small % of the population anyway) seem to be only interested in non aspie males as well.
Oh for crying out loud, don't listen to him, there's hundreds of WP members who are married or dating NTs, we aren't the bogey here.
At some point you might have to let people who insist on choosing failure to just stew in their own negativity and self-fulfilling prophecies while everyone else achieves some level of success around them. If they'd like to pull themselves out of the misery stew and try again later we'll still be here to offer a hand but until they make that decision for themselves there's no point waiting leaned over with your hand out.
You seem to be blaming men who are black pilled/incels for their situations with women.There's a difference between being overly "negative"/" having self fulling prophecies" and being realistic.Lets real here. Some men are just doomed to be alone forever no matter what they do.Some males have even been treated poorly by females before they even started becoming interested in dating. For example,I have treated poorly by females ever since 1st Grade when I was 6 years old,and been poorly by females ever since.That's a long f*****g time ago,before some people here were even born.That's NOT something that easily be shaken off.So if people like me can't be "helped",then how would you feel if you been rejected by every single female throughout your entire life? Personally,I really close to giving up women,and can you blame me based on my situation and past experiences?
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17 May 2020, 7:55 pm
17 May 2020, 8:00 pm
rick42 wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
rick42 wrote:
In my 36 years of living,not a single a girl/woman have ever showed interest in me at all.
Well geez, I'm aspie and girls show an interest in me. Maybe you just need to work on your confidence a little.
Confidence won't do s**t to make females like me.Some people are just cursed to be alone forever without being loved for a single day in their lives.At this point,I feel like I will be one these people.
If it makes you feel better,
I don't fancy you getting into my pants either.
I am one of those people to which you refer.
I am unloveable also.
Oh, the pain,
Oh, the humanity.
If you have read my posts on the subject, you will realise I don't respect the significant-other paradigm.
And I actually find it embarrassing.
It is a trade-off, after all, and because personal independence is of major importance for those on the spectrum, having a coupling relationship is hardly the be-all and end-all.
Society has simply conditioned/brainwashed us in thinking it is. <shrug>
When people get older, most will see the wisdom of my brilliance.
17 May 2020, 8:03 pm
Fnord wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
I would like to motivate them to not get into a negative frame of mind that's all.
I get that and it's a good impulse, but has anyone on here ever succeeded at pulling someone out of their misery stew before they were willing to make an effort themselves?Q: How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?
A: One, but the light bulb has got to want to change.
17 May 2020, 8:10 pm
sly279 wrote:
Being I have women show interest in me until they find out my jobs and tell me it’s why they won’t date me. I’d bet it’s the lack of a real job.
The fact is money is what makes most relationships.
I will never own another car, I will never own a house. I will never take vacations around the world. Most women want that, so they want a guy who can have that.
Women, and men, are ultimately pragmatic, even if it is on a subconscious/unconscious level.
Using an evolutionary and heterosexual context:
A woman wants a partner who can protect and support a family unit.
Moolah is a major factor in this equation, these days, in most situations.
Sheldon Lee Cooper has made it perfectly clear that there is no shame in this.
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